LADoug1

...make a new year's resolution to spend more time in the gym.

From the archives...
 
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This is the money shot!!
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To get the last week of the year underway:
 
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Also, there's nothing like the combination of a scruff beard and a nipple!

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I thought Hastert was a wrestling or boxing coach. Why are the boys wearing kimonos?
 
 
I had an occurrence several years ago where a youngster contacted me through Grindr. His stated age was 18. But then in conversation he told me he was 16. He was the one who initiated the texting in the first place. I'm not usually attracted to youngsters like that. When he told me he was 16, I said I can't talk to you, and I immediately blocked him.

I think your conflating "sexuality/orientation" and "sexual acts" here @MrMiniver - two entirely different subjects. For the first - sexuality/orientation - as has already been pointed out, one can be open and casual about it in the work place - both gay and straight. I don't think TR or anyone else is waving rainbow flags and throwing glitter about the office, but the examples given show how one can casually be open about one's sexuality. Would you disagree with how they were answered? Also, if you cannot imagine people talking about the other subject - sex - in the workplace, come down to financial district in NYC. The graphic descriptions of sexual encounters I have overheard or been told directly (ugh!) would make Larry Flynt blush. Inappropriate - sure, but it happens -- in the office, at the bar with colleagues -- I don't necessarily want to hear it but I also don't want to be pegged as the prude. I avoid when I can and when I can't - I grin and bear it and somebody usually steers the conversation away from the subject at hand. It is what it is and I don't know an office where it doesn't happen.

I have no problem with the first exchange. I think the second exchange would be inappropriate in an office setting or any professional setting.

Grindr
Face Photo - No / Little Messages
Body Photo - Phone blows up but once I sent face photo it becomes a wasteland
 
I message older guys but I rarely get a response. I live in a conservative/waspy area. Many guys have in there profile "no rice", "no yellow", "no azns or blks", "whites only" "no ethnics". It is only once you hit Boca Raton and south it is much more diverse and more open minded.
 
I get some mean messages some are funny such as:
 
"egg roll", "wanton soup", "china man" 0___o
 
In Person
I live in a conservative/waspy area, I see guys looking / glancing at me I think something is wrong or if i'm doing something weird but I never get approached or talked to.
 
Off Topic
This is a quote from another escort Clark and his tumblr hyperlinked <--
"The designation of Asian men being considered less attractive by our beauty standards is because of racism, misogyny, and male supremacy in an arbitrary system which regards european men as the highest standard of man"
 
Which i can agree to some extent only because I have heard a lot of evidence (feedback from my own "hook ups") such as:
 
"you are the first asian i've been with", "i'm usually not into asians", "you are cute for an asian" and my favorite of all lines "are you really asian you don't sound asian?"
 
Not everyone is like that, many are judgment free and free loving however I have seen a good number who share these thoughts / philosophy. This is my take coming from my end/side. What is your take?
 
This could be a reason why I don't get approached or messaged online/in person.
 
Sorry to steal the thread, I was in a society discussing mood lol.
 
Back On Topic
I'm too shy/intimidated to approach others in a club/bar setting. I don't like going out for this reason so my nights consists of staying home and reading or entertaining guests .
 
When I go do normal errands mom-aged women will compliment me and ask if I have a girlfriend. I don't know how I feel when moms ask me if I have a girlfriend, I've had one mom introduce me to their daughter right afterwards. It was kinda awkward. However when Dilfs chat me up (which is rare) I get a rallied up and have mischievous thoughts. Thoughts such as "Son's friend seduces the dad", "son catches dad with his best friend" and "wife catches husband with son's schoolmate" LOL.

"Doesn't your wife get sick of you traveling all the time for meetings?"
"Husband actually, but no he doesn't mind"
 
"That's a great watch"
"It was a gift from my wife/husband for our anniversary last year"
 
I could go on but you get the idea...

Had a friend who was unable to remove a metal cockring and ended up at the ER with FIREMEN (!) having to cut it off with a saw. Sounds hot but he was in great pain and was, needless to say, overwhelmed with embarrassment.

Veda killed him in the movie.
 
~ Boomer ~

When hiring I send an accurate picture of myself. Let the escort decide.

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I'd spend my whole time thinking of Mildred Pierce if I met up with Zachary Scott and that would kill any potential boner

Love the pic of the guy pushing the other guy into the water! Sweet and sexy.

To get you guys through hump day...
 
Here's a situation where it would certainly help to have a third hand...
 
 
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Or even better, the following scenario... even though I'm not quite sure what might be going on here... ;-)
 
 
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Still in a pinch, the following always works... at least it would put a smile on my face!
 
 
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Just love the tongue action in this one... The suck and swirl... or is it swirl and suck!?! Again big smile on my face!
 
 
 
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Now to quote BVB, today's "Money Shot"... not sure if it's better than yesterday's... but I'm trying!
 
 
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If you guys are good I might consider posting what happens next... possibly... We shall see... but only if you're good...

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Number 2 and number 24 - I love nipple play - giving and receiving.

Me sucking a guy's low-hangers while someone else sucks his cock is fantasy #2 in my book. Add snomeone rimming his ass too and you move up to fantasy #1! Anyone want to form a tag team?

Loving someone and BEING in love with someone are two different things. (No, I'm not about to go all RuPaul in here.... bare with me.)
 
I've always been of the opinion that actions speak louder than words. Words can be very imprecise.
 
If the person is obviously thinking there is more to the relationship than client/escort, it's a problem. If it was a moment in the heat, or more of a meaning of "I love what we're doing" or "I love my time with you", great!

...... It's worth the 15 mins.
 

Speaking of enema water:
 
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It's often impossible to totally control our feelings. Even Mr. Spock couldn't do it. And the rest of us are only human. With that in mind, I could certainly see a client falling into what he thinks is love to a nice handsome guy. After all the escort will normally be the type of guy the client is attracted to-otherwise why hire him? And this guy to whom the client is attracted to is making the client feel good physically-and possibly mentally. Who wouldn't fall in love with such a guy? But the escort is providing a paid service. I'm not saying the escort can't like the client or feel warmly towards him, but for way over the vast majority of clients it ain't going to happen. The escort is not going to fall in love with the client. If a client actually expressed his love and the belief that the escort would love him back, things are way out of control. Even if the client doesn't tell the escort, but the escort can tell by what the client does, things are still out of control. While there isn't an AMA or a Bar Association for escorts, in most cases it's immoral for an escort to continue seeing a client who is in love with him. It would be like a psychiatrist or lawyer taking advantage of a patient/client.
 
Gman

I ABSOLUTELY agree with this distinction. I've been aware of it for years and remembering it has influenced my life in many positive ways. Knowing the difference is vital.