I had a guy who provided a great experience every time we met - very friendly, great looking, great body, great communicator - and I saw him frequently, and each encounter was great. Even when we had no meeting scheduled, he’d send me memes or text about some current event news. Not daily, but once in a while he’d just be friendly with small things like that.
Then after several meetings over the course of two years, he had a complete personality change - in person, he became less friendly and more distant and there were problems with simple things - like he’d now take a few days to respond to a text to schedule an appointment or he’d now regularly show up late for meetings we had scheduled. He told me he was starting to book more and more porn gigs which was one of his goals, but that had never affected our interactions before. He never ghosted me, but once trying to meet became regular “work” on my end, I stopped reaching out to meet.
This story ends abruptly because he ended up moving across the country, but I never did ask him why he started acting differently - simply because it would be odd to ask anyone “Why are you different now?” - but I have seen a few similar stories in these forums. Has anyone here had similar issues with someone they saw regularly start acting like a different person?