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If I haven't already done my due diligence by reading up on a provider here, I typically limit my questions to whether the provider travels with a table or performs on a bed and whether nudity is acceptable. Answers to those two questions usually is a pretty good indicator of what to expect and I find providers often answer with even more detail.

Late morning or early afternoon on day’s I telework. Take it as an extended lunch break. Leaves evenings free for spouse and social events.

What make me disgruntled? The no show/no text/no telephone answer escort after the appointment is made and I've travelled to their location. I am not above booking a new appointment with a burner telephone number and not showing up after the escort has done the same to me, i.e., leaving me waiting in the lobby of or outside of their hotel with nary a word. I'm more forgiving of a brief delay, but there needs to be communication.

Saw him once. He's a smoker, and the residual smell permeates everything, including your clothes. I recommend you avoid if you are sensitive to the smell. Personally, I wouldn't repeat because the odor really did make it impossible to relax and enjoy the session.

Some people ARE just inconsiderate, obstinate ASSHOLES, always only thinking of THEMSELVES ! It's just WHO they are and it drives every aspect of their lives and viewpoints :mad:

Agree! I can't help but think that if Americans had the attitudes so many express today back in the 1940's, the outcome of World War II might have been drastically different. As a nation, we seem to have completely absolved ourselves from responsibility for the common good and abandoned any adherence to social compacts.

My townhouse is four stories . . . I’ve never bothered to warn a provider they’ll have to climb three flights of stairs once they’re inside. I sometimes grumble under my breadth when I have to go down three flights and back up two with the dogs before bed. I think what you’re proposing is quite doable.

Hell, why not

County where you primarily grew up: Military brat, so no primary or secondary.

Birth decade: 1970's

Best looking celebrity guy you've ever seen: (presuming in-person, like, rode the same elevator) Brendan Fraser

Favorite Broadway musical: Hello, Dolly

Favorite sport: Sportsball

Worst movie you've ever saw: No Home Movie by Chantal Akerman. Walked out of it at the Toronto International Film Festival. Months later, the filmmaker committed suicide.

Would you ever consider running for public office? No.

I viewed his private photographs, and he sent me a message via the website. The unsolicited description of what he likes definitely falls on the escort side. May add him to my wishlist for post-pandemic.

He tends to rent a car and take long road trips outside of NYC. I've caught him a couple of times in DC as he was literally passing through. I believe he may have family in northern CA/Bay Area, and I wouldn't be surprised if his itinerary is updated later to reflect the west coast. Oh, and he is awesome.

Hmm, Rob has worked mine pretty well. And I've certainly enjoyed his.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/12230/

This is an interesting topic and one I have thought about a lot. As we all know, everything in life involves risk. Yes, you may suffer great tragedy if you dare to leave the confines of your quarantined home and come into contact with other humans. The only foolproof way of not catching anything is to avoid as much contact with the outside world as possible. Some of us have to work outside the home and are forced to be unsafe in the world, keeping our fingers crossed at all times.

 

With that said... it may still be safer to visit a masseur than to visit Wal-Mart or pump for gas. At least you only need to worry about one person and, possibly, those he has been in contact with; that is, if he is sloppy in the way he cleans up after the previous client. It is unlikely he is swamped with them during this pandemic and many masseurs, I am guessing, are very selective and screen those they get. If he is serious about his occupation, he is more worried about catching something than you are. His very livelihood depends on him being in perfect health. I am sure he checks his temperature and keeps track of any possible symptoms regardless of whether or not he was able to recently get an official virus test. Remember too that both of you should be thoroughly showered with plenty of soap before and after, washing hands and face a lot. It might be fun if you also showered together and made sure all sensitive parts are mutually taken care of. Wearing masks certainly would help. Think of them like condoms as extra insurance, but... the two of you are consenting adults operating behind closed doors who must decide for yourselves if the situation is safe with or without them.

 

I would just text the masseur ahead of time and discuss all of your concerns with him. No, it will not be the safest experience, but my guess is that he will try to make it as safe as he can, under the circumstances.

 

Going to a store, I always feel like I am literally being "in contact" with millions of humans and all of their "residue", many of whom I find far less attractive than a masseur. No, you are not literally touching other people but you are touching a lot of things they are touching and breathing the same air indoors. Nobody stays six feet away from you regardless of signs posted, even though one in four will at least try. Most will wear masks like you, but children will be taking theirs off to talk and cough since they are children. Then you have those angry "Karens" who feel masks are a violation to their civil rights and will take them off when store personnel are not looking, although I have personally seen far more mask-less men than women in public. (YouTube videos of ladies in rage are far more popular online than those of men in rage.) I also seriously doubt that many of your fellow shoppers cleaned themselves thoroughly and checked their temperatures before invading your six foot domain like the masseur.

 

Don't get me started about gas pumps. Yes, everybody is maintaining a lot of distance from each other and most gas stations are in the great outdoors. However, have you ever questioned how many hands have fondled that handle?

 

Obviously I am not downgrading the situation and saying a massage is totally 100% safe. Just putting things into perspective.

Speaking of gas pumps, I hit on a rather quick and easy fix in the time of COVID. I have two dogs that occasionally go for car rides, so I keep a roll of poop bags in the car for emergency purposes. Turns out they're also great for covering your hand when you go to reach for the pump handle. It's like a mitten pot holder. Just discard when you're done.

He’s also “Broderick” on Sean Cody . . . information he disclosed to me the second time I met him. Didn’t have time to discuss politics. ?

Once. Would not repeat/recommend.

The body looks pretty good, but that’s a rather surprising number of photographs in what I presume are public bathrooms . . . with the toilet in the frame.

You might also consider sticking with water-based lubricants. Silicone-based lubricants are, in my opinion, difficult to get out in the wash.

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Although If we're being honest, it's a fair question to some masseurs.

Oh my God. You mean all those escorts who told me I sucked cock really well might not have been sincere?

Honestly, I think an expressed compliment is no different than the other sounds and noises that might occur during a session. They are all part of the experience. To not provide them would seem to diminish the overall experience, no?

I've lived in at least three places that were 100+ years old. In one, a possible ghost was disclosed by the handyman (not the landlord) on the day I moved. In over 300 years, who knows what might have gone on in any of the buildings. Unless the walls were bleeding and my stuff was flying around the room, it would not bother me.

Multiple ads AND multiple telephone numbers. I get texts from him using at least two different numbers when he's in DC. Wouldn't repeat though.It was a weird experience.

Hmm. I saw him once. It was an okay time; however, nothing about his personality, bearing, demeanor, etc., suggested advanced degrees in the medical field or any other field of study. He may have been a nursing assistant or lab tech at some point . . . he had a photo in a lab coat. If he is getting advanced degrees, he must be doing it remotely given the extensive travel schedules he included in his ad.

Definitely not until proven treatment protocols are in place and stay-at-home orders are ended. I'm keeping fingers crossed for drug trials -- remdesivir, favipiravir and tocilizumab, leronlimab, hydroxychloroquine and azithromycin, even thalidomide (I'm pretty sure I have a hostile colon and won't get pregnant) and interferon. A vaccine would be ideal, but that's months away.

I was nervous enough getting a haircut in DC back on March 13th, and not because it was Friday the 13th. If I had a massage right now, I think the anxiety alone would be enough to kill me.

I leave my watch at home. Wether I take it off or not, it's one less thing I have to account for before I leave. Wallet, keys, phone . . .

Reminds me of the episode of Designing Women, where Mary Jo asks Monette the madam what she does to keep men coming back again and again. Monette responds "a lot of my time is just spent talking and listening." Um, yeah. I'll pay my therapist for that service . . . which is usually cheaper than a BFE experience and is covered by insurance.

I've had two or three experiences where the escorts invited me to sit and chat first and in almost every instance like that I found I was the one who initiated the next steps. I much prefer the escorts who begin a BFE with a big hug and kiss at the door rather than the slow burn.

If I'm within the city that the guy is adverting in, and he advertises an outcall rate, I believe that his transportation costs should be factored in to the outcall price.

Thats my expectation as well.