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If you had listened to the court video, you would have heard that the case would remain unsealed for two years, after which, the case would be sealed from public access.  
 
 

If anyone is interested, the link below will take you to the actual recording of the trial wherein Kyle Snyder was required to plead guilty or not guilty. 
Obviously, he pleaded guilty. 
He was fined $250.00 plus court costs of an undisclosed amount.  He had also been required to take a paid course about how negative it is to hire a prostitute. 
It was pathetic to hear Kyle say, in court, that the "class" taught him about his behavior and about prostitution.  In short, the court hearing required Kyle to agree that he was a negative person because he tried to hire a prostitute. 
I think the entrapment law of someone who merely tries to hire a prostitute is from a different era.  Times have changed, but the outdated laws stay on the books that allow police to entrap and arrest someone for a non-violent "crime".  
Here is the link to the recorded court appearance of Kyle:
 

You leave after driving forty or fifty miles to the escort, after he pulls that unexpected advance payment stunt? 
That is a lot of driving time, especially if one lives in a large city.
You said that you would leave.  
What about others out here who drive or travel a long way only to have the escort change the rules and insist on advance payment?
There is no question that the rules for hiring have changed in favor of the escort, considering the relatively new high hike in prices and the ever-so-common advance payment demand.  
Has anyone reached a "happy Medium" so to speak, with advance payment, together with a long travel trip to the escort?

You leave after driving forty or fifty miles to the escort, after he pulls that unexpected advance payment stunt? 
That is a lot of driving time, especially if one lives in a large city.
You said that you would leave.  
What about others out here who drive or travel a long way only to have the escort change the rules and insist on advance payment?
There is no question that the rules for hiring have changed in favor of the escort, considering the relatively new high hike in prices and the ever-so-common advance payment demand.  
Has anyone reached a "happy Medium" so to speak, with advance payment, together with a long travel trip to the escort?

Isn't "entrapment" illegal anymore??? It's not like he picked up a hooker off the streets down in skid lane or tried to pick up and exposed himself to an undercover Vice Squad agent in a public men's room! 🤬 He answered what he thought was a legitimate ad on a site and was in a hotel room! How the hell does that hurt anybody?!! Why are the "buyers" being persecuted and not the "sellers"??? 😡 That's like saying you can sell drugs on the street but if we catch anybody buying them, then you go to jail and are fined! 

As if there weren't enough criminals, street thugs and crimes to put their efforts into stopping! This is what they do with taxpayers money in the name of the law for public safety! 🤬

The arrest of Kyle Snyder should be a cautionary warning to those of us who hire from rentmen or from any other online site.   
In the instant case, Snyder had the "escort" (that he thought he was hiring) come to his hotel room.  Instead of an "escort" coming to the room, it was a policeman who arrived and then asked for the money from Snyder.  Upon Snyder giving the cop the asked-for money, several other cops suddenly came to the room and promptly placed Snyder in handcuffs and told him he was under arrest for prostitution solicitation. 
Further, it was heard in the video that one cop said to Snyder, It's time for your "walk of shame" which meant that Snyder had to walk down the hotel hallway (handcuffed and into the hotel lobby and (presumably into a police car, when he was taken to jail.  
Any thoughts about this?  If this can happen to Snyder, it can happen to any of us who hire from online sites.   
Hence, although it might take extra time in hiring an "escort", it is safer to agree to first meet the "escort" in a local bar or other public place.  If you meet the "escort" in public, it is unlikely that the cop will have several other cops waiting for you to offer the first cop money for prostitution.  
This could happen to any of us.  Be careful and realize that the person who advertises and says he is an "escort" could be a cop (with additional cops in tow).
 
 
 

Nope. Not much else to the evening. Thank you for victim shaming. 

You asked for feedback and you got it. I suggest you think about it and digest it instead of rejecting it. You need some serious therapy. 

Thank you all for your feedback. I see that some people will always find fault in the client seeking a service and when it becomes (my) traumatic experience,  this wasn't the place to post it. 

sounds like a bad incident - but let me say this: sometimes when you are negative it become a self fulfilling prophecy. 
 
1. you went to a bathhouse despite not liking them feeling uncomfortable. How is this his fault?
2. you get there and are uncomfortable, complaining about the room. How is this his fault?
3. you talk about how you will only pay in a way that you can get your money back with the provider (im sure that is going to make him feel great)  How is this his fault?
4. you sit there visibly uncomfortable, he suggests maybe bringing in someone else to help. (you don't mention any ideas you have to make you feel more comfortable - you are also an active participant here. he is not a mind reader)  How is this his fault? 
5. you tell him you now want to leave after he has gone out his way to prepare to meet you, travel to the bathhouse. Of course he is going to be annoyed.  he thinks you are probably going to reverse the payment like you suggested at the start.  How is this his fault?
 
You willed this into situation into existence and you need to take some responsibly for it. I'm not saying what he did was right - but you literally threatened him that you would reverse payment if you were not happy. Not a great way to start a session. 
 
You may want to explore seeing a therapist or counselor and work on anxiety instead of hiring sex workers in bathhouses. 

What if you spent a lot of time driving to the escort, and he springs the advance payment requirement?  Do you leave? 

Considering that he answered a rentmen.com advertisement and was, after being arrested, fined $250 for "disorderly conduct", rentmen should pay his fine.  
By the way, there is speculation above that he might have engaged with a woman.   However, if you notice the film, he handed the money to an overcover cop, at which point the arrest occurred.  If there was a woman involved, why would Snyder give the male cop money for sex?  
 

Considering that he answered a rentmen.com advertisement and was, after being arrested, fined $250 for "disorderly conduct", rentmen should pay his fine.  
By the way, there is speculation above that he might have engaged with a woman.   However, if you notice the film, he handed the money to an overcover cop, at which point the arrest occurred.  If there was a woman involved, why would Snyder give the male cop money for sex?  
 

This arrest created so many different news reports which makes it difficult to recall each source of what was reported.  However, one ad was very clear that the advertisement was rentmen.  

A small correction. Antonio is from Columbia and Francisco from Argentina. A just had another very pleasant encounter with Antonio 🥰

But, did you read the opinion of RFK, Jr?

But, did you read the opinion of RFK, Jr?

But, did you read the opinion of RFK, Jr?

But, did you read the opinion of RFK, Jr?

But, did you read the opinion of RFK, Jr?

It is true that most guys charge more if not hired while in the sauna.  However, if you figure the savings of not having to pay the sauna entrance to Lagoa and the price of the private room at Lagoa, there really isn't that big of a difference in price between hiring outside versus hiring in the sauna.  
The only thing missing is the safety factor.  At Lagoa, you have virtually no risk of danger.  But, going to an apartment or non-sauna room of a garoto, you never know if they are alone or have some mean intention.   I cannot begin to guess how many garotos I hired away from the saunas, and I have never had any negative issues.  
 

How about a posthumous memoir?

Slave labor?  If you factor in the payment (for several days escorting) to an escort for an overnight or an extended vacation, think of the money the escort is making, not to mention the fact that he likely does not report the money for income purposes (which saves him a chunk of money).
Another thing, if there is a large difference between your ages, even though it is not always the case, escorts often have difficulty having sex with someone who is much older and not attractive to them. 
Just a couple of thoughts. 

He's there to be your companion during your trip, plain and simple. You have hired him to do so and you're paying all expenses. You are paying for both his time and his presence during your weekend excursion, whether he realizes this or not. BTW, this is usually spelled out in every single Rentmen ad: Payment is for time and companionship ONLY (what may go on between the two of you during that time is agreed upon by two consenting adults). His companionship is being paid for the full weekend - not the time on 'his terms'.
Remember: You are not traveling as friends, this is a business arrangement and money is being spent on him. The agreement is not for just having dinner and sex - it's for him to keep you company.  (If you were traveling with a friend, and the friend was paying his own expenses, then he would have the option to do whatever he feels like for the weekend, and not follow instructions from you).
If you want to lounge by the pool from morning to noon, he should be by your side doing the same thing - not left behind in the hotel room sleeping until noon. You are paying for his time to be with you - not leave you alone. If he wants to go to the gym, fine (I'd want my escort to be in top shape with his clothes off, too!) but agree on the time he leaves and when you expect him back - he's working for YOU. If you want to go to the deck and have lunch at 1 pm, he goes with you (whether he's hungry or not) - he's there to keep you company. You don't allow him to say, 'I'm not hungry. You go have lunch and I'll meet you later." He goes with you and sits at the table with you, whether he eats or not (he can sit and have a lemonade and watch you eat a lobster).
IF the provider has any problems with the above, then he should not have taken the job in the frst place since he can't fulfill the requirements of the position - and yes, this is a weekend job, no matter how you slice and dice it. He's getting paid. At the end of the excursion, if he seems like he wasn't enjoying himself YOU DON'T HIRE HIM AGAIN. Move on to someone else who understands the job.
I'm telling you this now, so I don't have to tell you this again. ☺️