DirtyHarry

I'm the one who started that old thread on voyeurism. I still haven't figured out how to really make it happen. Hiring a couple of escorts is way beyond my budget, and I'm also kind of scared of the idea of getting into a dangerous situation with strangers. I will try looking into the Fetlife site though

I'm the one who started that old thread on voyeurism. I still haven't figured out how to really make it happen. Hiring a couple of escorts is way beyond my budget, and I'm also kind of scared of the idea of getting into a dangerous situation with strangers. I will try looking into the Fetlife site though

Being seen having male-male sex by an approving audience was very therapeutic towards dealing with some lingering homophobic shame leftover from my upbringing.  Even more so, when I've had a woman approve and encourage me as I'm having male-male sex. (I'm bi-/pan-sexual.)

Anyone else on this forum into voyeurism? While I enjoy porn, there is nothing more sexually exciting for me than seeing a couple (gay or straight) fuck in front of me.
I’ve had a few opportunities to watch couples fuck and I literally shake with excitement. Back in college I watched a straight couple fuck on my kitchen floor. And just recently I saw a male friend get fucked by another guy. Also recently there was a couple having really loud sex in the hotel room next to mine and I masturbated as I listened to them moan and hit the headboard against the wall
It’s even hotter if the people don’t know that I’m watching. But doing that in person or even watching videos of that without people’s consent is morally and legally fraught so I stay away from that content even though its such a turn on. 
I’ve really wanted to watch another straight couple fuck in front of me, but it has been proven elusive with providers. Too many schedules to sync up unfortunately.
Anyone else into watching?
 

Update... Can't say I recommend. The massage was meh. Very repetitive. He spent about 20 min on each leg in the same motion. Maybe he thought he was being sensual but I'd say otherwise. DM if you have specific questions. 

Spa club sucks, totally not worth the money IMO. Very small. In the men’s nude area, there’s just one sad little hot tub in a scorchingly bright room, and a steam room that only sometimes works. 

the area is monitored by nasty attendants with scowls who bark at you if you drip even one drop of water in the locker area. 
 
just my two cents, not fun or relaxing and not worth it. 

How’s NYSC 41st and 3rd these days?

Has anyone tried Spa Club in Koreatown?

What about the Thursday men-only hours? It’s listed on their site. Just want some nudes bath house time, but curious. Thursday 12-5pm.

I went to Epic men spa on 63rd and Lexington, for a Brazilian. 
 
As Jeremy was shaving my balls, I had a big hard on (it would be hard not to, when a man is holding your cock in his hand) Unfortunately he didn’t offer to help with that. I didn’t want to leave with blue balls, so I asked if I could get a massage with one of his guys (hoping they would be more helpful).
I had Pete who gave me a thorough Thai massage but he kept my private parts under a towel at all time, clear sign that he doesn’t want to do anything else. 
So I left with clean shaven - but still very blue - balls and quite disappointed. 

I am writing off epic men spa as a purely therapeutic place and won’t try again. 

I just saw a Tiktok of a (presumably gay) couple who just went to the Turkish Russian baths in NYC and the comments are popping off about potential gay activities there. So I came to this site to see if anyone knew more about it. Because the videos of the bathhouse itself makes it seem like a completely regular, mixed gender bathhouse. 

Thanks so much for the recommendations.  I ended up keeping our reservation at Bathhouse Flatiron and we had a good evening.  It was probably the better version of what I thought it could/might be....
If that makes sense.  LOL!
Will definitely try out these others.

Went today for a 30min session with Mohammed.  Pretty good massage, strong, sensual elements. Throughout. 

What does he look like?

Bumping this up to see if there are any new recommendations in the HK area.
HK Men Spa has a nice variety but the massages are meh. 
New Paradise is hit or miss. Some do extras some don't. The ones who do excellent deep tissue seem to rotate out frequently. 
TSMS are good on the extras but meh on the massages. 
Does anyone have a recommendation in HK for excellent deep tissue/stretching with extras? 

Also went to Renew and tried Danny. Average massage. Nothing sensual. Also tried another older guy on my 2nd visit— same. I tried the foot massage, pretty good. Nice option for a cheap massage with no HE.
Anyone tried the adjacent spas next to this spa? There are 2 others.

I’m not entirely what to make of this experience from a visit to Renew Spa (8th St near 6th Ave). Per recommendations, I asked for Frank or Danny. Frank was busy so I got Danny. Relatively cute Asian guy, youngish - not twink but not fat. Solid build young guy. Nice smile. 
 
His massage included lots of sensual moments - he knows what he’s doing. Get to end and he drapes me entirely, runs outside of blanket and says “that’s all”. Seems to be a move to extend, so I ask for 15 more minutes and oil on front. Again, lots of teasing touch but ends not as I would have thought considering all the teasing. 
 
Anyone else have experience with Danny? Is this consistent? 

Sadly, Sergey doesn't work there anymore. He gave the best massage but always legit, at least for me. 

Sergey was the best masseur by far.  Would love to know where he went.

Has anyone tried Hachi?

Thanks for the info!
Im not looking for a HE, just sensual teasing throughout a good strong massage, I’ll check him out

What's the best spot to go to in the city for a soft massage with good teasing and who should I ask for?

Sounds exactly what I'm looking for - I will try him soon, thx for reporting back

Ok, so I saw Antoni. Young-ish Asian guy. Very sweet. He got right to work and did a really good job massaging. 8/10 for the massage. Good flow, technique, pressure and attention to areas that needed help. Very sensual throughout. He didn't go for the HE but I'm guessing on my next visit he'll go for it. I know I will 🤣

Ok, seems Antoni has some good reviews. Might check him out today unless someone has a better recommendation.