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Correct. I usually make an open ended comment on their thread. See if they flirt back. Then Private Message them. Ask if they do "meet ups" and then yes..take it private from there.

Grindr will permanently delete your account and all future attempts to make a new account if you discuss paying someone for sex on their platform. This has been discussed before. Don't do it.

The problem with all statistics is they get used out of context to see what you want to see. The issue with crime in the United States has always been about poverty, not skin color. The secondary and associated fact, is that when African American families did their best to integrate into mainstream American society there was a great deal of push back, and denial of opportunity in the 1950s. This lead to an economic black underclass and later a "deal with the devil" in the 1970s to make a buck selling drugs, as poverty among the black community worsened. Historically, black people were the ones arrested during the "drug wars", NOT the White Italian Mafia who were supplying the drugs. So always the scapegoat of the problems, whether or not they ORIGINATED with the community. So there is a long history of black men and women being viewed as secondary citizens, not matter how much lip-service is paid to "equality" these days. As I stated previously in this thread, BEHAVIOR is everything. One of the best provider's I've hired recently was a very nice young black man. I say he was one of the best because he was professional, easy to talk to which are virtues that I look for beyond a set of handsome photos, with any provider. His skills were superior to many and I was well satisfied with the encounter, and happy to have met someone so compatible to my sexual tastes. How disgusting it would be to be attracted to someone and simultaneously thinking to yourself that they are worth less, because of their ethnic background. In this case, this young man was not only worth his fee, but I tipped generously because of his professional behavior throughout the experience.

I grew up in Central PA near the Poconos. I would be wary of visiting any campsite in the state for the purpose of hooking up. There's have been many incidents of attacks leading to serious injury ( even a few deaths ) over the years at known hook up locations in State Parks and campgrounds. This is a very red-neck part of the state where homosexual activity is strongly condemned. I don't know anything about the particular locations you mentioned but you might want to Google for some background history in the news before you get yourself in trouble.

I am also not into twinks....but I do know many porn performers have Twitter accounts where you can contact them directly. Obviously you're not going to be the first person there to ask about in-person meet ups. They will either say no or yes. But be prepared for sticker shock if they answer yes.

This begs the question how many DO find bodybuilders attractive ? I know I don't. ..and I am strictly attracted to young ATHLETIC men but I find bodybuilding crosses a line for me where I don't find this exaggerated muscle look at all attractive. Maybe there are fewer enthusiasts than you think. I don't know.

The contractions are pretty apparent here. So I'm guessing it's deliberate as a method of discretion to distance himself from the legality issues of escorting .

Barry was the only drag performer I ever found to be funny. I'm sure he will be missed in the entertainment industry and amongst his fans. I hope he left peacefully without any suffering. R.I.P.

I applaud your astute observation of this reality. One of my friends who is of Caribbean/African descent has always taught her teenage son that his behavior represents his entire race so DON'T screw up. The chain of negative perceptions of race will only be broken by those who don't allow prejudice to saddle them with a predetermined destiny. Behavior is everything.

@Jamie21agreed with you in CONTEXT of a weekend rate. I do believe the discussion you started here was about the broader business market of escorting. Again...CONTEXT...if someone inquires about a provider's hourly rate and they tell you it's $400 and you say how about $300, they're going to tell you to fuck off 90% of the time. Sure, you'll get the occasional meth-head who's dying for a fix.. but most professionals aren't biting. If you ask a provider about a weekend, well that's a much more nuanced business model and yes "NEGOTIATIONS" in this case would not/ should not be seen as haggling.

These prison guards could make some serious bank running an S&M captured-boy brothel. 😉

I'm a businessman. You can certainly haggle my fees, and I will tell you to go fuck yourself. Haggling is always tacky.

Maybe there should be someone doing this with ALL people posting extremist views. I think a large number of these mass shootings were done by people who's insanity was being broadcast over social media well before the tragic events

I was thinking more along the line of volunteering and maybe paying off a guard.....😉 Those prison sex scenes are always so hot. ( yeah...probably not as much fun in the real world) . ☹️

He's got a pretty boy face, but the anti-semitic-gun-fanatic-Qanon part seems a little out of character for a gay guy.

You say that, but this whole discussion started with someone who had a very bad reaction to someone doing just that. So, I'm gonna guess their take on the "ask" was that the client was haggling. Which is always tacky.

Really ? Sounds like the start of a great porn scene to me. 😜

Which typically is available at lunch, not dinner, and offered by the restaurant, not haggled at the door.

Let's circle back when he's ripe.

Pop & Go customers are welcome to shorten their stay....but to me, it's rather like going to the movies. You're welcome to leave half way through the film, but you're not getting a 50% discount. Same way you don't pay HALF if you go to a restaurant and only eat half your meal.

I hope he is....he's cute.😉

If that's all he's got going for him then he should repackage his business model and advertise as an escort. A masseur should have some basic understanding of massage even if they are also selling handy-J's.

Exactly He is completely MY type and I had a great time.

You just know that this coach hosts hot-tub parties after the game.