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Not quite so dramatic,but what would you do if you showed up for an afternoon massage and the masseur is sloppy drunk?? This happened to me about 3 years ago in San Francisco.  Since he was able to stand upright (though a bit wobbly) , I decided to keep going with the massage.  But during the course of the next 20 or 30 minutes, he kept slipping away (apparently for more booze).  So, with half an hour remaining, I got up and left---though I paid the original amount we agreed upon.  This guy also works in Palm Springs, but I won't identify him because he may have been having a particularly bad day.

That would be the “Did They Match Description (Rate of 5 stars)”  
Please keep the suggestions and feedback coming!  This is new for the spa… I want this to actually be useful!

For those of us over a certain age (in my case, 70), "thongs" are what we called this type of sandal/flipflop in California.

It's been a couple years since I hired Ranier for a massage. But I found him to be not only an excellent masseur, but also incredibly handsome and sexy. As for his personal hygiene? It was excellent. I have no idea why one person seems to bring this issue up repeatedly.

Several of Stefano's reviews are older, and no further comments are permitted on those sites. But I had an excellent massage experience with this very handsome and articulate Italian man.  I hope to see him when he returns to San Francisco. 

Take a look at SFFrank on then rentmasseur site. I have hired him multiple times and have not been disappointed. His reviews will give you a good idea of what to expect. 

I think the question of choice has a lot to do with whether one exists in a context in which choice is possible. I was aware during puberty that I was sexually attracted to males. I was never sexually attracted to a woman, but I have always had close emotional friendships with women, and I could have chosen to spend my life with a female partner--probably in a non-sexual relationship, because I have never tested my ability to function in a heterosexual relationship. I would have relieved my sexual desires with fantasies and masturbation rather than in actual sex with other men. Social and religious conservatives would probably have found my "lifestyle choice" acceptable. Even in sexually conservative cultures, one can usually have a homosexual orientation as long as you channel it into certain acceptable non-sexual activities.
However, I discovered at an early age that my environment allowed me to have sex with the men I was attracted to, as long as I was discreet about my "lifestyle." As my environment became more openly liberal, my "lifestyle" opportunities broadened, and I took advantage of them to exercise more "freedom of choice." I also took advantage of living in a society in which I could safely question and challenge what was considered "normal." I chose to have romantic as well as sexual relationships with other men, and eventually married a man, something that would have been an unthinkable lifestyle choice when I was young.

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