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I have no idea how realistic that stat is, but it sounds like an exaggeration. No one ever asked me if I was gay, straight, or bi when I paid. I have terrible gaydar, and I would swear 60% of the men on the men-only days I visited were something other than gay, based on wild growing pubic hair. But who can know for sure since most straight guys groom these days?
 
Even if the crowd was 100% gay, it's not like the Russian owners are offering or encouraging gay bathhouse service on men-only days. Sure, they want gay money, but the service and respect ends there.
 
The wet room is well lit, even in the steam and sauna. The steam room is all glass and easily visible from outside. Nowhere to hide or be discreet, and the steam is severely hot. Not sure how anyone can sustain an erection there. The sauna room (also very hot) is square, huge, and brightly lit. On all my visits (30 or so), I've never been in that room with only one man present, and the door to the room is constantly opening and closing. The wet area always seems very busy to me, and I usually go during off hours.
 
If you're a horny gay guy on the prowl for spa sex, I can almost guarantee you'll leave the Russian Baths with blue balls, unless you get lucky and drop $120 in one of the massage rooms. I can't imagine this would be the best choice for a horny gay guy on the prowl, but perhaps I'm wrong and plenty of men are leaving with phone numbers and partners they just met.

I think they only allow nudity on gender days, and that may be in restricted areas only, like sauna and steam. I have no memory of men walking naked everywhere, on every floor. I never go naked in public. Even on men's days, lots of towel and swimsuit wearers. I'm not sure why any guy would want to wear a shirt in a wet spa, but in NYC, you find all levels of modesty, and no one seems to care. They provide lockers on the entry floor, which I think is carpeted. Kind of looks and smells like an old high school gym locker room. I think you need to provide your own lock. They may sell locks. I also remember bringing my own towel, but I think they provide towels. They have a phone number.
 
Considering their dual calendar nonsense with the two owners and their one-time visit price increasing, I think you get more value by buying a day pass at a decent health club. There is no real swimming pool or Jacuzzi at the Russian Baths, and the eye candy at a health club in NYC is 10 times what they offer. Plus, a health club's steam and sauna temperature is regulated by the city, and the interior environment tends to be much newer and more sophisticated. I've never known the Russians to be gay friendly, anyway. At least not in any encouraging way.
 
The Russian Baths do offer these weird skin rub services in the dry sauna. The customer is naked when receiving this service, but it's done in front of others and there's nothing sensual about it.

Too many crushes to count. When I fall for a guy, I try to stay loyal for as long as I can. There is a hindrance. The more you get to know about the masseur, the easier it is to fall out of love. That's the problem mixing fantasy with reality and all the good feelings that come with massage. In the end, I never met a massage therapist that I wanted to marry. So like most crushes, they're fleeting, and we move on to the next one.

The service industry, especially underground, offers no guarantees of safety. It's a pool you swim in with no lifeguard.

The service industry, especially underground, offers no guarantees of safety. It's a pool you swim in with no lifeguard.

Maybe. But I suspect a lot of parents are footing the bill. Way too many spoiled kids who have no idea what work is.

Perfunctory PMs are not my style, but some guys view niceties as wasting time, or think of PMs as texts. Since much information is discouraged, PMs have become fairly common for seeking added info. Perhaps so common, a few folks might forget their manners.

Is lurid behavior considered sexy or inviting in this context? Is it sexier to scream I want to get fucked or to whisper it in someone's ear? Does anyone long to satisfy a guy who appears so blatantly desperate?
 
I once saw a massage guy who liked to top me before he moved to another state. He was kind and tender and I enjoyed him. He didn't know it, at least we never talked about it, but I wore a butt plug for an hour before my appointment, and I used as little lube as possible. I removed it in the shower before I left to see him and showed up looking dry and normal.
 
He enjoyed working my ass crack during the massage, thinking his technique is what loosened me up. It certainly helped relax me. If I showed up on the table with a butt plug inserted, I believe it might alter the masseur's approach and could interfere with his thinking. Did I kill all fantasy? Did I put a prop in his way and now he doesn't know what to do with it? What if he thinks by removing it there might be an unwanted surprise at the tip? The mind is a funny thing in these moments. You gotta be careful what you wish for. You gotta make sure your fantasy is in line with his. Otherwise I think you're inviting disaster.

Is lurid behavior considered sexy or inviting in this context? Is it sexier to scream I want to get fucked or to whisper it in someone's ear? Does anyone long to satisfy a guy who appears so blatantly desperate?
 
I once saw a massage guy who liked to top me before he moved to another state. He was kind and tender and I enjoyed him. He didn't know it, at least we never talked about it, but I wore a butt plug for an hour before my appointment, and I used as little lube as possible. I removed it in the shower before I left to see him and showed up looking dry and normal.
 
He enjoyed working my ass crack during the massage, thinking his technique is what loosened me up. It certainly helped relax me. If I showed up on the table with a butt plug inserted, I believe it might alter the masseur's approach and could interfere with his thinking. Did I kill all fantasy? Did I put a prop in his way and now he doesn't know what to do with it? What if he thinks by removing it there might be an unwanted surprise at the tip? The mind is a funny thing in these moments. You gotta be careful what you wish for. You gotta make sure your fantasy is in line with his. Otherwise I think you're inviting disaster.

Is lurid behavior considered sexy or inviting in this context? Is it sexier to scream I want to get fucked or to whisper it in someone's ear? Does anyone long to satisfy a guy who appears so blatantly desperate?
 
I once saw a massage guy who liked to top me before he moved to another state. He was kind and tender and I enjoyed him. He didn't know it, at least we never talked about it, but I wore a butt plug for an hour before my appointment, and I used as little lube as possible. I removed it in the shower before I left to see him and showed up looking dry and normal.
 
He enjoyed working my ass crack during the massage, thinking his technique is what loosened me up. It certainly helped relax me. If I showed up on the table with a butt plug inserted, I believe it might alter the masseur's approach and could interfere with his thinking. Did I kill all fantasy? Did I put a prop in his way and now he doesn't know what to do with it? What if he thinks by removing it there might be an unwanted surprise at the tip? The mind is a funny thing in these moments. You gotta be careful what you wish for. You gotta make sure your fantasy is in line with his. Otherwise I think you're inviting disaster.

Is lurid behavior considered sexy or inviting in this context? Is it sexier to scream I want to get fucked or to whisper it in someone's ear? Does anyone long to satisfy a guy who appears so blatantly desperate?
 
I once saw a massage guy who liked to top me before he moved to another state. He was kind and tender and I enjoyed him. He didn't know it, at least we never talked about it, but I wore a butt plug for an hour before my appointment, and I used as little lube as possible. I removed it in the shower before I left to see him and showed up looking dry and normal.
 
He enjoyed working my ass crack during the massage, thinking his technique is what loosened me up. It certainly helped relax me. If I showed up on the table with a butt plug inserted, I believe it might alter the masseur's approach and could interfere with his thinking. Did I kill all fantasy? Did I put a prop in his way and now he doesn't know what to do with it? What if he thinks by removing it there might be an unwanted surprise at the tip? The mind is a funny thing in these moments. You gotta be careful what you wish for. You gotta make sure your fantasy is in line with his. Otherwise I think you're inviting disaster.

That was an amazing piece of promotional video. Imagine if every masseur offered a video like that. Business would be booming.

That was an amazing piece of promotional video. Imagine if every masseur offered a video like that. Business would be booming.

That was an amazing piece of promotional video. Imagine if every masseur offered a video like that. Business would be booming.

That was an amazing piece of promotional video. Imagine if every masseur offered a video like that. Business would be booming.

You can definitely broaden your customer base by offering more than one payment option. The more options you can afford to offer the better. People are more inclined to make a credit or a convenience purchase when they are short on cash. Accepting cash only may limit appointment requests.

$180 for 60 minutes is way beyond my budget, especially if he remains dressed. Also, I won't support someone using fake pics.

Are members here permitted to call other members "asshole?" If so, that's disgusting.

I wanted feedback but your profile is hidden. No PMs possible?

By page 4, everyone looks the same to me. Ads often repeat, which is very annoying. I prefer to use the filter feature. It seems to pull ads from obscurity and make searching more fun.

I wanted feedback but your profile is hidden. No PMs possible?

By page 4, everyone looks the same to me. Ads often repeat, which is very annoying. I prefer to use the filter feature. It seems to pull ads from obscurity and make searching more fun.

I think dark skin is not much different than red hair, uncut cock, or cigarette breath. If you're not sexually attracted to certain details, I don't think that automatically dumps you into an -ism category. People are way too quick to scream racism today. Serious ignorance on display.
 
On the other hand, Cleveland has it's share of racists. Their police department is pretty infamous.
 
I, too, wish guys could be more upfront about their turn-ons. However, the minute you express your likes, someone will get butt-hurt for being excluded. You can't win. I think it's smarter for business to at least make the appearance of being open to all. Deal with individual let downs privately.

He works on a bed for outcalls, but will not perform the service in the nude no matter where. The only ginger you get to see is the hair above his neck. He claims "respectful mutual touching is allowed," and we all know what that means. As for HE, "yes, there can be." He also describes his massage as "light touch."
 
Considering the price, there is no mention of certification. But he's very accommodating with multiple payment methods. He's only 23 years old. He says he loves to travel.
 
His prices are way too high for me. I typically don't look for escort services in a massage, but if I can't enjoy the view of a ginger cock, I see no point in paying a premium for a ginger jock. On top of that, "light touch" is not the pressure I want.
 
This guy excels at his business presentation, but word of mouth and cost ruins any motivation to book. Using clever words to talk about massage aren't enough for me. I need to hear customer raves. Looks like I will pass on this one.
 
https://gingerjock.com/faq

Is that what it's called?
 

Unfortunately, the bar is set so low these days. Why would anyone dream of higher expectation?

Is that what it's called?
 

Unfortunately, the bar is set so low these days. Why would anyone dream of higher expectation?

If you ask me, Davey Wavey is the most girly of the three. It is interesting that the bottom comes off as the most masculine. Ah, life.