His memorial page mentions “addiction and recovery” - but no official cause of death is given.
And who knew there was an alleged interaction with Austin Wolf involved? Someone online made the following comments:
“In regards to JayM4M, perhaps I shouldn't be but I am a bit surprised that he passed away a month ago give or take a few days and it has taken a while before it's become a bit more publicly known. Whoever (family or friend) is doing their do diligence with gaining access to his online accounts as seen fit. 'The posts' appeared to have ceased in April, so I reckon he passed in early May, maybe right at the end of April. I've seen another poster on TwitterX that also was publicly imploring for more information and clarification concerning that he 'may have' died … It was previously posted that he had a mental health episode of some kind earlier. From my recollection, he had posted his two cents worth about Austin Wolf's arrest and to summarize it he had described how Austin was critical about his physical appearance and disparaged him being a porn star (or the 'masseuse to the gay porn stars'--since that was his niche) and that he would never be worthy in the 'industry' nor would be amount to anything worthwhile. I don't know whether this had anything to do with the emotional toll on his mental health or built on to it. I feel sad yet upset at the same time knowing that Jay is no longer with us, yet Austin (despite being imprisoned awaiting trial) is.”