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  1. A friend of mine in LA also got a call from a chase rep and had him come in and invited him to be a private banking customer Apparently they lowered the requirements to be a private banking customer They offered him a 12 to 18 month CD at 5 percent but alliant is paying a little better. He's been doing what I've been doing and buying 30 day t-bills since the rate is a little over 5 percent and living in California which is a high state tax rate state like mine, not paying state income tax helps a lot.
  2. Not sure if that protects your assets though if you go on disability or just medicaid. My lawyer recomended against it and told me him and his husband (also a lawyer) both have revcoable living trusts and thats how he set mine up. For a trust to protect your assets against medicaid, it has to be irrevocable and you have to have someone else as a trustee. I don't want my parents in their 80s to deal with it and I'll probably outlive them and don't want my sister (who is on disability) doing it and if I have the bank as the trustee it will mean paying them 10% of my net worth for a fee each year My parents have that kind of trust (they are past the five year look back) and I'm their trustee and if they go to sell their house I have to sign off on the deed, they moved some investments around and I had to sign and when they sold the gas company an easement last year I had to sign on that. I don't want anyone having to deal with my investments. And my lawyer made a great point when I did my estate work (and Suze Orman talked about it a few weeks ago) is that a private care nursing home is a lot better and since I have no kids to leave the money to, do I really want to spend my final years in a substandard medicaid nursing home .
  3. Wonder if his boyfriend does porn? If I'm hiring though it will be just him, I want a dom top and don't care to have a bottom joining us. In his twitter account he mentions liking fem guys. In his interview friday with Van Darkholme (another guy I wish still escorted and would hire in a heartbeat) he said he has a boyfriend He calls himself the gingerbreed man on twitter but his rentmen ad is very specific that he only plays safe (he did bareback Vander) I always think of breeding as bareback fucking. I only play safe so not an issue
  4. Thanks I've searched for an ad a few times with no luck. Figures he's in a place I never go to. Sounds like he is mainly bottom and he only bottoms for kink and when I hire I want a dom top. He's one of my favorite kink bottoms and this scene with Jeramiah is incredible
  5. Agree. I looked at my SSA earnings statement the other day and if I am disabled today my monthly payment will be a lot more than if I retire at 62 and only a little less than if I retire at 67 Crazy since I won't be working all those years if I were disabled. Of course if I was on disability I'd hae to spend down all my assets first
  6. Thanks, I've never encountered an Asian or Latino with anything but dark hair (unless it was dyed).
  7. I hadn't heard of him until yesterday when he did his first video for kinkmen. Of course first thing I did was went on rentmen to see if he was on there since most of their stars live in Vegas and LA. Great timing since I'll be in Vegas in a few weeks. They usually do a before and after interview with the stars before the shoot. He said he had a boyfriend (not sure if it's the same one when you met him) and said he's bi and loves both genders. Said it was first time with BDSM but was very skilled with the flogging and admitted to Vin in the aftershoot interview that he had experienced in flogging. He had a beautiful body, very buff but not so muscular it looked like he was using steroids and in the before shoot interview he said he worked out a lot. When I hire, it has to involve BDSM so he'd be perfect for me and the hotel I use in Vegas is perfect for rougher stuff if I get a end suite. I liked his dom style too, was dominant but not too excessive and had the style I like in a BDSM scene. Hopefully his rates aren't through the roof. Weird he likes fem men since the models at kink are usually pretty masculine. The guy he topped was Vander Pulaski who is very masculine and he's a guy I'd love to hire but have never seen ads for Vander
  8. Haven't heard of this porn star until today when they posted a new video on kinkmen. HOT and reminds me of a young connor macquire (not sure why his add says he's latin). Normally not into gingers but him and Connor are definitely exceptions and as soon as I saw the video I went over to rentmen and he has an ad up and I'll be in Vegas in a few weeks:) Anyone been with him? He only has one review JeremiahCruze - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Las Vegas, NV | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Las Vegas, NV - JeremiahCruze: Jeremiah Cruze
  9. I've been binge watching this. Some nice eye candy and very campy. If anyone liked Ugly Betty I think they'll love this show. Except instead of Betty it's a really campy gay latino guy and the boss isn't a total bitch .
  10. First time I noticed this overseas, but I used an ATM in London a couple weeks ago and like a lot of credit card terminals, it gave me the option to have the charge done in british pounds or $USD. The exchange rate was absurd. I chose pounds and the amount charged by my bank on 300 pounds was almost $60US less than what the atm quoted me in $USD.
  11. My Huntington ATM reimburses any ATM surcharge, including overseas as soon as the withdrawal posts and doesn't charge a fee for using it overseas.
  12. I ended up meeting him and my experience wasn't that great. His playrooms were cool, one was in the attic He lives towards the end of the northern line. He was a nice guy but a lot older than 34 and the photos are either really old or seriously photoshopped. One thing I really hated was he smoked. But what really pissed me off was when e finished up that he dragged out the session and had the nerve to say we went an hour over but would accept a half hour payment He spent a lot of the scene talking about where he bought his stuff at and spent a lot of time playing around with his tv trying to get porn on and deciding on the right music to play and wasted at least a half hour there (I was probably there just a little over 90 minutes). He also didn't play as intense as I wanted. I'll stick with Master Alecs or Master Aaron next time I'm in London. It's too bad because his playrooms were amazing.
  13. Visiting London for a few days and the one dom I like to play with can’t host and other is out of town. Anyone have experience with him? He looks hot and has some good reviews but a few of them sound kind of fake and were from guys who created their profile the same day ATopFetish_Dom - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in London, United Kingdom | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in London, United Kingdom - ATopFetish_Dom: HUNG DOM TOP WITH 2...
  14. Aren't out anything switching it. Just make sure they upgrade the card and keep the number the same so your credit doesn't take a ding for having a new card and that card still shows up as your original open date since part of your credit score is based on how long you've had a card and your longest open card is reported.
  15. I haven't heard of a HELOC being able to be lowered, I know a line of credit can. I just closed on a HELOC on my condo last week (hopefully I'll never have to use it but there are no fees and if I decide to buy a new condo I can write a check on the HELOC as a bridge loan until my current condo sells). I signed an open end mortgage that is recorded with the county recorder that states the amount of my HELOC. I thought they were really generous in the appraiasal but they never came into my unit and looks like they did a comparisson and my condo is one of the cheapest units in my building. One thing that sucks about a HELOC is you can't write off the interest unless it's being used for a home improvement But most people that would have to do a reverse mortgage probably aren't itemizing anyway
  16. Glad I found this thread. He's in my area now and went on a vpn to read the reviews and they are as bad as on here.
  17. Depending on how long you plan to stay in your house and your life expendiancy a HELOC may be a better fit if you can afford the interest. Most Helocs you only pay the interest but the downside is it's adjusted monthly or quarterly. My bank doesn't charge a annual fee or any fees at all fora HELOC so I have one in place for emergencies. Most banks charged around $50 a year
  18. Nope, I make a lot off my credit cards Just know how to use them correctly I get things like lounge access and free primary rental car insurance coverage and protection on lurchases with my credit cards and can keep my diamond status on delta which saves me over $10000 in international upgrades using the certificates and has gotten me quite a few domestic upgrades for free. Just have to be respnsible
  19. I knew that spanker. He passed away a few months ago
  20. I worked in title insurance for years and we would get title insurance orders sometimes and the two owners that are both real estate lawyers didn't care for them. I'd only do it as a last resort and if you really want to stay in the home. It's hard to get one on a condo and there are a lot of restrictions involved and you are still resonsible for making the tax and HOA and insurance payments. And every reservse mortgage I did was on a house owned free and clear. If you own the house free and clear I would just sell it and downsize
  21. Was able to get reasonably priced tickets Saturday when I was in NYC and saw it. I really enjoyed it. Josh was perfect for the part.
  22. Not west end theater, but if you are in London and an Abba fan, I'd really recommend seeing the Abba Voyager show. I saw it last year and am going back to London in a couple weeks and planning on seeing it again. I really like the dance booths. It's a small sitting area with a dance floor for about twelve people This is a good site for what's going on in London: West End Favourites WWW.LONDONBOXOFFICE.CO.UK West End Shows - London Box Office
  23. Friend of mine saw Seth perform with someone and felt the same way and said like with Chita he wanted to be the star of the show instead of the accomoniast.. I can just imagine what one of his Broadway cruises would be like. I love the Sirius broadway channel and some of the interviews he can be iritating as well. I love his "dueling divas" show he does on Saturday with Chrstine Pedi. I'd love to see one of Christine Pedi's live performances but she always does them during the week. Her Youtube videos doing the impersonations are great and I enjoy listening to her in the morning on Sirius.
  24. Saw it Sunday. Really recomend it if you are in NYC before it closes but I love Ben Platt. He was great in the part and is based ona true story.
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