Quincy_7

Personally, I only mind if they're really trashy tattoos.

My preference is use of a condom. I’m a bottom and a sex worker which puts me in a higher risk category. It’s very common for a client to ignore this preference and insist no condom use when I tell them I’m on PrEp. I get the feeling they think it is a free pass to do as they please. Frustrating.

Sounds like you'd have an easier time not letting your clients know you're on prep.

Belami

Freshmen

Staxus

Corbin Fisher/ Sean Cody on occasion.

If you're a younger man and can afford to hire then it's definitely much preferred to grindr. Guys on RM tend to be vastly more attractive than on grindr.

I cancelled a meeting last week with a new guy because his story seemed suspicious. He's an early 20s guy who lives alone in a nice part of a major city's downtown. If he can afford to live in a studio/1 bedroom downtown I don't see why he has to escort. It was a new profile too with no reviews or verified pics so that only added to my suspicion.

He had the dubious honour of attending primary school with Hitler.

I gather the scars were on his forearms? If so, were they lateral or horizontal?

On his mid to lower back. They're horizontal.

I was very interested in one guy until I zoomed in on his pics and noticed those distinct scars that one gets from cutting themselves. I'm inclined not to get in touch now but I'm wondering if I'm being too judgmental. It might be in his past, for all I know.

I've had this issue with one escort who I've seen in the past. I only noticed the scars during the session. They were off-putting but didn't really matter.

Bumping this. Has anyone apart from BicepLover seen him? His pictures seem almost too good to be true.

If someone from the third world is escorting in Europe or North America with a pimp, let's be honest, agent is a euphemism, I'm immediately going to start wondering if they're being trafficked. This literally happened with Brazilian escorts in Spain a few years ago.

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/spain/7974007/Spain-breaks-up-male-prostitute-trafficking-ring.html

I have that polo shirt as well so we know he has great taste in clothing.

It this was for straight up hookups I might be tempted to sign up. I have no interest in paying someone to go on a date with and maybe hope that that leads to something.

Hmm. OK, you got me, a little. But I think that's apples and oranges, Mike. I don't assume the hotel staff are huddled around a security monitor peering at the outside of my room, just in case a random fitness model makes a two-hour visit. And if I'm at my hotel for two days and have one visitor, that should not draw much notice.

 

Conversely, an escort at a hotel doing in-calls will likely host several clients during his stay. A repeated pattern of short visits would be more noticeable. I like to take reasonable precautions, and avoiding possible scrutiny in an unfamiliar place is one of them. I also put my wallet and keys in my room safe, even though I don't expect to be robbed.

I don't recommend hotel safes. There's supposed to be a universal code for those which anyone working in the hotel knows or could easily find out. I always lock my valuables in my suitcase when going out.

What's his name?

My hotel. I just feel more secure and comfortable on home territory.

Interesting; can I ask why you did this. I use to use an excel spreadsheet to remind me how much I spent. Then it got to busy. At the time I was concerned about the amount of money I was paying out over a weekend and felt guilty. The more I recorded the more guiltier I became! then I said, shit what I do with my money is my business

I'm just keen to keep a record for myself to refer to whenever I feel like.

No but I have a long memory... I would recommend escorts and clients NOT to keep any kind of journal at hand (or in your laptop) because of the new times we live on.

 

I recently heard from an English escort who was stopped at the airport and sent back home because of TSA searched his iPhone and read his messages about appointments, contacts, etc.

It's literally just a document with a number in it which is updated after every encounter. The title of the document doesn't have to be "list of escorts I've hired", it can be something completely inane like "ketchup".

The Hero of Alexandria has to be pretty high up on that list.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hero_of_Alexandria

I've decided to keep a tally of how many escorts I've been with and how many repeat encounters I've had with particular escorts. I like to keep track of my progress.

I remember reading about the Blanchflower v Blanchflower case in New Hampshire where a guy failed to get a fault divorce for adultery (his wife was having a lesbian affair) because the court said that penetration had not occurred and hence no adultery, i.e. sex, had taken place.

May I ask what the difference is? Kissing is reciprocating, not just allowing your partner to lick your lips.

I've had an escort before who would let you kiss his lips but wouldn't kiss you back. He didn't open his mouth to kiss back. It was a one-way kiss.

Does he not kiss at all or just doesn't reciprocate the kiss?

Attractiveness is subjective. I do not find any of those men attractive. That said, here is my list in no particular order.

1. Nils Tatum

2. Torsten Ullman

3. Christian Lundgren

4. Ashton Summers

5. Rocco Alfieri

6. Kaleb from Sean Cody

My dream would be to rent a big house on some secluded Caribbean or Pacific island and spend a week with these guys.