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Damn. Sorry to hear. Like @viewing ownly I would've never guessed he smoked. I've never seen him do so during his regular IG story updates. Guess it's something he does in private. He doesn't list smoking on his profile's "Intos."

As others have pointed out it's definitely a scam. The trend that's growing is guys who have followings on Twitter, Instagram etc directing folks to OF to "chat with them." Usually because on those other platforms they get a lot of messages so to weed out the nonsense it's easier to direct them to pay for OF. Also a lot of guys are using agencies to run their OF account so you're speaking to an A.I. bot anyways.

I was in town for pride two years ago. It was a first for me. Very overwhelming (in a good way) with so many guys out and about in the West Village, Chelsea and Hell's Kitchen. Hoards of beautiful men everywhere. Pretty much the usual go-to bars, clubs, play spaces were all super busy. The only events I took part in was jockstrap night at The Eagle during the main pride week, a few days before the parade. I think it was a Wednesday or Thursday night. Like many places, The Eagle was jam packed that night. I met a rich divorced dad with kids from Germany that night, who I'm still in contact with today. Aside from The Eagle, I checked out the main parade. As someone posted above it was a bit tough to move around, I checked it out for like an hour and left. My personal highlight during that week were my regular visits to 'The Blue' (RIP)...overpacked day, night and overnight. So many guys, pornstars from all over the world in a sleazy sex shop-bookstore. Good times.

Sad to hear. I literally was watching one of his videos a few days ago. This is a huge shock.

Unless it's someone I've met before, my rule is never do deposits. If you're not getting good vibes, move on. I'm sure you can find just as hot providers in your area. When/if he returns you can re-visit and see if the deposit request is still a thing.

He's beefed up a lot over the past year, looks great.

Sent an introductory message about a potential booking a few days ago. Checked back yesterday and saw that he read it. Checked back today and see that I'm blocked.

Correct. I reached out to him. He says he's been in Toronto the past 3 years. He's just now ready, going live with his profile and joining the provider market on RM. UPDATE: After stumbling upon his real name, it lead me to his OnlyFans, Twitter and IG. Turns out I was already following him on Instagram. 😂 Anyways, seeing his full regular photos he gives off a sweet, pocket gay aura. Dark features. He’s definitely embellishing the 8”….more like 6-7”.

How's that weird? It's totally normal for providers to be on Grindr and other hookup apps. 1. They have lives that includes casual sex too 2. A lot of providers use Grindr to promote other types of work (Rentmen, OnlyFans) 3. Tying in with the previous points, some providers use Grindr directly to find clients. Even when they're on there for personal fun, many get $ offers for hookups anyways.

Good find @TorontoDrew

Interesting. Always wondered if Jordi ever worked as a provider, good to know. He's regularly on socials posting and is always in the live group chat on twitter spaces, so you get an accurate daily dose of how he looks and his personality.

Yeah, I understand. It was all a last minute rush pretty much so nothing was discussed before meeting. In general I personally avoid "Ask Me" providers since it general means very minimal things and lots of "a la carte" tiers.

Ok, the upcharge makes more sense now lol. That was a key part left out. Considering the "Ask Me" under 'Position' and 'Orientation' categories he's the "open-minded," "straight" guy that is fine with Top roles, just not bottom, servicing roles...which is extra. That aside, he should've reviewed and remembered what was agreed on before you arrived.

It's something that has been popping up more in recent years. I chalked it up to Gen-Z'ers treating this business more like Grindr now. When I've encountered the request I just move on. I know one provider here in NYC, beloved by many forum members on here, that asks for pictures. Yup. 1000%.

That's a first...a provider that quotes more for vanilla stuff vs. all out action.

Back in NY for a short visit throughout the weekend!

*adds to list*

Nice. *adds to list*

Hope it goes well and makes up for the past 2 days. *crosses fingers*

And that's my problem with @savantsav's recent experience. Sleeping in? cool. It happens. But then the provider offers to reschedule the next day and doesn't have the courtesy to give ample heads up that he'll be late? It's the timing of all these changes happening at the very last minute. And he has a history of it. (If true) It's unfortunate something happened in his personal life to throw off his schedule the next day.

I see you had a similar experience to mine. Sorry to hear that happened. Seems like Dustin is one of those providers you need to have an immediate backup plan, or clear your whole day and sit around on command for whenever he's ready to visit. If the roles were reversed we, the client, would be blocked. If the story was posted here, we'd be scathed for not being prompt.

My advice would be to have a short list of guys and just ask them via RM messenger during pre-booking inquiries. While it's vague, generally providers that have "Available for videos" under the 'Available For' section are open to that. Just make it known that its for personal use, otherwise have proper content paperwork if you want to publish the video.

One is definitely Sam. Same gold chains, same photos. Both mention 3somes in their individual ads. Both ask for the same solo rates which totals the asking rate on the joint ad.

*Recent information The only info about him is from 5 years ago. I myself also would like some recent info about him since he'll be in town soon.

I always mention when contacting, pre-booking a provider that finishing is important to me. In my years of hiring I've only had that unfulfilled twice, both by regulars who had "off nights," which is understandable and happens to everyone. Mention that request when booking.