Eric Hassan

I flew into and out of PS last year and rented a car. I probably will do the same this year and am happy to cart folks around as I'm able. You will have to listen to my music, though. Fortunately, I know my way around and have a lead foot, so you'll get where you need to go.

I just booked my room at INNdulge from Thursday, 4/12 to Tuesday, 4/17. There's a chance I may arrive 1 day earlier and/or stay a day later. I'm looking forward to seeing everyone!

I live in Chelsea as well and know it to be a friendly neighborhood. The issue isn't your looks, it's your attitude. I don't know you, and I'm only judging from what I've read, but your writing feels needy - it feels like you're having a hard time accepting yourself for whatever reason, and perhaps are still hanging on to parts of an identity that doesn't fit anymore. Seeking happiness outside of yourself isn't going to help you feel happiness inside yourself. You might be beautiful, but you're not "straight looking" - that's not a thing and is akin to "straight acting," which is just "acting" - and people can smell bullshit without knowing that's what they're smelling. You don't need to tell anyone what you look like unless they're blind. If you're truly seeking out meaningful connection, you need to show people who you are, not keep telling them how straight you look. I can't tell you what you need or what you should do, but I think it's helpful to think about a few things. First, nobody out there is going to fix you or make you whole. Seeking outside yourself for validation might feel good when you get it, but what happens when you don't get it? Second, some people will like how you look and some won't and that's out of your control. Stop using your appearance as an excuse. Third, people will stick around in your life because of who you are and how they feel when they're with you, not because of how you look. I recognize the harshness of my tone but I don't see value in coddling you. I do, however, want you to know that I know you deserve to have meaningful connections and a happy life. You deserve that as much as anyone else. I think you're relatively new to your gay identity and you're struggling with putting it all together. I get that. I have the benefit of being out for nearly 25 years and I know it's taken me a long time to get my shit together. If I haven't completely pissed you off, I encourage you to drop me a private message. I'd be more than happy to have coffee and be a space for you to feel heard and supported.

I will check in with him.

I'll give a +1 to Alex Hawk. To be fair, he's a good friend of mine. so I'm biased - but I can tell you he is friendly, smart, versatile and has a tight muscle body.

@KennF - I'm sorry if I made you feel like you needed to apologize more. That was not my intent. It was simply to help you (and others) understand what an escort might feel like. You didn't owe any of us an apology - you asked a question, got some answers. You did get skewered a bit, and I think you understand why, but this thread is simply an exchange of information - not your trial. Your question is interesting. I didn't choose Eric Hassan until I had already established myself as The Dude Next Door. My website is thedudenextdoor.com and my handle on RM is thedudenextdoor - I'm committed to that title as part of my identity. My assessment is based on having the experience of choosing a moniker that isn't a name - thedudenextdoor - and then choosing a name by which to be called.

From this escort's point of view, it's not that you find out my "real" name - that's pretty easy to do, and I don't make many attempts to conceal my identity - I choose to use the name "Eric Hassan" because I like it. Everyone who has revealed they know my name has also asked me what to call me. I'm sure many clients know my real name and have kept that fact to themselves. Keeping my real name to yourself, or sharing that you know it and asking me what I want to be called, shows me that you have some respect for my personal life. It's not that you know. It's that you show a lack of discretion and respect by calling the escort by that name without asking. If you'll do that, what else will you do? If you call me by my real name without asking and completely out of the blue, it shows me you have a big mouth and won't keep it shut.

What you *could* have done is ask him what name he'd like to be called by you.

Seriously? What value does this thread have in moving this community forward?

Because I needed another reason to adore you .... I've used the term "homoflexible" as one way to describe my sexual interests. The women I've crushed on aren't famous - just people I've encountered in my daily life. Earlier this summer I was at a party with friends and fell hard for a sorta-butch but apparently heterosexual (and absolutely beautiful) woman. We flirted a lot - she was whip-smart and gave me a verbal run for my money and then sat across from me at dinner. Fortunately the semi I had wasn't visible under the table.

He's on the production side of things more now. His most recent scenes for Brazzers, Naughty America, RK are from last year or the year before. I'm just as bummed about it as you. He's one of my favorites, and probably has some of the best forearms I've ever seen.

I understand "heirloom." In the US, we think there are 3 kinds of tomatoes - big red ones, medium red ones, small red ones. There's traditionally been a limited selection of produce - one kind of corn, a few kinds of apples, a small variety of potato. The idea that someone out there is researching, learning, acquiring, and growing these heirloom fruits/vegetables (not a botanical thing, but that's another post) makes me want to appreciate, learn, and enjoy. I fucking hate "How are you? "How's is going?" and the like when there is no real interest in the answer. You aren't greeting me with those questions. You're asking me a question. Why would you ask a question if you didn't want the answer? Just say Hi. I don't need you to care about my life if you're the cashier at a store, I just need you to make proper change.

When we think something is true, we look for evidence, and we always find what we're looking for.

I can't even.

If I had to choose one band - and only one band - it's Shudder to Think. Their album, Pony Express Record, has been my favorite since 1995. Guided by Voices and Yeasayer get honorable mention. I'm stopping here - I could go on for hours when it comes to music!

So HOT!! That's literally all I need to see to get off.

actually due to the fact

oh my fuck YES! and the watch on the left arm - gotta be on the left arm - so hot! i would pay to watch this guy roll up his sleeves. i would pay extra to make a movie while he does it! thank you!! i just started a website called forearm friday - he's definitely going to be part of this friday's posts!

Happy Birthday, guys!!

I'm disturbed by all the shaved forearms.

allow me to suggest bateworld as a good place to get some more info on NY JACKS and to network with other guys interested in JO

Congrats on matching!! xoxoxox

Listen to Picaresque - an absolutely BRILLIANT album!! One of my top 100 favorite albums.

I am constantly listening to music and have tons of favorites. One of my favorite bands, Yeasayer, released their fourth album - Amen & Goodbye - last year and it's brilliant. "Half Asleep" stands out and was my favorite song of 2016.

Those are some beautiful forearms!