Jump to content

bashful

+ Supporters
  • Posts

    2,701
  • Joined

  • Last visited

Reputation Activity

  1. Like
  2. Like
  3. Like
    + bashful reacted to pubic_assistance in Dear clients, would you rather hire a bisexual or gay provider?   
    In spite of all the (ridiculous) calls of "homophobia" above, there is definitely a market for str8 tops.
    The fine line is in spelling.
    "Straight" is a fantasy. If you were actually straight you're not fucking random men up the ass.
    "Str8" is commonly understood as straight-ACTING Which you seem to believe is your "look".
    I definitely prefer a straight-acting man who's into men. Effeminate men are (sexually) repugnant to me. Not interested in the opinions about why...it just IS.  So when I'm slapping down my hard-earned ca$h I want what I want. And if that's a provider to pretend one of those hot straight boys from college I used to drool over, is letting me service him...then that's my business and a good marketing strategy to any provider who can pull it off.
    Plenty of men here pay for the illusion of intimacy when they clamoring for a "good kisser". Obviously their provider isn't actually in love with them. So if you are selling the illusion that you're leaning straight I don't see the difference in selling a fantasy.
  4. Like
    + bashful reacted to nopelo in Dear clients, would you rather hire a bisexual or gay provider?   
    Dear socurious, 
    I think the definition of gay, bi and straight will be different in different cultures and in the minds of different individuals, so there's really no way for you to get a clear/universal answer. I also sense that many of the replies above seem slightly politicised, as in lgbt politics. Nothing wrong with that, because many gay men still feel uncomfortable about being seen as second class to straight men, for obvious reasons. So why should we pay extra money for someone who is on the oppressing side of these politics and possibly also a liar? Makes total sense to me. 
    I come from a different place, though. First because I'm 100 percent gay myself, and I still have enjoyed sex with females and MTF trans persons a few times. There can be a joy in a sexual encounter that is not primarily about the other person's genitals or genes. Hey, back in the day, fucking a goat or a cow, was one of the more common sexual experiences for young males in the rural context (there's research proving this). When people say "a hole is a hole" it can sound quite judgy or cynical, but there is a reality to that, sociologically and historically. Think about men at war or in prison, for example. Raping a prisoner of war must be something very different from letting your cell mate, who is also your best buddy, fuck you in the ass. Not even discussing who is straight, gay or bi.
    A couple of my straight friends (when I was younger and more attractive) tried to have sex with me, when we were drunk. So, anything can happen and that's ok. They are all happily married now and I don't think they ever did it with a man, as I didn't want it. 
    Second, I have had a few absolutely beautiful sexual experiences with guys who I would define as straight. Not for pay, it just happened. Two guys drunk and horny and one of them (me) made an advance. All these experiences were in Africa, with young men who were married, had kids and did not in any way see themselves as gay. I think it just excited them that I wanted their dick. They treated me royally, though, amazing sex. They did kiss, but not profoundly, they tried to figure out what I wanted , so that they could satisfy me. They gave all they had, but within boundaries. 
    So my reply is, in the end, similar to other replies above. Why lie about it? You can not give another person any other experience than what you are and what you bring. A lot of escorts don't specify if they are this or that, leaving it up to the client's imagination. Maybe you should just stay with that? Being a bit enigmatic can be sexy too. 
  5. Haha
    + bashful reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in Actual experiences with legal problems using RM?   
    I'd probably do drugs too if someone took me to a food court
  6. Like
    + bashful reacted to JTee in ass eating/rimming???   
    Rimming is such an intimate activity I assume all providers will not do it, and am pleasantly surprised when they do. At the (extreme) risk of sounding arrogant, I'm a pretty good looking, in-shape guy with thick legs and a muscle butt. Like KensingtonHomo, I meet providers because I can afford it and I appreciate meeting the hottest guys when I want, where I want, usually when I'm traveling. More than once, when my pants drop, a provider mas made it very clear they want to play with my ass. The problem of course is that I'm a top, but one who enjoys getting my ass worshipped. Usually if I let them eat it, they want to fuck it, and somebody ends up disappointed.
    One of my hottest encounters was with a provider in Miami a couple of years ago. Absolutely stunning, model material provider who went to town on my butt, and tried (in vain) to fuck it. He eventually shot a load with his face in my ass. Sadly, I think this guy has since retired from the biz.
  7. Like
    + bashful reacted to Simon Suraci in ass eating/rimming???   
    I LOVE rimming. It’s among my best sexual talents, and one of my specialties. I enjoy doing this for my clients, and sometimes they book me just for a rimming session. It’s not infrequent I make men cum this way. Great if a client enjoys rimming me too, but I’m truly a giver. I wrote a guide. Linking below:
     
  8. Like
    + bashful reacted to + BenjaminNicholas in How much weight should a skipped review hold?   
    I see no reason to publicly reply to any review of mine.
    Privately, you thank someone.  Simple, kind, effective.
    If you're writing a positive review just to get a visible pat on the head, that seems a little silly.
  9. Like
  10. Like
  11. Like
  12. Like
    + bashful reacted to Whitman in I like big butts....   
  13. Like
    + bashful reacted to Whitman in I like big butts....   
    https://daily.squirt.org/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/134863_10-900x600.jpg
  14. Like
    + bashful reacted to Whitman in I like big butts....   
  15. Like
    + bashful reacted to Whitman in I like big butts....   
  16. Like
    + bashful reacted to Whitman in I like big butts....   
  17. Like
    + bashful reacted to Whitman in I like big butts....   
  18. Like
    + bashful reacted to Danny-Darko in I like big butts....   
  19. Like
    + bashful reacted to Whitman in I like big butts....   
  20. Like
  21. Like
  22. Like
    + bashful reacted to Whitman in Wrap Those Thighs Around Me and Squeeze, Please   
    https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgpBiMNZ3wrq3NmQe7odX6g9FPdjU_B1UZ91Mg9TRSkE2BTVplXDW4L0DXbVjDDCnEysoIuHA__P1OE6AAEj-b2BcB4oxmNqm6TazuUQuF3k3pQVbNQwcIGVbQZLloVoRanLcdRNN5ke33L/s1221/vh+9450%C2%A159.jpg
  23. Like
    + bashful reacted to 56harrisond in Wrap Those Thighs Around Me and Squeeze, Please   
    https://content.invisioncic.com/k323430/monthly_2024_04/small.20240409_193526.jpg.bc12b33ffe243ff453baea8cd4f059c6.jpg
  24. Like
  25. Like
×
×
  • Create New...