Jim Corrigan

Let me clarify. If both partners want to eat each other alive, that is just called kissing. And yes, it's pretty hot, and pretty rare.
 
Tonsil raping is when one partner, without warm up, without care and without reciprocation seems intent in pushing his tongue as deep into his protesting partner's mouth as he can. One attacks, the other tries to squirm away.
 
Tonsil raping is a one way street. And sadly, it is terribly common. A couple clients in this forum have written that the way to ensure an escort "kisses" is to thrust their tongues as deep into their mouths as they can as soon as the escort walks through the door. "If he doesn't like that, send him his way", was their advise.
 
So gross in so many ways.
 

 
Don't feel weird. You are entitled to like whatever you like. That's awesome. Just make sure to avoid the temptation to think that because you are paying someone to spend time with you, your way of intimacy has to be obeyed. Intimacy is a two way street, otherwise it's just rape. Propose, listen, respect, negotiate, enjoy.
 
There are clients and escorts, however, who believe the escort is just a machine that has to fake enjoyment doing things he abhors. As long as the escort fakes well, the client is happy. That is not intimacy, though. All you have to do is chose which camp you want to live in.
 

 
In that, when it comes to me, at least, you are wrong. But it doesn't have anything to do with the client being hot, or beautiful. If the client is clean, respectful, present, considerate and is treating me like a human being, if he is listening to my kissing and is abandoning into his own, it is really hard NOT to fall in love a little... In the height of the passion there is this delicious abandon that has to take place and my heart breaks a little and it makes it bigger and stronger. If I don't fall in love a little during the session, I feel the session didn't take off.
 
In order to never compromise my clients' feelings, it is my duty, as a responsible escort to to get that little infatuation filed in a secret place in my heart and move on, grateful, happy, fulfilled.
 
Mutual kissing is where it's at!

I have quite a few clients with whom we say "I love you". Our work should be drawing from the energy of love, compassion and acceptance, so making someone feel loved, for me, is the hope. Therefore it's only natural that one would want to reciprocate and acknowledge that love. I understand the desire to maintain an emotional distance and to keep the relationship of client/provider defined, but we need to be less afraid of love. Its unfortunate that we can be so quick to anger and rage toward someone we barely know, or really don't know at all, yet so cautious at expressing love for someone we do.

The moment I started to even begin to imply I was developing an emotional attachment with an escort he kindly answered "I don't have a boyfriend and I love what I do". He probably had said this many times before because it was the perfect and kind answer. I still love this escort as a friend but am not in love with him because of what he said. I think he handled it beautifully.

it's ok to love an escort. it's ok to love a client.
 
it's not ok for either to take advantage of that

I feel love is something different for everyone. While traveling, I've met many people out and about; restaurants, movies, clubs, bars, theaters, hotel lobbys, gyms etc,etc (Male and Female) After a few meetings I must admit I start telling them I love them. I cherish all forms of life, good and bad. Everyone can change, after along rigorous process.
 
What I'm really saying is, love means alot of things, a client will and should understand that love and being in a serious and committed relationship are two different things. I've had a few really good, close and great clients come play into this grey area! No one has ever crossed a line beyond that! I've formed some long term friendships and clients since I've been traveling since I was 19.
 
This is one of those things you'll have to take at your own leisure, really thing about it. Some people consider "LOVE" a taboo and labled type of thing, but I think two mature adults can handle it! the burning desire of a FUCKING HOTT session is undeniable

Yet another example of cross-species mind melds:
 
http://www.tomstockton.us/pictures/059/we_is_friends.jpg

I would eat that ass out like a fat girl eats chocolate cake! Especially after giving him a good cream filling of ummmm.....
 
Hugs,
Greg

Youre never too old to fall in love. You need to be at peace with yourself. One that happens your heart will open and you'll be able to love fully. At least thats what I think.
 
Hugs,
Greg

... eat, apparently.

I forgive, never forget and keep my guard up.
 
Hugs,
Greg

Honestly, I like my body parts to be real. Whenever I hear someone say "how amazing someone looks" and they've had years of plastic surgery, I laugh out loud. I don't think Cher looks amazing. I think she looks like a freak. I'd much rather see what she would have looked like if she hadn't been so worked over.

or pulling out ain't enough...