Hudson Hawke

I just checked the website, this is the first time I heard of it. IMHO it looks just as a VIP Rentmen. I'm sure you have hot guys there, but they will bill you. Congrats for the happy 9 days!

Seeking arrangments is not a catch all for one type of situation contrary to what this poster thinks. Many of the guys on that site are escorts looking for sex, some are looking for monthly things, some are looking for little support, some are looking for a lot of support. It is what you and the other party make it and not some preconceived thing that is ordained by the urban dictionary.

It was 9 days on and off and I gave him time on his own whenever he wanted it. Some of the guys on the site are background checked. As for him, he gave me his real name and I checked his social media profile and stuff like that. We skyped several times before meeting and I was very comfortable.
 
I realize I probably lucked into a very good -- and perhaps unique -- experience. I wouldn't want anyone to get the impression that it is like that on that site all the time. I had to wade through a bunch of cancelations, the guy who insisted on me having every conceivable thing to suit his insane vegan diet, and the plethora of twinks. But I did strike gold eventually.
 
But it is just one man's experience. I'm sure others have bad ones to go with the good one.

Well, I thought the whole thing sounded kinda lame but I had a little time on my hands so I created a profile. I can't say I found much in the first few days: twinks, fakes, flakes, the usual assortment of game players. Then I met a guy who is an aspiring fitness model based in Toronto. I took a leap of faith and flew him to New York. Well, we just spent the better part of the past 10 days at my place in CT. It was amazing. He's 23, ripped, beautiful, and for this initially visit all he wanted was his airfare and other expenses covered.
 
So, perhaps, it's not a bad site after all. It was worth the $70 initial fee.

This happened to me with an escort who is now long retired. As one of my favorite guys, he came over for our regular overnighter. He was in rare form that night, and mounted me reverse cowboy within minutes of arrival. I had a really good angle on him and we went about 10 minutes when I smelled the incident.
 
I finished him off but it did throw me bc...well...it is sh!t after all, but also bc he had always been immaculate. Much like Anton, I did the inside-out condom knot and disposed of the evidence. I also gently recommended he freshen up. That went all sorts of wrong.
 
He was mortified! He wanted to leave and not to charge. He was so upset. I kissed him and told him I could not wait to be inside of him again that night and to forget about it. He looked looked puzzled and then, this 23 yo, said one of the saddest things I've ever heard: "I'm supposed to be the professional here; this should not happen, I should go" I thought to myself "is this what a 6'2 220 pound Nordic god supposed to be wondering at such tender age? Is he really expecting such perfection?" Much to my chagrin, he left and I received a letter of apology later that night for his failure to clean himself properly. Things were never the same again. He would always be a little tense as a bottom and not as free. I even regretted having told him to freshen up. Even today I struggle with how to best position a "refreshening" with partners.
 
Sh!t happens and not just physiologically.

You'd be surprised. I hired a guy once who not only freaked out when a little bit of "shit happened," but he got in the shower without telling me what he was doing and eventually came out of his bathroom (perhaps 10 minutes later) fully clothed. At this point, we were probably only half way into our scheduled session. I asked him to return to bed and he said he could do that because the mood was totally killed. I wasn't too pleased (and I was also embarrassed), but what came next was the real shocker: He expected me to pay him for the full hour even though we had spent, at most, 15 minutes or so being intimate. I told him that under the circumstances, I certainly wasn't going to pay him for the full hour. I paid him half (still more than I thought he deserved) and left. I could tell he was angry, but so was I. His reaction was just so over-the-top from my perspective. One would have thought that I defecated all over his bedroom.

Shit happens. Bottoming can be dirty biz. Stop, wash up redouche and if the mood isn't totally killed restart. If this is with a client I would roll the clock back and wouldn't count the clean up towards the time. Accidents do happen and I would hope that any professional working guy would understand.
 
Hugs,
Greg

I feel love is something different for everyone. While traveling, I've met many people out and about; restaurants, movies, clubs, bars, theaters, hotel lobbys, gyms etc,etc (Male and Female) After a few meetings I must admit I start telling them I love them. I cherish all forms of life, good and bad. Everyone can change, after along rigorous process.
 
What I'm really saying is, love means alot of things, a client will and should understand that love and being in a serious and committed relationship are two different things. I've had a few really good, close and great clients come play into this grey area! No one has ever crossed a line beyond that! I've formed some long term friendships and clients since I've been traveling since I was 19.
 
This is one of those things you'll have to take at your own leisure, really thing about it. Some people consider "LOVE" a taboo and labled type of thing, but I think two mature adults can handle it! the burning desire of a FUCKING HOTT session is undeniable