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I saw him again in Nov or December, had another good time with him.

my first job was at Fedex as a "package Handler"... my manager made my pregnant coworker unload the trailers in 100 degree heat instead of giving her one of the more cush jobs like the scanner or working the belt. 3 am to 11 am. I wont ever use Fedex after those experiences.

Hemorrhoids are very common. Nearly three out of four adults will have hemorrhoids from time to time, and weight-lifting...well, guaranteed. Ask Amy.
 
And congratulations on the most revolting forum post in years.

I know there have been other threads on him - one at least was very negative. I unfortunately need to add a similar caveat. I was hoping to hire him on his Boston trip this week. Some of his interests were very enticing to me, and at first, as we texted, things sounded very good. Though I had to keep asking for his rates and the password for his RentMen private pics - I think I asked him 4 times. (Maybe a red flag, maybe not - but very annoying to have to keep asking.) The more we talked, the more I begin to realize he was just too hardcore dom for my taste - he kept trying to suggest we do certain things (like WS, which I'm not into, and I tried to tell him that - I had to keep telling him no on that one) and kept pushing the idea that he could only relate to me in a very severe dom/sub way, which I kept saying was not what I was looking for. he started referring (literally) to Darwin and the survival of the fittest, and all sorts of other odd superior/inferior talk, and to be honest, it was getting to be a huge turnoff.
 
So, I finally said my apologies, stressed that I was happy that we had had the chance to talk but that I felt I was wasting his time as we just weren't on the same page with things, and that I wouldn't be able to see him.
 
I had hoped for some sort of a professional goodbye and thank you (in the same manner as I had already offered to him), or maybe even a bit of a "your loss" retort at most.
 
He erupted. First PLEADING with me, text after text after text after text, boasting about how good he'd be and how we WILL have such a great time together. On and on and on he went. I tried again to give a simple professional answer, but he was too busy ranting and raving. I blocked his texts. He then tried to call me on a different phone, and texted me with threatening messages about being blackmailed, etc. I blocked him there too.
 
I'm sorry, guys, he's a fucking lunatic. Which matches the previous story out here as to how he freaked out during someone's session.
 
I have to say I was originally prepared for the chance that he wasn't quite my type (which is why I was happy that he was willing to talk things out with me initially) - I was not prepared for his little freakout session, which was so entirely out of proportion with the rest of our conversation. Literally scary.
 
I'm now seriously wondering, had I gone through with meeting him after all, that I could have been in real physical danger. or at very least, coerced into activities I didn't want.
 
To those of you who have had good experiences with him - that's great. But I guess the session has to be 100% on his terms and his terms alone, or he turns into a raving madman.
 
Caveat emptor.

I saw him about a week ago at his hotel. Good session. PM me for details

This was lovely to read while eating my breakfast.

OnlyFans is not for me - but part of that is that I already have my website that I update several times a month with new videos.
 
I can say I could really do without the announcements on Twitter from OnlyFans. If I only cared that you have a new fan ....

hungyoungbrit and dillonandersonx have been keeping me very busy lately.

https://rentmen.com/ParkerPitts/
 
Any information on him?

I concur.
Unless there is something that is really intriguing about the profile I usually move on and do not ask.

Never considered bisexuality, never had sex with a woman, would never entertain the idea of a female client. I also never bottom. But only because being the dom top feels more natural to me... totally gay, totally top, but do love a talented tongue between my cheeks.

If an escort is going to lie about his age, you can betcha he's going to lie about his health.

I'm sorry your friend had the experience he had, but my perspective varies a bit from yours @loverboy95.
 
As I have said in many other posts about the STD/STI topic, escorts are a high-risk population. Men who have sex with men are a high-risk population. Any sexual contact without condoms is less safe than that same contact with condoms. Remember, we're talking about a very high risk population. Lastly, many men are frequently asymptomatic. So for bugs like chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis that gestate quickly, it's easy to see how someone who sleeps with even just one client a day, can easily be transmitting them in a week or two between their monthly STD/STI testing schedule.
 
I believe escorts have professional responsibilities to be upfront and honest about their STD/STI status. I also believe they should be tested frequently and use safer sex (all vaccines, PReP, and condoms) when they are sexually active. But, I'm well aware they're human beings, so they probably sometimes lie just like all of us and probably aren't very consistent about their medications, or consistent in their sexual protections. That's just human nature. We all make mistakes. At the end of the day, each of us is the final arbiter of our health and whoever we have intimate contact with. If we decide to engage in sexual contact with an escort, we should educate our self of the risks and plan accordingly.
 
HIV is a real risk. It's manageable at this time if you have money and health insurance. PReP even allows someone to go without condoms and be safer regarding HIV transmission than having sex without PReP. Condoms are still recommended even with PReP if you want the safest sex available for HIV transmission.
 
HPV is a real risk too, even more so than HIV because so many people are infected with at least one HPV strain, but the vaccine provides decent protection from the cancer-causing strains if you get the vaccine before you've been exposed to those cancer-causing HPV strains. Even with the vaccine, you would be smart to use condoms because there are hundreds of strains of HPV and it transmits easily via unprotected anal, oral, and vaginal sex.
 
Hepatitis is another real risk. Get the A & B vaccine as those are the most likely for transmission in sexual activity. Condoms are the best way to protect against Hepatitis since there are multiple strains and only vaccines for two of the most common.
 
Chlamydia is easily transmittable via anal, oral, and vaginal unprotected sex. It's still treatable. There are theoretically resistant strains, but I haven't seen reports of these strains in the wild. Condoms are the only way to protect against chlamydia. Also remember that chlamydia is able to create localized colonies in the anal cavity or throat; so regular comprehensive STD/STI testing including anal/throat swabs is important. Without the swabs, it's possible to test as completely clean and still have localized infections that are readily transmittable via unprotected intimate contact.
 
Gonorrhea is easily transmittable via anal, oral, and vaginal unprotected sex. It's still treatable but there are strains in the wild that are resistant to all known treatments. Condoms are the only way to protect against gonorrhea. Also remember that gonorrhea is able to create localized colonies in the anal cavity or throat; so regular comprehensive STD/STI testing including anal/throat swabs is important. Without the swabs, it's possible to test as completely clean and still have localized infections that are readily transmittable via unprotected intimate contact.
 
Syphilis is transmittable via anal, oral, and vaginal unprotected sex. It's still treatable but there are strains in the wild that are resistant to all known treatments and at least one of these is spreading among men who have sex with men in America. Condoms are the only way to protect against syphilis.
 
Meningitis has had some outbreaks in the men who have sex with men community in at least one large American city. Get the vaccine and again, condoms are your best bet for safer sex.

Hello,
 
I wanted to post this message based off of something that @Benjamin_Nicholas posted in another thread about a friend of his. Unfortunately, I cannot go into too much detail, but I wanted to share this with all of you here as a warning to be careful about who you hire.
 
The first thing you should do is go to your doctor and get vaccinated for all STIs. After you start hiring, get a full panel STI test regularly. It is up to YOU to protect your health. This person I spoke with had to learn the hard way that this industry is full of LIARS. There are tons of escorts who may have some infection, but don't tell you because they don't know themselves, don't want to risk their business being harmed, or are quite frankly to stupid to understand how these matters can impact people's lives.
 
To both clients AND escorts on this forum; if you have an STI, regardless of how big or small you perceive it to be, you need to be upfront with your partner about it before you have sex with them. Your partner has a right to know your status so he can make the decision if he wants to be with you or not. To not be upfront with them right from the beginning is dishonest and to me, it is straight-up lying. You have a right to know your partner's status before you have sex with them and if they do not want to be honest with you, then you should not be with that person in the first place.