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MartyB

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  1. I have learned that unless one is looking for a 3 way I would not ask an escort for a recommendation for another escort. I do my own due diligence and look at reviews inquire to those on this board I respect and look at for guidance to an escort I've never met and perhaps they have. In addition that 6 degrees of separation among escorts who know each other is quite real even among those who travel here from Europe.

  2. Ok - I'll volunteer. ;)

     

    (I'm not going to name the escort as I think that would put this too much in the review category. But I do want to describe the experience. I hope this is kosher for the site.)

     

    Background - though I've always pretty much identified as gay, I did date a few girls in college, though we never went all the way. I'm a very oral-oriented guy, and one thing I've always been curious about is going down on a woman. But I've never gotten up the nerve to find a woman to hook up with for that purpose. Actually, I've always thought what I'd really love to do would be to meet with a M/F couple, and having him demonstrate and coach me - but also because having the male presence in the room with me would be both a turn-on and a comfort. So, as the presence of FTM's have become more prominent, I figured this might be a good way of experiencing both in one person.

     

    The escort I hired was very handsome, boyish, friendly, and happy to help me fulfill my desires. After some making out, etc, - and I'll refer to him in male pronouns for now - he stripped down and let me have my first real intimate look at a "front hole" as it were. I have to say that I was much more turned on than I even expected to be. He showed me how to finger him, which I enjoyed doing, and then encouraged me to use my tongue. His only provision was that he said he didn't orgasm easily, and wouldn't fake it, lol. But he let me go at it for a good long time, and seemed to be enjoying it. I would have liked more guidance, to know for sure that I was doing it right, but given that he let me keep going, I have to assume I was doing ok.

     

    So yes - it was intensely erotic for me, though I would have found it moreso with more involvement from him. (Though I don't mean to make it sound like he wasn't involved - he was - just not as much as I would have liked.) Would I do it again? I think so. And I would definitely say that, as I expected, part of the fun of the experience for me was that to me he was very much a "guy," just with female genitalia. I liked the male/male dynamic but with the ability to explore a different part of the anatomy.

     

    I hope that helps. :D

    Appreciate this. Did u do anal?

  3. I'm curious for some on this forum who have hired FTM escorts. Without graphic detail how did u find the experience? Would u do it again? Was it as erotic as u had expected? I have some curiosity about what it would be like I don't think in the end I would go there but it is intriguing.

  4. I think to remember that he has been coming in the not so far away past often to NYC with another guy offering separate and together services. I also think to remember that reviews were mixed, sort go general idea of a great top but little passion and a bit detached.

    But I can be wrong....

    I have loved his pics for a while, an ideal look for me, so very interested to hear from people who hired him ( @wklucas?...) in FL or in NYC! :cool:

    Saw him about 4 times several years ago. Pure top. Nice size and had lots of energy. Looks like his pics. Good man. Not a passionate kisser.

  5. Dane has many regulars in NYC and Chicago. I am going to bet that he filled his schedule with regulars that he sees in NYC and decided to put the "unavailable" sign out so he didn't get a lot of extra messages.

    I saw him when he was in NYC. His regulars filled his calendar.

  6. Hey MartyB have a fantastic trip and be safe. I'm leaving on the 22nd for a three week drive through Burgundy and the Loire Valley; doing the wine thing in Burgundy and the wine and chateau thing in the Loire.

    Doing Bordeaux a year from now lol. Thanks my friend enjoy your trip as well. Xoxo

  7. Yeah, it is nice.

     

    Quite a number of people in my life know that I hire escorts, I'm quite open and casual about it. But that doesn't mean I can really talk to them about my specific experiences. Most just react with fascinated curiosity and then I feel like my experiences are on display for their entertainment instead of sharing, connecting and decompressing.

     

    And then there's people who say things like: "Paying for sex is pathetic. How desperate must you be?". Never to my face, mind you, I usually test the waters conversationally about the this topic and then these things will be said. Now, to be honest (and happy about it too) I think I've only ever heard one person say that, actually. The others were just... Surprised and curious.

    Do you ever get the feeling that others that we know also hire escorts? One never knows? Lol

  8. `I didn't think it would ever happen, but last year I was asked by 2 members of this board to meet them for coffee and to 'talk shop'. Hiring is something that I was a bit embarrassed about and never discussed with anyone. I expected clients to be real pervs or lecherous old geezers. When I met the gentlemen, I was pleasantly surprised. They are both professionals, on top of their game. I enjoyed meeting with them. Of course we compared notes on specific escorts. While we didn't become close friends, I am glad we met. We do keep in touch and still meet occasionally.

     

    It has been a very valuable experience for me.

    I too did meet up recently with a fellow board member and it was a very nice experience. I have expressed interest in meeting others but only when one can tell it would be fun and a nice meet.

  9. The only time I feel like talking about it is when I've had a particularly nice time with an escort and I'm in the head space of "Why doesn't everybody do this?"

    On Friday I had a truly great experience with an escort. I told him over breakfast after our fun who extraordinary it was eng with him and how great I felt and he gave me that. It was a nice connection and he appreciated it. Outside of those on this forum who would really understand it or get it? Especially my family and straight friends.

  10. Every one in awhile I get the urge but it lasts about 5 seconds. Lol. The hiring of escorts has become my private affair. I actually relish in the secrecy of it. Recently for the first time I'm attending public gatherings where I can have sex openly with guys and enjoy it immensely great turn on. However I don't discuss any aspects of this other than with escorts or on this forum

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