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I originally planned to post in the Deli section, but almost by accident decided to post in the Escorts threads. I thought it might be interesting to hear what escorts have to say about this (an clients, as well, since most probably read these threads too)

For those of you who are single, you just don’t have this problem.
For those who are in an open relationship also, I have no idea how you even got there, but you don’t have this issue.
 
For the rest of us (probably a minority), we have, for many reasons, not everything we want at home, and at the same time we have not the ability to be open about the fact that we are hiring sexual services to compensate what we cannot get at home.
 
First, let brush aside why you cannot simply tell our significant other:
It is likely different for everyone. But there may be a recurring reason: The partner believes in monogamy. You don’t. How do you reconcile that? You don’t. Beliefs are not always reconcilable. So you could just tell them about this difference of beliefs and hurt them by telling them you go fuck around, and maybe they will just leave you, or, you can keep it very quiet.
This is the path many choose. It has major disadvantages over being single, but you get to keep a life partner.
 
Why hiring rather than have an affair? An affair is really dangerous. Your casual fuck could become a repeat, which could become a regular, which could fall in love with you. A guy in love with you is ready to do any stupid thing, especially if he is young. So he could be asking for you to get a divorce and marry him, or he could blackmail you to come at your door and reveal everything to your significant other if you don’t leave them for him.
Less dangerous, but still awkward, he could be calling you at the wrong time because he “wants to speak to you and hear your voice”.
 
Hiring escorts avoids all of this with near certainty. An escort is only interested in you because of your money. He won’t fall in love with you, and so you won’t have to be scared that he will do something crazy. It is also part of his job to be very discreet. You don’t even have to tell him where you live or your real name. So he can’t turn up at your door and tell your life partner.
Unless you have money for him, he is not interested in you.
 
The other advantages of escorts over an affair are:
 
1. A lot of variety of guys, rather than repeat with just one guy over and over again.
 
2. The guys you fuck are much hotter than whatever you can pull! Let’s face it, you cannot get hotties any longer. They prefer to sleep with other hotties. Unless you pay them.
 
3. They are pros. They know how to have good sex, because they've had so much of it. Unlike a random average guy you pulled in a bar, who is still guessing the details of how to deep throat properly, or cleanup down there properly.
 
Obviously, with a significant other that cannot know you are hiring, you have a huge amount of limitations:
 
You cannot use your home for anything, unless your significant other goes away for a long period of time AND you can avoid the neighbours seeing your escort, or talking about him completely. Seems unlikely. Also doing something at home means the escort knows where you live and one day he may even consider to blackmail you into giving him money in exchange for “not knocking at your door and telling everything to your significant other”.
If you are single, this blackmail is simply not possible (some other type of blackmail may still be).
 
So you chose home to be out of bounds for escorts. Much simpler.
 
That gives you only very few options:
 
- get a hotel room, which increases the cost of the escort quite significantly, even with day hotels.
 
- use only escorts that do incalls. This reduces the number of escorts you have access to, to 1/3rds of the total number of escorts I think.
 
But also the time at which you are expected home is not extensible indefinitely. In the evening, you are supposed to be back at a time that makes sense for someone that works AND that isn’t having an affair.
 
So when can you see an escort?
 
1. During work hours or lunch time breaks. If your work is intense, this is likely to be very short periods. It won’t make you feel like you have a temporary boyfriend, unlike an overnight could. But if you have a significant other, then maybe you just don’t need that. If you just need to empty your balls, it can make sense.
 
2. After work. Claim that you have an office after-work drinks or something like this. That cannot be too frequent, though. Very suspicious especially if your partner knows some of the people at work.
 
3. A couple of hours in the evenings or weekends. You can claim you are spending time with a friend, if that friend is ready to “cover for you” and lie about the fact that you were together. Alternatively, you can claim you are going to the gym.
 
4. A multi-day business travel: you will be busy during the day (presumably working) but not most evenings. Great, because you have a hotel, so you can do outcalls, and also you don’t have any time by which you are expected at home in the evening. Schedule the maximum amount of fucking that you can afford.
 
5. If you and your partner sometimes go on holidays separately. This is likely to be rare. 2 cases:
A. If your significant other is away on holidays, your schedule at home is completely free. You can be fucking in your home area for as long as you want everyday that they are away. Just make sure you don’t take a FaceTime call from the escort’s bedroom.
B. If you go away on a holiday without your significant other. Even better than business travel: you are completely free to replace museum visits or beach time with as much fucking as you can afford. You can do overnights, breakfasts in bed, lunches and dinners with an escort. Do it all!
 
 
Not sure why I write so much today. Just dumping a load of thoughts onto you guys

I'd much rather have a client over 50 than under 30. My partner is 56, so needless to say, I prefer the company of older men.

I’m not sure how you can ever know positively if a pro is really into older guys, but I’d add Fabian Marco as someone who sure seems to enjoy our time together. I’m in my upper 50s and he is mid 20s.

I can tell you that [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER] , https://rentmen.eu/wickedboy and https://rentmen.eu/VictorPowers are very much into the over 50 clients. They make you feel their equal each minute you are with them. For me and the older clients who have experienced them that have communicated with me, they will tell you their experience was awesome. When I look to hire, I look for wording that they are into the mature gents so to speak. I wish more providers were that specific. There are more but I will others respond as well.

I know this subject has been discussed before, with clients saying they are not really "that old", and escorts saying they love everybody (most likely to ensure business). But , as a matter of common sense, neither of these statements is always true. I have reached an age and "physical type" where a number of younger non-professional guys indicate they are interested in me---most of whom are sweet, but have few sexual skills. So, I am not asking which escorts really and truly would rather be playing with older guys, but which ones appear to be really happy with us, and leave us delighted with this particular older/younger experience.

So I notice that the Forum is filled with frivolous posts. And I wanted to drag it back-whether kicking and scream or not-to something serious. And that serious topic is BELLY BUTTONS!!
 
I notice that a lot of muscular guys, especially bodybuilders, often have outies. I was wondering whether you had to be an outie to be a bodybuilder to begin with-maybe only outies have the proper genetics. Or I was wondering whether developing your abdominals caused the former innies to convert to outies. And I guess an outie might also be a sign you've developed a hernia from straining so much to lift heavy weights. But I'm not talking about humongous abdominal/umbilical hernias-just normal innies and outies.
 
And finally if outies are due to developing your abdominals, and if you stop working out as much, do the outies revert back to innies?
 
 
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I'm sorry that our Los Angeles friend had an unhappy "first time with an escort" with trophyhusband "a couple of years ago." I obviously can't comment about that. This week, however, I had a great time with him.....and saw no evidence that he was in an way unhappy, troubled or otherwise unable to provide a truly great escort experience to me. Either the passage of time has greatly improved him, or it's another example of how various clients have different experiences with the same escort.

Just saw trophyhusband, and will leave a review today on daddysreviews. In brief, though, he is a dynamite kisser; handsome, masculine and genuinely funny.

Just saw trophyhusband, and will leave a review today on daddysreviews. In brief, though, he is a dynamite kisser; handsome, masculine and genuinely funny.

Just saw trophyhusband, and will leave a review today on daddysreviews. In brief, though, he is a dynamite kisser; handsome, masculine and genuinely funny.

Great post. I have to admit I have not previously thought about it. Reflecting on it, many times the pleasure has been emotional but little or no physical pleasure, but the couple of times there has been physical pleasure - WOW - nothing beats it.
 
I have found that times of greatest pleasure are finding the right position which varies with each partner. And some times the physical pleasure is stronger when I am distracted kissing my partner and thus not thinking about what's going on down there.
 
(Having a certain number of cocktails also distracts my mind.)

I rarely enjoy it which is why I rarely do it.
 
Many have tried but the most skilled top guy I've met is Jake Walker. That was a really enjoyable experience.. he really knew what he was doing.

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Well fuck me right now! Who IS this hot guy?!?! :D:p:D
 
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WHAT Next ?
 
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Having attended, what's most surprising is how nice and cordial everyone is. Online personas tend to melt away, and what is left are a bunch of gentlemen that are as courteous and accommodating as anyone could possibly imagine.
 
My two cents...

Lance Navarro is not only handsome but quite smart (I know; have been with him twice). But I think he is unduly optimistic about the unlikelihood of bitcoin fraud. Not only is bitcoin ridiculously volatile, but----human nature being what it is---creative minds are devising new ways of using it to defraud people. See this link, for just one example: https://phys.org/news/2017-05-bitcoin-popular-exploited-theft-fraud.html