30somethingsexybear

9pm, Buff is heading there now and preparing so he may not answer your messages on here, hit me up privately and I'll send the deets Usually ends around 1 and some of the guys go down to evolve if they want to keep the party going as they go til 4am

Also a party hosted in a private apt uptown by BuffDaddy, who has a generally very accomodating group of nude dancers and bedrooms for private use. Party donation is 40 bucks and the rooms are free you just chat with the dancer if you want and can head into a bedroom or tip them while they are mingling in the mingling area. It's a smaller space but a lot more intimate and not nearly as crowded as the Nude Adonis events.

omg i choked on my omelette reading that lol

If money isn't really much of a concern then I wouldn't care too much, Also I too adhere to the idea of "Don't lend money that you care about getting back." When you do get paid back it's like a nice lil' bonus (even though it's your money to begin with) lol.

Holy Moly that body is perfect. just enough hair, not too cut, not too thick, and that cock . Wonder what his ass looks/tastes/feels like ha ha,

Hey Bluedawg, in terms of travel time it really depends on where you are travelling from and what time you leave to go. They don't start til 7 and a lot of these boys are on stripper time (late) so I'd advise to go a little later than the 7 start time and if you're driving going East, well I say try to go later so you miss all the Rush hour traffic (which dies down about 830pm or so), if you're going via LIRR from the city then it's about an hour from Penn Station, then you have to take a yellow taxi or an uber from the nearest station, it's about 15 mins. The venue (as mentioned previously) is more in a business / industrial section so after 6pm the whole area becomes very quiet so privacy is there, there is parking in the rear of the building which is where the entrance is, well lit area back there and there is parking on the streets but it is not as well lit as the rear of the building. The place is clean but also has this wonderfully seedy vibe that just makes it all seem a little dangerous (which it's not but the idea of it brings excitement). There really isn't any food by there but once you go on the main roadway you'll see various restaurants and shopping centers that have places here and there and there's a lot of good Italian food in the area. The private rooms are very affordable and you don't feel as exposed as you do at the other parties in NYC and no one is watching to make sure everyone is playing patty cake instead of having fun like the other venues in NYC. The guys have a lot more freedom to be sluts and THEY USE THAT FREEDOM. Buff Daddy has a talent for finding talent that are very friendly and don't think they're too good for the clients or to do the work they are doing unlike a lot of the NYC parties where you can tell the guys just work every single night and are just over it. Buff's guys seem like they are having fun and are more eager to please in general. You should go tonight as this dude Surf is going to be there. I was at Buff's Monday night party and he is as sweet as can be and has this great laid back surfer vibe, his thighs and butt and chest are heavenly. Just the right amount of trimmed body hair to not be fully smooth or prickly from shaving but not a werewolf at all, very light sheen of body hair that is yummy. Have a drink, chat with some of the guys working, chat with other patrons and relax, get a private room (15 bucks, what a steal) tell the guy what you like, see if they are amenable and then enjoy and tip accordingly and you'll leave a happy camper. *Disclaimer* 30somethingsexybear cannot guarantee a good time, but based on previous experiences with Buff Daddy's parties I'd say a good time is more likely than not! Cheers and Enjoy!

1. I don't care if they are straight identified. As long as they are willing to be accommodating to what the client is looking for I actually find in my experience (there are exceptions to every rule of course) straight guys to be much more professional than the gay ones, they are there to do a job, not to necessarily enjoy it or find a husband etc. They just put on the hard hat, grab their lunch pail, and get to work! Though 500 for an hour of time does seems quite steep.

I went to this event on the Monday with Danny Gunn and he threw those legs in the air and got plowed by two different dancers! It was great, the boys at Buff Daddy's shows are always way more piggier and open than a lot of the dancers at other places who think they are above it all! Buff's boys get down and dirty! woot!

Holy Moly he is spectacular, is he top/ bottom/ vers? anyone know his rates for time?

I agree with this full throatedly (swallowing pun very much intended) and I would add that when you ask to mention that it's something you're curious about and a fantasy but make sure it's not a deal breaker. Some guys will say yes to pretty much anything to get you to come to them or them to come to you and then underdeliver as the likelihood of a consumer paying them nothing and leaving or kicking the provider out of the consumer's home is highly unlikely. Sure it could happen but usually the physical power dynamic is very much with the provider and not the consumer and they understand a consumer is much more likely to just have a mediocre session and pay just to get along. Granted it's a terrible long term business strategy in larger markets but also a large portion of providers aren't exactly long term thinkers so it's just a numbers game to them.

sent a DM to you, he looks very good

oh Hung Cody, you and I are so simpatico with our love of sweet and simple muscle boys with child support payments and loose restrictions lol.

He is relatively new and is working with Buff Daddy under the name Angelo at his parties he throws in Long Island New York and comes to the city on occasion when Buff Daddy does a show at the loft or the penthouse. The Long Island parties are great. So seedy and fun! The guys Buff has are wayyyyy more accommodating than most of the guys are at Adonis and Spunk parties.

Very sexy jock bod on this guy. A twunk for sure

he says he's very much into kissing.

I'm really glad you are feeling better and I love all the responses here! The community really coming together! Being with a partner for 25 years and losing them is just a pain I cannot begin to imagine the loss, and I would ask if you feel you have mourned for them in a way you feel is sufficient? This "slutty" phase that you referred to earlier seems like an avoidance of sorts as well as a protective husk in a way. If you feel you can please a younger man in the prime of life (physically anyway) and feel they care for you then it eases the pain of loss as you have something new and shiny to look forward to. I agree with the other posters that maybe doing more of a one hour - 3 hour stint of time, so you can enjoy yourself and feel some connection but not feel like a father figure making sure to take care of everything for your young charge. This escort took advantage of your situation but in his head I can imagine him thinking that it's a win/ win for everyone! You get to spend time with him and have sex when you want at a discount, he gets a vacay and make some money on top of it and he gets to enjoy your lovely home to have even more destination sex. What someone that young may not understand however is that their beauty and prowess (sexual or otherwise) is not proportional to what they are taking from you. I don't think this guy is a bad guy necessarily but he definitely did not take all of your feelings and needs into account. I'd also recommend going with an older escort next time as well. The difference between 18-23 and 28-33 emotionally is Gigantic but not much is lost in terms of looks etc. Most of the older escorts have better bodies also as they've been working on them longer and understand their career/ job at this point. Best of luck to you and feel free to directly message me if you feel like you want to talk to someone.

I know a lot of people didn't like the Jake Cruise vids with him in it and granted I didn't derive sexual pleasure from them but I did use them as a tool for knowing what escorts would probably be excellent. Jake was older, not in the best shape and some of these hot guys were hard as a rock and also some would bottom and it would give me a secure feeling as I know porn shoots are pretty unsexy in general and the fact that Jake was not what one would call the ideal specimen coupled with that always led me to believe that if they can perform under those conditions, I'm sure they'd have no problem spending time with me and hell, they may even enjoy it! Or at least be able to fake the enjoyment well enough lol.

yes looking forward to hearing the details, is he top only or vers?

Seems like he's only into muscle worship. Cool for some but for me it's a big Yawn. If you're not giving up that muscle ass for my enjoyment then they're dead to me LOL! :p:p:p

ALways wanted to meet Ace but he was in and out of the business so fast and also disappeared from escort work too it seems. He was such a pig and so classically beautiful. Usually to get as piggy as he was one has to get almost middle aged, he was very advanced for his age.

wish there were places like that in America or NYC or LA

here here!

Went last night and the energy was great and the guys were hot but it was soooooo packed and they closed the smoking room so there was even less room and it was so hot I was afraid someone was going to pass out. The space just can't handle that many people. I was going to go for a dance but once we entered the area after the narrow hallway it was even hotter. I had to say no and go back to stand near a fan lol. Towards the end of the night when people were clearing out it got a little better but be prepared. Wear very light, breathable clothing and bring paper towels or something for the heat. Also tip your bartender Josh as he was working so hard making sure ice was available as it was needed! Tim was also busting his buns dragging Ice everywhere as well as a bar back (whose name eludes me at the moment). The music was so fun by the bar but be prepared to BYOB and to be very very sweaty. In a good way and not in a good way at the same time lol

being 33 is probably helpful

It's like a burlesque type of thing.