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I am one of the unfortunates that Derek no showed twice. Third time was a charm last Apr 2023 in Vegas. He looked incredible and had a pleasant time. 

Frankly, the odometer mileage is, for me, one of his more attractive features. His life experience and range of interests contribute to his appeal — I feel like I’m with a man, not a boy.

Awwwww! If there’s an annual or bi-annual ‘Tristan Thread’ then perhaps there had to be the bi-annual or annual RESPONSE to it!
Absolutely swooning in the compliments; appreciate all of you so very much who have supported me over the years. I have never attempted to be the same as some of my colleagues- whose business model is to pack an absurd amount of clients into one day, fill themselves up with money like the cheeks of a chipmunk, then disappear for weeks. 
 
My model is slow but steady, only a couple a day at max- and that allows me my other obligations to the Army and to family / dogs / regular job. Communication with me can suck; and I will state that in advance…but as all of you who stayed the course have seen; I never do people wrong. 
 
As far as not being everyone’s type; oh well. Some people on this forum also strive for guys that perpetual con artists and hustlers, or because a guy is 22 and ‘less touched’, his value increases? ROFLMAO. Alright, let me know how that works out when he leaves after 35 minutes or doesn’t show up period, demands deposits, or blackmails you down the line when he’s desperate for 👌.
I feel better at 41 then I did in my early 30s;  and what you bring to a session as an escort is more important between your ears, as between your legs or the biceps on your arms. 
 
Time and experience shape perspective; and I am thankful to all my ‘mentors’ out there for helping craft mine. Love you all! ❤️
‘TB’ / Jordan

The best ever!

I just met with Christianpower this week and he is the nicest guy and certainly the most massive/powerful guy I’ve ever meet. We communicate expectations ahead of time everything went smoothly. I’m fairly new to this and somehow have this prejudice of bodybuilders usually are intimidating and mean, so I’m glad Christian gave me a whole different perspective! I would definitely meet with him again if he’s in town.
 
DM for details <3 

I see him every couple months when our schedules line up.  One comment said he isn't bottoming anymore, but the actual policy is "only bottoms for certain clients" and he wants to get to know them first.  He WILL do "just massage" on a bed and it's actually quite good.  He spends a lot of time in the gym and knows the human body and the attributes of a good massage, even though he isn't licensed or professionally trained as a masseur.  
 
There were a couple comments about "you have to be his type".  Not sure what that means.  I hire him for his physical attributes, which I find attractive.  During our time together, he is polite and respectful; not doorknob stupid, not Stephen Hawking.  I'm not there for academic or political discourse and based on that, we seem to get along fine.  
 

Hi All!!
Posting here as a way to introduce myself to the community and to just say "hi" 😃. Im looking to really continue to get my name out there in the NYC/NJ/CT area. Everyone I've met so far has been extremely pleased with the service they have received and I figured why not start advertising a little! From what I've heard, there are tons of flakes, trial and error, and no-showing when it comes to meetups. I can say honestly I'm as "legit" as they come. I pride myself on showing up as advertised, on time, and always in a professional manner.
https://www.thebestflex.com/profile/Bobby-Biceps
Looking for sponsorships in the NYC/NJ/CT area but love flying to destinations as well
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The best ever!

The best ever!

He’s been my favorite for ages:
https://rent.men/TristanBaldwin

You rang? ?

Please come to Boston sometime.

Typically; while on Parole- you can’t leave the state as easily...it’s not like they have your ID flagged and you can get jammed going through TSA...but unfortunately if you do get caught; even while not committing a crime...it can be considered a violation of parole. Thus, if he’s returning to it and intends to do it in different states...needs to use fake pics, maybe operate as ‘D.A,’ or something tongue in cheek, or stick to regulars.
 
I used to vouch for him regularly to people- so I’m kinda split on this. I really liked him as a person; but I think that city eats people and changes them...and some of the people he no showed had spent considerable $ to fly there and get hotels were clients/friends of mine so I feely partly responsible.
 
Really do hope he turns it around; swear to god if you knew him in Begining he was down to earth soldier boy fresh out of 10th Mtn. Division; tough as nails and grounded.
 
? for him.
 
TB
 
(Shows Edited* this because I spelled ‘hope’, ‘help’ accidentally, final paragraph)

He's a great guy! Hope to see him again soon

I saw Mr Good Body last night and he is the nicest man. Muscles all in the right places and a great conversationalist. Very client centered too. I had such s great time I asked to see him again this morning for another get together. He’s one of the good ones.

Hey guys, I’m back in NYC

I’ll be back in May

Hey Guys!
 
Wanted to drop a little note on the forum here, indicating that things have changed somewhat in my life. Sold out on my half of the dancing company in New England, and am relocating to Las Vegas.
 
Many of you know that my Father isn’t in great health back East, so it’s a poor, shitty decision on my part to be moving FURTHER away from him rather than closer...but I’m actually trying to force his hand to move to Vegas for half the year each year as well, and get away from these winters.
 
Much like my schedule was when I was dancing more, I’ll still be touring MON-THUR or SUN-THUR each week, but will be in Vegas each and every weekend, and then some. Hoping this will amount to less and less time on the road, and more and more time working ‘home city’.
 
Now, instead of being an East Coast boy always touring Western cities....I’ll be a West Coast boy always flying East....so you’ll probably see me just as much. For any clients that might not be getting as much access, you’re always welcome in Vegas, and I’ll do as much as I can to make your experience in this city more than just ‘an escort session’- will snag you at the airport, show you around, do as much as I can off the clock. You guys have always been the very best to me, it’s my goal to do the same to you. Shifting to more of a ‘boutique escort’ when in Vegas....cater to a little bit more time and involvement rather than my previous model.
 
Thank you all for your support at this interesting time to shift gears in life!
 
Regards,
 
TB

Happy Birthday, TB! Hope you are enjoying a great weekend!

...You know, in this industry, far too many escorts regard their contemporaries as COMPETITION rather than being a sounding board for all the trials and tribulations from the road that we all experience. Thus, when you come across guys with great personalities like Andrew Justice, Sean Xavier AJ, etc- who take the time out of their schedules to meet for a drink or coffee, it really says something about them.
 
Before I met him at the Springs two years back, I must admit that I was somewhat resentful of this guy and his moniker- because I didn't put in the effort to see what lies beneath. I'm man enough to admit that it was competitive jealousy amongst guys in this industry, that had me having such feelings- but I have to make a public apology here for even having such thoughts that no one else knew....this guy is indeed a class act.
 
Just met for coffee in DC, and he's looking even better than when I saw him two years back. A smile and a laugh that would put someone at ease, to say the least. Changed my perspective on this gentleman 1000000% and I can't help but gush here. Had to do it.
 
Rant over.

Yes I’m ok. Sorry if I haven’t answered your messages. Please text again. I’ve been very busy. I apologize for the unresponsiveness. Sometimes messages fly under my radar.

@Tonyko Thanks stud...it's appreciated. I can't always expect every single thing said about me to be a positive one...it takes all kinds to make the world go round...all types of tastes. However, the SUBJECTIVE input we as workers CAN control. What we look like, the efforts we put in, etc....what we either absorb in selfishly energy wise or what we release/reflect back with our clients- I prefer to do the later....and if it attracts to me guys like you and a grocery list of other people on this board(I'm afraid to start naming them, because I'll get skinned alive if I accidentally leave one out), then that's all that matters to me.
 
The men on this board have taught me more about sex, sexuality, and the world....then I ever learned from any institution, instinct, or family.
 
With gratitude,
 
TB

Woah! Just now getting a chance to see this thread, and the slightly negative direction it seemed to have momentarily turned. Thanks, as always, for those of you who I've met with who know the real me, and know the efforts I go through to make every connection as intimate, genuine, and ENJOYABLE as possible...for BOTH parties involved!
 
I'm sorry that someone would ever have a negative experience; and thank you for at least telling the truth about my positive qualities too! Each of us as escorts tends to appeal to a very certain type. Generally, we don't have to 'sift out' the connections that aren't going to be strong...the first time clients are doing that for us, when they read our profiles and decide whether or not to make that first phone call, or shoot that first email.
 
'Older' than expected? Too muscled or masculine? Voice that was too straight? Well, I put 35 in my profile and I sure as shit can show you a driver's license that reflects 3/10/82 as a birthdate. I'm never going to apologize for what I look like- some escorts with the more feminine or thin physiques don't have to invest one minute of time to look that way. They don't have to spend one minute shaving. They can wake up, shower (if you're lucky enough for the scrappy looking twink to do so) and boom- there they are, ready to bottom for you and the 5 other people behind you. That's not my type of client....I'm looking for educated, traveled guys with personalities who can engage me on multiple levels....and ones who I can go out in public with, enjoy museums, restaurants, hell ANYTHING with, and not have people wondering 'what type of arrangement' is that? The sheer majority of people I connect with on here, when we do something off the clock when the time ends- we don't get so much as a second glance- because they don't sound or act effeminate, *I* don't act or sound effeminate, and so on.
 
Alright guys- instead of going off to split some wood to help heat my house this winter....I'm going forego any physical activity for the remainder of the year; take hormones to make my voice lighter, and I'm gonna start dancing on floats in every Pride parade from now until Southern Decadence.
 
Again, everyone has their types, but the 'different' experience that you had from your 'norm' cannot be chalked up to 'naivete or stupidity' on your part, I'd view it as a better way to reaffirm what you're actually into. Almost like using ginger at a sushi restaurant to cleanse the palette in between different dishes- it'll help you further appreciate what you like really like. View it as that, versus a 'bad investment', because believe you me....I open a VEIN in my arm to please people, there'll never come a day when I'm a bad investment versus some of the absolute DISASTERS that are out there doing this...

Tristan Baldwin. My patience was rewarded recently when I was able to meet him. It's all been said, but not until I was with him did I realize how great he is at what he does.

well if you have a thing for captain america, then ill be the next best thing:)