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I thought he had faded away. He specializes in the get to know you video call. He's charming, but well into his thirties or even more. Who knows if he ever meets anyone. And all that retoric. it's gay sex not an instruction manual to build an IPhone.

Pass

He was expensive but could deliver . I had a huge windfall at about 35 YO, accompanied by a major crush on porn star Joe Cade. Wired David Forrest one thousand up front, Joe arrived we had a great weekend and I think I paid him $2,000 and I paid the airfare. Outstanding weekend that goes down as the best of the best. And we did it all without email, cell phones Venmo and the internet! I still have a soft spot for porn star muscle boy tops.

No, just that kind of money is like jumping into the deep end of a very cold pool....glad you did it, but definitely takes your breath away. In this case hopfully more than just your wallet's breath .

They are probably worth it....but only if you take the plunge.

Wow, this is quite a thread, from just a few questions about the Seeking website. I have had several very successful arrangements including one that I am in now with a fabulous guy. A couple of observations, while you may be atttactive or in great shape, you're probably still a grandpa in their eyes . That's okay, they signed on for that. Treat them with respect and you will get the same in return. Turn the feelings of jealousy of other things they do around. Would you really want this twenty somethng guy with all the issues that go along with being that age around 24/7? Even if they are the next Jamie Dimon the issues facing that age group can be exhausting for those who have been there done that ! So if they see other guys or travel without you, be happy for them, not jealous. Don't ask questions if the truth will bother you. You may remember the movie Saving Private Ryan, when the young soldier Matt Damon, morphs into the old man in the Normandy graveyard. We all had our turn to be Matt Damon. Now even Matt Damon is looking a little "older" . Gay men can be a petty jealous group, try to rise above that. Personally I am glad that I have the ability to hire or arrange with these guys and am not figuring out how to retire on Social Security. Four or five days every other month is plenty. Zadun in Cabo San Lucas in February will be lot more fun with this guy than with my peers even though they would pay ! Some people can get just way too involved. Be glad for th opportunities that modern technology and communications have brought to us.

He posts a lot on social media. Instagram I think . In his videos he is just as hot as everyone thinks, also very unbalanced and quite effeminate. What a shame, but I would be afraid and prbably turned off to be alone in a room with him .

I am sure he has been talked about on here before. Always been on my wish list, but schedules never colided.

Call me when Tom Brady escorts, but only if he's a top. Chris Evans only if he is clean shaven. And everyone can have my turn with Cade Maddox. You can just tell he has a prima donna attitude, But then so could Tom and Chris.

I met him last time he was in Charlotte. Great guy, the age is shaved and the pictures are a bit out of date. I am 6'5" so I am a lousy judge of height. I would hire him again when schedules work. He left Charlotte I beleive.

And the photos and towns on his going to be in don't back it up. Looks pretty ho hum to me.

Really, he's Asian...and he only meets white guys, that's sort of a double racism to me. I'm with Mike, not my kind of guy.

I got a message from him on RM ... He may just be worth an exorbitant rate. Stay tuned

I would just bet, that in the resorts of the Med in the summer, he is very popular and very expensive.

So true...

I texted him...a total wreck. Sounds like he is on something and out on a ledge somewhere, Unless you are a soul saver, I owuld move on.

With those looks, he may find him

I agree with Msclver and Sam. Both sides need to be nice. Each has something that the other one desires. As for Sam's comments... Sam do you have any idea how many vice presidents Wells Fargo has ? probably more than the number of guys on RM. And you probably make more than most of them. In the world of finance, titles are cheap. And anyone that berates you because he can't afford you, whether the amount is fair or not is a jerk. I would love a Bentley Bentanya, but at $300K I can't afford it. Is it worth it, maybe. maybe not. Is yelling obscenities at the Bentley dealer going to change anything, not really. By the way Sam you have a great photographer and look to be a real sweetheart of a guy. I get to LA a few times a year, I'll look you up. Promise not to title insult you !

And the world loves Italians...they like the food, they like the fashion and the men...

The whole vibe intensifies in South Philly...huge turn ons...remember Leo Giamani....

I arranged to meet him in Miami about a year and a half ago. His name was Gabri then, same phone nuber and same pictures. Claimed car trouble the day before and asked for some up front $$'s . Then he ghosted me. Beware guys, very nice.. lulls you to trust them wham...

I think you should stay a week and try each one. You have great taste!

He sure does like to keep his shirt on... makes you wonder..

Looks like a bargain at any price!

I usually bring them to me if it's the first time or look around where you might not mind going anywhere. I get to NYC regularly so I look around there. But who am I to say, my current arrangment lives on the West Coast, I live on the East. It's a great arrangment but can be pricey! Good luck.