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I'm re-watching the 1973 version of "Jesus Christ Superstar" this evening (I'm not religious, I just love the show). It's one of my favorite musicals. I love the music. I own three versions of the soundtrack: the stage performance from London featuring Ian Gillian (Deep Purple's lead singer) as Jesus, the 1973 film version, and the 2018 version featuring John Legend and Sarah Barielles. I think I've seen eight to ten versions of live stage performances. I also love the soundtrack to "Chess". But I've never seen a performance. "Cats" has some awesome songs and it's held together by some themes, but not really a storyline (that I can tell). Likewise for "Phantom of the Opera" or "Moulan Rouge". Love 'em or hate 'em, tell me about your relationship with musicals.

Hands have ten fingers that can each move in intelligent and controlled ways. Hands are strong enough to deadlift or do pull-ups but gentle enough to pick up a feather or an egg. Hands are more mobile than any mouth, anus, or vagina. Unless it's masturbation, the person touching with their hands doesn't have their brain distracted by a flood of other sexual sensation and can use their brain to control and plan every second of what's going on. (That's the biggest advantage of a good handjob, I think.)

Artie - The Taoist Masseur on Twitter has amazing handjob technique

My Samsung washing machine will let me select up to FIVE rinse cycles. That's a lot of rinsing.

I had a friend who was looking into that "breasturant" business model. He learned that Hooters, Twin Peaks and the other chains like that don't have "waiter or server" jobs. They advertise and hire "models who serve" which allows them to consider looks during hiring. Tallywackers was a restaurant in Dallas, Texas that was intended to be the male equivalent of Hooters. Tallywackers featured male waiters in tight hotpants and often shirtless. The restaurant closed in August 2016. I never managed to go there during the short time that they were open.

I had to search BNWO. Urban Dictionary gave me this: BNWO stands for Black New World Order. A fetishistic term related to BDSM, specifically Race play. Wherein black supremacy over all races (especially white) is fetishized. It may be incorporated into other fetish/kink plays such as cuckolding, sissy play, BBC, alpha-beta, erotic humiliation play etc. Usually centred around black masculinity and the underlying stereotypes, mischievously, the BBC/Mandingo stereotype. Kink scene : Sissification/feminization kinkster 1 (Black male) : submit to the BNWO white boi, submit to my superior BBC and let me make you my sissy bitch princess. kinkster 2 (White male) : Yes my black king, I've realised my true place in world, BNWO is the future. I want to worship that BBC. by Johnwick98 August 2, 2021 I'm not familiar with this kink. But, is that the right description?

Thank you all for the sensitive and well-thought-out replies. I'm glad that I asked and got your thoughts before doing anything.

Occasionally I’ve stumbled across or been referred to a masseur who doesn’t advertise at all or doesn’t advertise as anything but strictly therapeutic but provides a sensual or erotic massage. There should be a way for us to: Share contact information for those masseurs here, and Help the Under-the-Radar masseurs stay as underground as they want. Maybe just list a city, state, and year last seen BUT NO NAME OR CONTACT INFORMATION? Then other members who are looking for a massage in a town where the advertised massage selection is minimal or nonexistent can reach out to whoever posted about the city via direct message here and keep the info out of view for most. What do you think?

I was going to visit ABQ a few weeks ago. I texted him and he replied that he was very busy and making some big changes currently and couldn't book an appointment. He gave me another masseur's name and number and recommended him. My short text exchange with him left me a positive impression. Then, a blizzard cancelled my trip. I'll try again in early springtime. The other masseur that he recommended doesn't advertise as on RentMasseur or MasseurFinder. If you want, I'll send you a link to his contact info.

I really want to check out “Diegosamaniego” sometime. Mint boy ad Tryst ad Those piercing eyes get me. I like the articulate Tryst ad too.

Did you mean to include a photo or link to the toy?

I usually ask the to just dress “guy next door” casual. Although, if I see him wearing something in particular that I like in his ads, I’ll ask for that.

Morgan Freeman was almost on my top three. I am going to have to listen to some Shohreh Aghdashloo and Jennifer Tilly clips.

The YouTube channel "Mythical Kitchen" has a video series called "Last Meals" where celebrities discuss what they want if they can name anything for their last meal. The incredibly sexy, hot, smart and funny host: Josh Scherer, always ends with a series of questions. My favorite is "at your funeral what person, alive or dead, do you want to deliver your eulogy?" I am having a hard time coming up with one. But here's my top three: Billy Connelly David Attenborough Andre Braugher Who are yours?

You pull it off very well!

If you're turned off by femme presenting males, I apologize. I am not. And, British, male, non-binary social media star Ararity wears lingerie like no one else.

When I saw him in Dallas this fall, he did have a massage table. At the time he was advertising on both RentMen and RentMasseur. He did give an erotic massage that was a real massage with a lot of eroticism and tease throughout.

I have a 60 minute recording of a thunderstorm that I really like. It masks out background noise well and isn’t distracting.

I have both a size small and large Tantus Brand Ripple and love them both. They are a hybrid design of dildo, buttplug and anal beads and are amazing. Even when I'm super tight, I can take the first bulb of the size small easily and then slowly work the bulbs further and further in fucking back and forth and then switch to the larger ripple and work from small to large with it too. At full depth, the large ripple makes me feel very full. Moving in and out, the smooth undulating bulbs feel amazing at my hole. Tantus toys are well-made, easy-to-clean, and high quality. You can buy them cheaper on Amazon. The large is: Diameter: 0.8-1.5" and Length: 6.85" The small is: Diameter: 1" and Length: 4.95"

Anyone have any experience with RelaxUnwind RelaxUnwind's Rentmasseur Profile His current price special (pay your age . . . a 25YO would pay $25, a 50YO would pay $50) is probably a great price if you were too young to serve in WWII. At that price, I'm guessing this is just a hobby business to him and something he does for fun. His ad explicitly says "FYI, I’m not a 🔝. " so I'm pretty sure that lots of extras options are available. The "Map Me" feature shows his place as pretty close to Lake Travis. So, it's in a nice area but may be a bit of a drive to get to. (But, a lot of things within Austin are quite a drive to get to.)

Mythical Kitchen (Where host/chef Josh Scherer makes it so the food isn't the only thing that's hot) isn't entirely a cooking show but it's focused on food. Scherer is not only incredibly sexy looking, he's charming, funny, and smart too. He does cook and demonstrate cooking methods in the channel but he also has some incredibly good interviews in his "Last Meals" playlist where he sits down with celebrities and enjoys the foods that they picked if this was to be their last meal alive. (The Gabriel "Fluffy" Iglesias last meal is super fun.) He has several playlists of different categories of shows and I've loved every one of them that I've watched so far.

When they brush their hands over my inner thigh. If they reach under my pelvis and caress either my balls or cock , just as a teaser or preview, while I'm lying face down. Body contact. I've had a couple of massages from masters of body contact who would always position themselves to be working across and on the opposite side of my body from wherever they were positioned so they were in contact with me almost the entire time. If they spend some time massaging my glutes and apply the oil or lotion between my cheeks. Some of the best even just spend some time with fingers just teasing around the edge of my hole without making entry or just making very gentle entry. Gently drawing the tips of their fingernails across the underside of my scrotum and up across my taint. If I'm lying with my head face-down in a massage table's face cradle, standing naked above my head as they work my neck and shoulders so I watch their legs and cock while they work. If they straddle one of my thighs as they work on my back. If they slide their cock between my asscheeks with body contact.

I remember when MasseurFinder actually allowed ads to be categorized as sensual or erotic and the masseurs could post R-rated photos and list explicit services in the text of their ads. The site's homepage even had a definitions link that said something like: "Sensual = you're getting off and Erotic = you're getting fucked." Was it FOSTA-SESTA that killed that? It's been several years since that changed.

I used to really be turned on by no-hands oral. But, I've swung around to a variety is the spice of life approach. I like to mix up the blowjob throughout the time and switch how I'm doing it every several seconds. My hands usually stay pretty busy and move around his body throughout the experience. I try to make the sensation spread out beyond just his cock. For most guys (but especially fast-cummers), the more I mix up the sensation the better they last and have a bigger build-up and bigger climax in the end. When I feel like it's gone on long enough and I'm ready to end, I find one pattern that he's responsive to and just repeat that until he blows. When I receive a blowjob, I like it slow and sensual. So I get to enjoy the journey and not just get to a destination.

For both terms, I want some erotic element throughout the session. A therapeutic massage that includes some sensual body contact and caressing or stimulating erogenous zones throughout teasing for a long buildup before the ending is great. If I get a strictly therapeutic massage that then flips a switch at the very end for a happy ending, I'm probably not going to book with that provider again. I've booked with providers who advertised as erotic and been disappointed by the lack of eroticism for the bulk of the appointment and I've booked with sensual masseurs where they practically threw themselves at me for sex and I never got anything resembling a massage. I agree, the terms are too blurred and they might as well be merged.