augustus

Bingo.
This is why all this talk of kissing 💋 providers is always lost on me.
I just wanna get off.
It's very possible to be happily married but unsatisfied with the frequency of your sex life at home.

According to Mrs. White from Clue...

I remember hearing my parents having sex while I was visiting for a holiday. I was 30...so...the flame was still burning.
My wife and I have been living together for 18 years. The frequency of our sex life is much lower but not non-existent. I think the fact that we both hook up with other people prevents it from feeling monotonous.

My grandparents were having sex in their 80s after over 60 years of marriage!  

It may be best to seek medical advice. You may want to try daily application of Preparation H with Biodyne (the Canadian version available on Amazon) and see if it helps with the puffiness. 
Every hole is different. None look the same, just like no two belly buttons look the same. It may be a confidence/body image thing. Something to consider. 

I've used a CPAP for several years, took to it right away and don't like sleeping without it.  I take that as an indication my body likes it, too.  Important to realize there are many different options for masks, and a new patient should insist that the doctor/equipment supplier make changes as necessary until the right mask is found.  I'm currently using the ResMed Airfit N20, which is a nasal mask with pretty substantial headgear, but because I toss a lot it keeps the mask on securely.  But that's me.  Bonus for folks with sleep partners, a properly functioning CPAP should greatly cut down on snoring and other night noises.

I'd love to give him a shower and wash that dirty butt of his! 🤪

It appears to be rude and serves as a clear indication of the type of person you're dealing with.

The Fed needs to raise the prime lending rate, imo, two 25 bp increases in the next 3-4 months because the Fed rate is still low relative to historical highs and because inflation is stubborn as hell.
But will Jerome Powell actually do it?  The cynic in me says no.  I've even heard rumors that the Fed will lower the rate a couple of times this year.  Whether those are leaks from insiders or just wishful thinking, time will tell.

Over the past 2 years the average cost of groceries is up 20%, gas 22%, new cars 19%, utilities 20%, rent 20%.  I've never really paid that much attention to prices, just swipe the debt card and go.  But I find myself pausing...going, huh?

@Rick M he doesn't have the same feelings for you, as you do for him.  It is what it is. Please don't extend him money again.  

I’ve been there, done that.  I think I’m better off for it financially.  As my guard is way way way up.

Chalk it up as a lesson.
"Neither a borrower nor a lender be;
For loan oft loses both itself and friend,
And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry."
- Polonius, Hamlet Scene 1, Act 3