Quincy_7

You are indeed a good lawyer. I am obsessed exactly with the point you made about not asking + status.

 

I was wrong. Point conceded. My apologies to you and to @Quincy_7 if he meant it the way that you just articulated.

 

You should participate more often.

 

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As I mentioned in my initial post in this thread, I ask escorts whether they engage in bareback sex with clients. This is a standard question to ask, especially if you're a prospective client interested in bareback. I never said anything about asking for their HIV status.

I'm not trying to proselytize. What you do is your own business. I'm just explaining why I don't bareback, since latbear4blk made that comment.

Can you please show some web links/cites pointing to this info

https://www.poz.com/article/prep-fails-gay-man-adhering-daily-truvada-contracts-drugresistant-hiv

http://instinctmagazine.com/post/canadian-prep-user-contracts-strain-prep-resistant-hiv

Combining PrEP with condoms is the safest way to go. STI's aside, there've also been a few times an escort wasn't exactly clean and sparking down there, if you know what I mean, and I was glad I had a condom on.

In my humble opinion, in 2017, if BBing is a deal breaker is a matter of ignorance and irrational fear. If you are concerned, just play safe with everyone. What your partner does with others is not your business.

You can't assume an escort to be on PrEP. Furthermore, even if they are, there have been incidents of people contracting PrEP resistant strains of HIV.

And just because they say no you believe them and proceed? lol

 

I love the false sense of security people get from these kinds of questions, when fact is anybody could be lying to you at any time. Everyone should be doing what is necessary to protect his or her own health. Just because someone tells you they don't bareback or tells you they're neg or regularly tested or whatever is ocmpletely and totally meaningless.

I use condoms nonetheless. Asking that question simply helps me to narrow the field by removing riskier candidates from my list.

You are aware that one can catch an sti without going bare. It's called oral sex. I've only ran into one or two people use condoms for oral. So your question is stupid.

 

Hugs,

Greg

See above.

What do you do if you don't hear back? Because often people will ask me about bareback and since I don't want to go down the road of arguing about it I don't reply. Now I just think some of them might have been testing me lol.

I haven't encountered that situation as of yet but if I did I suppose I would ask again and then move in if there still was no response.

My way of asking that question is to ask the escort whether they're open to bareback. If they say yes, I don't pursue.

On my list, but a little concerned. Super easy to find his Instagram which also provides his real name, so super easy to find him on FB.

 

He does seem to live in NYC as stated. But he says he's 28 on FB, 21 in the ad. Says he's from Ecuador on Instagram, Brazilian on the ad.

 

Most of the photos minus #1 and 2 and the dick shot (which wouldn't be allowed) link back to his Instagram. But everything above makes me a little doubtful...

 

Going to message him on Instagram and ask if he's an escort and that's his profile but warn him if it's not. I really really do hope he's real though...

He must have great genes because he certainly looks 21. I'll be meeting him tomorrow.

I'm thinking of planning a short trip just to go see him. He's absolutely stunning. Has anyone here had the pleasure?

https://rentmen.com/MarlonBr

Has anyone here been with him?

https://rentmen.com/CasperFaye

There are some incredibly good looking young guys on there? If anyone has ever convinced any of them to meet in person, do you mind sharing your strategy?