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I'm sure this thread has been discussed before, but this might be a slightly different take on it. Do you find you are getting more tolerant of the look of a shaved groin and balls? One of the things I longed for as a pubescent boy was the hairy crotch of a grown man, both for myself and in my anticipated sex partners. The guys in the locker room with a treasure trail commanded my attention, because they also had a fully grown cock. Hair= bigger dick= sexual maturity = woof!
 
Seeing the shaved hunks on sites like Sean Cody was somehow disturbing at first. Were they really old enough to suck and fuck? Was I turning into a pederast?
 
Now I'm seeing the beauty of a bare cock more, since so many are on display. What's your take? Is this look becoming more acceptable to you? Would you (do you) shave yourself? Is this a new standard of male beauty and hygiene, or just a passing fad like growing/shaving a beard?

When I'm going to have sex I trim my balls and pubes. I feel it makes the "sucking" of my dick a more pleasurable experience and I prefer it as well. But I like public hair and an "ass" to be natural. I've adjusted over the years.

I'm sure this thread has been discussed before, but this might be a slightly different take on it. Do you find you are getting more tolerant of the look of a shaved groin and balls? One of the things I longed for as a pubescent boy was the hairy crotch of a grown man, both for myself and in my anticipated sex partners. The guys in the locker room with a treasure trail commanded my attention, because they also had a fully grown cock. Hair= bigger dick= sexual maturity = woof!
 
Seeing the shaved hunks on sites like Sean Cody was somehow disturbing at first. Were they really old enough to suck and fuck? Was I turning into a pederast?
 
Now I'm seeing the beauty of a bare cock more, since so many are on display. What's your take? Is this look becoming more acceptable to you? Would you (do you) shave yourself? Is this a new standard of male beauty and hygiene, or just a passing fad like growing/shaving a beard?

I'm sure this thread has been discussed before, but this might be a slightly different take on it. Do you find you are getting more tolerant of the look of a shaved groin and balls? One of the things I longed for as a pubescent boy was the hairy crotch of a grown man, both for myself and in my anticipated sex partners. The guys in the locker room with a treasure trail commanded my attention, because they also had a fully grown cock. Hair= bigger dick= sexual maturity = woof!
 
Seeing the shaved hunks on sites like Sean Cody was somehow disturbing at first. Were they really old enough to suck and fuck? Was I turning into a pederast?
 
Now I'm seeing the beauty of a bare cock more, since so many are on display. What's your take? Is this look becoming more acceptable to you? Would you (do you) shave yourself? Is this a new standard of male beauty and hygiene, or just a passing fad like growing/shaving a beard?

I'm sure this thread has been discussed before, but this might be a slightly different take on it. Do you find you are getting more tolerant of the look of a shaved groin and balls? One of the things I longed for as a pubescent boy was the hairy crotch of a grown man, both for myself and in my anticipated sex partners. The guys in the locker room with a treasure trail commanded my attention, because they also had a fully grown cock. Hair= bigger dick= sexual maturity = woof!
 
Seeing the shaved hunks on sites like Sean Cody was somehow disturbing at first. Were they really old enough to suck and fuck? Was I turning into a pederast?
 
Now I'm seeing the beauty of a bare cock more, since so many are on display. What's your take? Is this look becoming more acceptable to you? Would you (do you) shave yourself? Is this a new standard of male beauty and hygiene, or just a passing fad like growing/shaving a beard?

I'm sure this thread has been discussed before, but this might be a slightly different take on it. Do you find you are getting more tolerant of the look of a shaved groin and balls? One of the things I longed for as a pubescent boy was the hairy crotch of a grown man, both for myself and in my anticipated sex partners. The guys in the locker room with a treasure trail commanded my attention, because they also had a fully grown cock. Hair= bigger dick= sexual maturity = woof!
 
Seeing the shaved hunks on sites like Sean Cody was somehow disturbing at first. Were they really old enough to suck and fuck? Was I turning into a pederast?
 
Now I'm seeing the beauty of a bare cock more, since so many are on display. What's your take? Is this look becoming more acceptable to you? Would you (do you) shave yourself? Is this a new standard of male beauty and hygiene, or just a passing fad like growing/shaving a beard?

I have a listing of authors of gay fiction that range from stories with erotic themes to stories with an occasional romantic moments. Two of my favorite authors are Greg Herren and Geoffrey Knight.

It's been a while, but for the latter, nifty.org.

I've greatly enjoyed several of Marie Sexton's books.

A long long time ago, I discovered Gordon Merrick and his highly erotic, graphic, sex-charged, almost pornographic, novels. I was a deeply closeted 20 something, and I couldn't believe it. Buying those books was a forbidden pleasure, something like a teenager buying condoms at the local drugstore. I would wait for the store to be clear, rush the purchase, hoping that the clerk would not notice my embarrassment. Oh, the amount of cum I spilled reading those graphic male sex descriptions!

We've talked frequently about favorite porn sites. What about pornographic lit? I love the books of Josh Lawson and a few others, surprisingly, many that are female. Do you read porn? Do you prefer a well developed storyline or are you more in to gay erotica? I like both depending on whether I'm looking for entertainment or jack off material. One lack I find in many gay novels is a detailed descriptions of the cocks of the characters, such as smooth, veiny, cut, intact, lots of skin, dark or light, mushroom head, a mouthful or more, etc. The female authors in particular describe the hero's face in great detail, but simply say, "thick", when getting down to cases. LOL!

His performance in "Rebel Without a Cause" ( what a great title) electrified me. And I fell in love. Can't think of him without wondering what greatness we lost with his untimely death. A beautiful male!

I'm reading this thread with such interest and an awareness of how hard I worked to suppress my feelings as a teenager and young adult. I can look back and recognize times when I avoided acknowledging attraction, or even interest, in other guys, but in the moment my denial was so strong I wouldn't have ever admitted any such feelings. I was so determined NOT to be attracted to other guys that I can't think of examples back then when I let my mind go there. I had teammates and friends I wasn't comfortable showering with, and I now can see that it was because of how they made me feel, it was confusing at best so I avoided it. Celebrities who might have turned me on I just didn't look at. At a high school party someone had porn on VHS, straight porn but I remember seeing an erect dick for the first time and leaving because it "grossed me out," but of course it didn't really.
 
So no teenage crushes here, just a lot of effort to pretend I wasn't interested, mostly to myself. For me the realization started later, as a young father with my kids at the playground, when I let my guard down and began to bond with other young dads. One became a buddy and I'd be deeply disappointed when he didn't show up. But the truth was unavoidable when my kids started T-ball. There was a dad I kept looking at, and one day he took his shirt off and I got hard. I made friends with him and used to sit with him, often hiding a boner. One day, home alone, I jerked off thinking about him, and after that had to admit to myself that I was at least bi-curious. The journey took a long time after that but that was when I first acknowledged to myself what I'd been denying all along.

Michael Landon playing "Pa" on Little House on the Prairie.

Now, now - no reason to be embarrassed. That's what we are here for!

Yes, but that's an extra $50.

No, yes, 7:46, only if you have chocolate croissants and Intelligentsia Colonia Llust'a Bolivia for breakfast.

Hmmm. Not sure exactly how you will sleep with the escort if you are in a separate room. Let us know how that works out.

Check with the hotel. If they have a no-smoking policy you probably can't burn the purifying sage. However, I find that pure sea salt satisfies the gods just as well. Oh, and have the flower maiden keep the chanting down. The people in the next room might want to sleep in.

8:26. Fondle faster, you have croissants to eat before he leaves.

Well, ask him.

Assuming you don't wake him from a sound sleep at 2:30 AM and shout "MAY I FONDLE YOU?," I don't see this as being awkward.

I think you should contact him by yourself and leave the insecurities at home. That'll teach the little fuckers for bothering you like that.
 
But seriously...
 
You really should ask the escort, as different escorts conduct overnights in different ways. One escort with whom I was a regular client told me that he would slip out discreetly at 6 AM on an overnight. (We didn't do the overnight) Another told me that he'd like to plan the overnight to occur when he had no prior plans or commitments the next day so we could hang out in bed 'til noon like he would with a boyfriend. (We did the overnight)
 
Regarding the other questions, may I suggest you frame the discussion in advance something like this:
 
"Hey, [escort name] I've never hired a guy for an overnight and, in fact, I have never slept with a man. I've always fantasized about spooning with another man, waking up in the middle of the night and fondling him, waking up in the morning and playing, and lingering over breakfast. Understanding that we all sleep in different ways, what are your thoughts?"
 
Regarding cleaning yourself out in the morning, it would seem like a mood-killer.
 
Whatever you decide to do, have fun! And tell the flower maiden I said "hi."

Back in the early 1950s, there were little fanzines (3"x5") sold on newsstands, and I bought one of Elvis for about 25 cents. He was still a new young singer, and there was one black and white photo of him without a shirt, that I used as jack-off material. I didn't have to hide it from my parents, the way I did my copies of Physique Pictorial.

Ye gods, who wasn't????
Mostly
Paul Newman, Tyrone Powers, Montgomery Clift, Alain Delon. Cary Grant..........

So many beautiful men. I don't understand straight guys. How can you NOT want to have sex with these guys. I mean I totally get the attraction of a beautiful woman, and would love to spend intimate time with her. Hey, straight dudes! Just look at them! They are Nature's paragons. Are you sure you don't want to try? Stop worrying about labels and just enjoy.

I'm celebrating three years being with the same escort. He was my first escort as well as being my first male/male experience of any kind. Add to that, I started hiring late in life.
It's funny when you mention being "clean." I was so anxious I didn't have to worry about that. I spent a lot of time sitting on the porcelain throne day's before.
I started out hiring for extended weekends. I have never regretted it. You mentioned you like and respect the gentleman. Have you spent time with him? Someone gave me advice which I took.
1) Take a chance and put yourself in his hands and follow his lead.
2) I wouldn't think it would be 12 hrs of unending raucous sex?. I would think you would have time for the other things you would like.
3) Do think about talking with him and going over your concerns. I did and it helped.
4) As far as sleeping arrangements. I book a room with two beds. I tend to snore at intervals. So he ends up being more tolerant than me. He also likes to sleep much later than me. So, I usually go and get coffee and people watch.
5) In any encounter, it breaks down to being tolerant and somewhat intuitive for the other person.
6) And, don't forget to keep you sense of humor!!!
You certainly can PM if you'd like. Can share a few things and some laughs! WG2

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What a face!What a box! What a navel!!!!!!!! My tongue is so rigid right now.

This guy is a dead ringer for the assistant to the electrician who I had do some work on my condo. The electrician left and unfortunately this guy spoke no English. I suppose grabbing a crotch would translate into any language. I will have to ask our President.

Ye gods, who wasn't????
Mostly
Paul Newman, Tyrone Powers, Montgomery Clift, Alain Delon. Cary Grant..........

I'm having my first overnight escort soon and I am nervous. Ive never slept with a man before. I need some advice, but even after all that I've shared with you, I feel shy and embarrassed to ask for it. However, here goes.....
 
Can I spoon with him as we go to sleep after?
Can I fondle him in the night? In the morning? How early? After breakfast?
I'll have a separate room. Should I just go there and come back in the AM?
I'm a bottom. Do I carry out a full cleaning ritual in the AM?
Assuming we meet at 6pm, when does our time end in the AM?
 
 
 
I know I should be asking my escort these things, but..... I just don't want this to be awkward, or not TOO awkward. Do I just contact him with my insecurities?
 
Maybe I just did.!!!! Here! I really respect and admire this guy and just don't want to put my foot in it.. so to speak.

I think you can tell a lot by how he prices the overnight. If the rate is pretty favorable (no more than four times his hourly rate) than he probably enjoys overnights more than someone who prices at five or more times his hourly rate. To me that's a signal they find overnights a bit stressful.