DrownedBoy

Ouch - only 3 bodybuilders in Illinois, and they're not much to look at. Guess I'll be traveling more. Still, you'd think Chicago would have more. Maybe I need to wait for the plague to lift.

Once when I was staying at a hotel in a large downtown, workers vetted everyone who came in. I had to go down, meet the provider, and flash my hotel keycard to get back up on the elevator. That's the only hotel stay where that happened to me. It wasn't fancy either (I think it was a Holiday Inn).

Here's my prediction. Right after Covid lifts, rates will stay stable for a month or so. That's people who can't control their libido. Afterwards, there will be more escorts but prices will stop dropping, because too many clients have less income or worry about their jobs in a recession. I never understood why some people can't resist their libido, that they can't just walk away from a deal. That's probably the best thing a mature client can have.

Hey guys, I was wondering if there are other message forums for clients around the internet. Personally, I'm interested in 1:1 interactive meetings with bodybuilders. I understand there are forums where such arrangements can be made, but I don't know which ones are reliable. Does anyone have some advice?

The term "spit in my mouth" is a standard euphemism for a bj swallow. I only hope this is a metaphor too.

If you can get ahold of him. I hired him once and he was excellent, but he's nearly impossible to get in contact with, and he's extremely lackadaisical and slow when setting things up. The last time I tried to contact him, there were 15 minute pauses between every text, he seemed huffy that I didn't explicitly spell everything out although he never asked, and he ended by saying he was busy at the time. Maybe the recession will improve his customer service, but I don't like wasting time. As you can see, Chicago is a great city if you like facial hair....

No...we crushed on any guys, not knowing if they were straight (or just assuming). It's too bad I grew up in a less accepting era, since a lot of guys I grew up with came out later. I'm sure my personality would be a lot different if I had a boyfriend in junior high. It still blows my mind when I hear about same sex dating in high schools today.

Nobody never asked me that. However, cops, as I understand, need to get providers to explicitly state they're providing sex for money. I'm into role playing and not oral/anal, so it would be rather difficult to label anything I do with providers as "sex."

I don't like keeping providers hanging with "let you know" phrases. A firm answer is easier. Since the recession started, I'll be more specific, such as, "Sorry, I guess you're too high class for me." Markets work best when clear price signals get sent. Enough signals like that, and either providers drop their rates or drop out of escorting.

Absolutely not. I don't need to be with a guy who finds spending time together disgusting. Besides, straight guys never kiss, which is a deal breaker for me.

As a client, I always found it low-class to offer less than a provider asks for. They ask for what they want, and I say yay or nay. Only once have I downright told someone their rates were too high, and quoted one of my regulars' rates, and gotten a counter offer I would accept. I'm leery of counteroffers since there might be resentment on the provider's part.

Oh, I don't use Friendboy for the higher class escorts...

I've only hired once from those places (guy on Friendboy who also used to be on Mintboys) because they were really local. I got lucky and added a regular for now.

The days of 300 floors are over.

I'll have to be careful with post pandemic newbies. Before the pandemic, as I mentioned, new kids with no record would go on RM thinking they're worth 300-350. Now that they have massive competition and fewer clients, I'll have even less patience with that type.

Believe me, every single business in the country is determined to get a better deal. Businesses hated the past 2 years, when it was hard to find workers. Now they have their pick of desperate unemployed people, while they can threaten to lay off their existing ones. It's how the world works, no matter what business you're in.

In my line of work, it's not uncommon to see people come into the office with the flu and such. I've always said that this in itself could infect a chain of carriers and eventually kill someone. Hopefully after Covid, businesses will wise up to all the lost productivity they incur by forcing people to come in sick. However, it's near impossible to prove that you caught an airborne disease from a specific person.

My regulars are there.

Hate to say it, but so many states are opening everything ahead of time that we'll probably have a second peak (and shutdowns) later this year, worse than the current one.

I won't be hiring anyone who won't kiss either. I'll probably follow whatever guidelines my state establishes. One thing I'll need to do is wait between meetups until new cases are down or testing becomes available. There's no way I'm meeting more than once every 14 days. I work from home alone right now, and due to my age and health, am at extremely low risk of getting seriously ill. But I don't want to spread anything beyond myself.

Exactly. Combined with older clients too afraid or sick to hire, demand will plummet, while supply increases. The new normal will be to drop rates or drop out of escorting. And if you think white collar employees are exempt, you don't know jack about economics. That's the coming second wave of layoffs. Even my firm instituted a wage freeze, a hiring freeze, and no bonuses for the year.

Pass! Anyone who quotes me over 300 is going to get a sharp "uh, you know we're in the middle of a global recession. " If my boss can use that line, so can I.

One of my repeat hires insists on keeping his cell on hand for "safety" reasons...

Anyone use marijuana? Some guys swear by it. I tried it several times, and while it can get you horny, it's really hard to get off. At least for me.

That's never. Don't forget the regular flu can kill you too.