Hi, folks - rookie here, in all respects. I'll be happy to provide more details/context if necessary, but the core question is whether anyone is familiar with an escort-like service called "Varsity Empire"? Internet searches for this turn up only unrelated pages with the same name. I responded to an ad on doublelist, and got a response from someone who "started a private network for gay men who want to meet real actual straight men", and offered to connect me with an ex-MMA fighter for a fee. I'm getting a weird vibe, and I can't tell if that's just 'cause I haven't done this before, or if there's actually something sketchy happening here. I get that these kinds of services will naturally be a bit more discreet, but shouldn't there be some evidence of reputability in one way or another? If figured if that exists anywhere, this is probably the place where someone would know!
I'm in Philly, but the number I was contacted from had a phone number with a Manhattan area code. I'd be grateful for (a) info on this specific organization, (b) general advice on how to vett unfamiliar services (what questions to ask, red flags to look for), (c) both, or (d) whatever you think I *should* be thinking about but haven't yet! Thank you! I'll try to remember to check back here soon... not sure if there's a way to get email alerts when someone replies? (I just selected "follow topic", so maybe that'll help?)