david78nyc

I’m loving how literate this message board is! But, I shan’t concede the point. I’ve seen the word used to mean effeminate and I’d respectfully direct you to Webster’s: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/effete and Cambridge: https://dictionary.cambridge.org/us/dictionary/english/effete

Webster’s (third definition): effeminate a good-humored, effete boy brought up by maidenaunts — Herman Wouk

Webster’s (third definition): effeminate a good-humored, effete boy brought up by maidenaunts — Herman Wouk

I did. Effeminate is a hair too a strong word. Again I actually think that’s a fine thing; it just surprised me in this instance.

I’ve seen these ads on previous trips to DC but thanks to Masseurfinder’s new use of numbers instead of names () I cant seem to find reviews of either: “V”: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/33843/ “D”: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/31837/ Daniel: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/33053/ (Rate’s a bit steep... but depending on the extras could be worth it.) Thanks in advance for any tips, DCers!

I’ll be the lone voice of dissent and say that while his body is perfection — all of it — I thought the massage itself was a C-/D+. Perhaps if I were into body worship or giving other attention to the masseur I would have enjoyed the experience more, but my sense is he was used to being admired, which came at the expense of him really putting the effort in. He was also much more effete than I was expecting given his photos. (There’s nothing wrong with that — I actually kind of like it — but it surprised me.) Of course, it could have been an off day; and we all have our preferences...

Would it be bad to paste this thread as a “response” to anyone who didn’t fill out the subject line in an intuitive way?

Bumping again!

I did. He’s actually quite a talented masseur (B++ technique) but I found him to be a cold fish. I wouldn’t repeat — or recommend if you’re looking for anything more than just a fine massage.

Name of masseur (or spa) AND CITY! Kthxbye

Now that the 160-page-long post about NY spas has been taken down, does anyone have any recommendations for other masseurs at Super Men’s? Sounds like Luis is great; has anyone worked with others?

If you value your relationship, why not say that you happened to see that he’s raised his rates but that you’re hoping as a long time client that you could keep paying what you’ve been paying. Worst that happens is he says no, which strikes me as unlikely (I assume most masseurs value long time clients over having to develop new business). I also don’t think there’s any harm in asking any masseur if he’s offering a discount when reaching out. You never know if they’re having a slow day; supply and demand applied. And if you don’t ask, they can’t say yes.

This is a serious question — I don’t want to sound like a Debbie downer — but isn’t it possible (if not probable) that some of all of these spas could be raided? And couldn’t some of threads on this blog give police fodder/cause for doing so? I tend to stay away from spas for that reason; a sole practitioner feels safer for me. Thoughts?

Bumping this. Has no one taken the plunge?

I’ve seen Andy a number of times. The massage is actually quite good - B+/A- - but I found him to have a sort of dark, depressed, introspective attitude. He spent a lot of time complaining about his exes and men in general and other clients; it was far from sexy. He also said again and again that he was a therapeutic masseur, that he was tired of guys reaching out for sex; and more would happen only if he wanted it to. So I’m surprised to see the RM ad say he’s open to sensual/erotic...

Davvid’s twin!: https://rentmasseur.com/Davodex

That’s a (gay) male model named Max Emerson. He’s got almost million instagram followers, so choosing his picture is particularly ill-advised.

Thanks! The only discussion about Brody was actually about another Brody in San Francisco. Good to know about the others. FWIW, I am fine with therapeutic so long as they're attractive and friendly and gay friendly (which is to say, comfortable with a graze here or there and not afraid of seeing a client getting excited). PS: Always open to other suggestions as well. Very interested in Chad Ryan as another possibility.

Would love feedback on these gents, whom I haven’t been able to find reviews on: Pierce https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/32153/ Daniel https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/24842/ Matt https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/bamassage.shtml Austin https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/holdingcompany.shtml Brody https://rentmasseur.com/BrodyStone I guess I have a thing for hipsters this week!

Can anyone speak to experiences with these masseurs? Feel free to PM me! Travis: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/31664/ Ryan: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/16814/ Mario: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/22795/ Mike John: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/34658/ Kobi: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/13992/ Eduardo: https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/32142/ Thanks!

Anyone still in touch w Charlie? His profile went dark.

Bumping jussssst in case...

https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/latinromeonyc.shtml And a good masseur to boot!

I’ll text to set up appointments but rarely describe what I’m looking for so there’s no “paper” trail. Wondering how explicit folks are about describing when they’re looking for a HE or more...?

Looked for reviews on these gents and didn’t turn anything up. Let me know if you’ve seen them — and feel free to PM! Kevin: https://m.massagem4m.com/masseur/17433/ Blake: https://rentmasseur.com/blakke Anthony: https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/anthony23.shtml Devid: https://www.masseurfinder.com/members/devid.shtml