Realalist

I am not an escort. You miss my point. Our photos are all over Facebook, Instagram, Linkedin etc. Anyone can get a photo of anyone. An escort having a photo of mine does not mean I hired him, or even communicated with him. It means absolutely nothing.

The point you are missing that in addition to a photo, this photo is attached to potentially explicit text as well. I'm pretty sure that most are more worried about that considering a picture is worthless without context.

I would not be concerned with privacy. Our photos are all over social media.

That logic seems flawed.

Bump. In DC again.

I'm confused. What do you mean by "how does one get" the fake accounts with reviews? Do you mean how can you tell whether an older account is fake and contains fake reviews?

No. I'm trying to figure how people get fake reviews especially the ones from accounts that weren't just created.

Doesn't it just take an email exchange on RM? So, you create sockpuppet accounts and email your escort account: "Can't wait to meet u." "Yes, see you soon."

That's easy to spot. I'm speaking about the reviews from accounts that have some age to them. If those are fake, how does one get them?

(joking): So, how do we get the real Anthony Lewis to start escorting? He's hot.

 

The pattern on RM reviews I see is an initial 1-star review followed by a handful of 5-stars. I used to think, "He was nervous or awkward at first, like anyone would be, so that explains the 1-star," but now I get that those later reviews are usually fake. And they usually cluster around a couple dates, too. I think this site should be renamed "The Sherlock Holmes Site" for the mystery-deciphering that's so necessary.

So now I'm wondering if anyone knows how to get fake reviews on RM?

I totally forgot about all the drama surrounding him. He's been scrubbed clean from just about everywhere.

Bumps

He's not. He's using the pictures of a little known artist named Anthony Lewis. He actually just got off Tyler Perry's Madea farewell tour. He messaged me after I went to his profile (which is the first time that has ever happened to me) and blocked me after I mentioned how it was going to be hard for me to book him while he was on tour with Tyler lol. Hot XXX stuff though. I don't know how I'm supposed to trust RM when this obvious fake has multiple positive reviews.

I look at him every time he comes to town and always regret missing out on him.

Lots of red flags. Very likely a fake

Unfortunately, for me at least, once they even make the offer the relationships is over. They are not going to pay it back and it's going to get weird when they don't. Once they ask.....CUT THEM OFF!

He's coming to DC and I might can't resist that height.

I've been wanting to take this trip as well but too much investment to go in blind. He's in DC tomorrow.

here's his RM ad.....and now with video!

 

https://rent.men/Mister_eleven/

His dick must've grown an inch.

His name has changed multiple times so I know something is up. I actually had him once on my last visit to NY. He was nice but the session was fast because after giving him 5 minutes of head, he came.

https://rent.men/BIG_QUALITYViSiT/

Probably a good plan at this point. Once your confidence has been built up you can give it a whirl.

Just gave it a whirl and results came in pretty fast. I think I prefer the RM approach for now but will continue to experiment.

Unfortunately most guys on Grindr looking to pay are simply doing to get a cheaper rate.

 

 

 

For the record: even if you are willing to pay you'll have to tell your stats and possibly send pictures. Good luck!

What? I have too many issues for that. Back to RM.

I'm taking notes and downloading the app as we speak.

You really can't trust anyone. I was just going through his RM reviews earlier and was seriously considering him. Surprised all those people had good experiences.

Update: I was just browsing his profile hours ago and checked just now and a negative review is removed. Weird.

Well, one of them has 5 reviews so he's likely real. Them working out at the same gym and advertising in the same area doesn't seem suspicious if you reason that they are friends and one convinced the other to join recently. Just shoot one or both a message asking if they would mind sending a confirmation pic to you.

This would never bother me. If the action was good, we are both satisfied and it's been less than an hour then I don't expect the escort to stick around, although I'm sure there's a variety of opinions when it comes to this.

Agreed. Everyone is different but I want to get right to it and out the door shortly after climax.

In my very first true hire of a guy from a web site about 6 years ago I picked a “porn star” figuring he would know what to do. He knew exactly what to do.

 

I sat on a sofa in his living room and he in an overstuffed chair about 10 feet away. It was to be a 2-hour meeting and he talked for over an hour and half. He talked non-stop about everything under the sun: his days as a flight attendant, real estate, politics, etc. With about 15 minutes left he stood up “well, out time is about up. Why don’t we get back together for some fun.”

I foolishly booked another 2-hours and the exact same thing happened. I didn’t know how “this stuff” was supposed to work and didn’t know what to do. (He is still on RentMen in Atlanta and still advertising as a porn star.)

 

I do like to chat and get acquainted with someone I’ve never met, including in my Seekingarrangement days, but learned to begin some physical contact immediately - a big hug and kiss. Then chatting with a light touch to the forearm... resting a hand on the shoulder.. “do you mind if I kiss you”, etc. I have found myself still yapping away after 30 minutes but that’s my fault. And then move to “shall we get more comfortable” pretty quickly. If I’m getting a vibe that’s anything but enthusiastic I suggest that we schedule for a time when he’s more comfortable.

My worse fears come to life. So sorry that happened to you.

wow...this society has really gotten to a place that it has never been before. i was giving a motivational, sincere, positive response to try to help the man out. most on here got that and appreciate it. never did i call him names, belittle him nor try to make him feel anything but upbeat about himself. we all can improve ourselves even if in small ways.

 

the man gets on here and says he thinks he is too disgusting to hire an escort. i try to give him sound advice. never did i try to tell him to get ripped abs and go to a white party and flaunt it around like so many do. nope. not once.

 

never will a horrible, so negative a reply like the one kent gave here stop me from trying to help people. i think most here understand this and kent just made himself look like a horrible human being.

"Too disgusting to hire an escort" never came out of my mouth (or anyone else's) but I suppose I appreciate the effort.

"I experience a great deal of anxiety trying to hire someone because of my weight. I often fantasize about having an amazing experience with a hot guy. Mostly I tend to choose less attractive escorts to mitigate some damage. I just want to feel wanted and validated."

 

He wants the hot guys to want him too. He's not interested in just average guys. I get that. When I was 30 I wanted desperately to fit in and of coarse you want the hotties to notice you so I started going to the gym and guess what. My dream came true. Yah. Also, he never stated that he has a disease or whatever so I'm going with that.

I think you somewhat missed the point. This conversation is about my anxiety hiring escorts while fat, so "trying to fit it" or "getting the hotties to notice you" is far from the issue I described. While I agree getting in shape would probably help with some of my issues, I'm certainly not doing it so an escort will like me.

This may be obvious to everyone else, if so, apologies for the dumb question. @Islesguy is it that US immigration won't let him in because they've marked him as an escort?

Highly unlikely.