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Of course

Adventures: I met a guy yesterday (after a brief text conversation) who immediately ushered me into his bedroom and launched into a 10 minute monologue about how 1) he wasn’t an escort, and, 2) he really didn’t enjoy sex at all except when he was ‘partying’ with a group. It never gets boring.

Update: I’ve been exchanging messages with this guy and he’s pretty neat and very well read. He is really into the the idea of making a connection with clients and the role that empathy and caring play. I’m psyched about meeting a first-timer for the first time in a long time.

I think this is the Grindr approach. Anyway, the RM profile is expired. “Please do not be afraid to say hello! I am a very sensual taurus. Cuddling can be great too. What we do, depends on many factors. Hit me up and lets see!“

Swapped some scheduling emails with Dustin and settled on a time and place on Saturday afternoon; he confirmed Friday night and that’s the last I’ve heard from him. EDIT: I just received a text from him apologizing for the no-show with no communication (no explanation offered or requested.)

Nothing??? He's making the rounds... NOLA, ATL, DC, NYC... EDIT: Has anyone actually met him?

I've observed rental car rates fluctuate wildly from the same company/same dates so, if it's more than a couple of weeks out, I make a reservation with the cheapest rate I can find on several sites and re-check every few days and rebook a new reservation if a lower rate pops up... right up to the moment I step off the airplane in my destination city. (I like Skyscanner and Google travel). Sometimes the best rate I've gotten has been 2 months out and sometimes 2 hours. I assume it's pure projected supply and demand. Setting an alert on a couple of sites like Kayak helps but can feel spammy. Checking nearby cities can pay off... like PBI/FLL/MIA in South Fla. On the downside I've begun seeing 'non-refundable' car rental reservations pop up (as with hotels).

Upfront and ongoing. I don’t remember what it was back in my horse and buggy days but what I gather from a Seegingarrangement friend is that it’s not cheap.

I wasn’t a member of a frat (too expensive) but I lived in a frat house for a while (it’s complicated but basically I’d been sleeping in my car). I think there are some really good things about Greek life and some not so good. It can be a great way to meet people and make lifelong friends. I also think they can be super-cliquish and amplify some of the worst in people. Looking back on it I wish that I’d been able to experience a little bit of the frat experience.

Agree And I’m not sure any of the questions can be answered with anything other than “sometimes” or “it depends”.

Welcome to the Forum @Trigga !

Has anyone met DustinM of Atlanta -> https://rentmen.eu/DustinM

He’s still not responded to my text... #NoNoItsOkIllBeFine

I would wager that the awareness of American sensitivities on diversity appearances isn't quite as strong in Prague. Just a guess.

I'd not responded to this because I almost never hire masseurs. The ambiguity hinted-at above (the code words, the arbitrariness, the coy responses, etc.) makes me a little frustrated and if I want to meet a man then I hire an escort. I don't know if Atlanta has a relative shortage of masseurs or not but there are plenty of fine escorts. That said: 1) Josh - never seen him 2) Bryan Kelly - never met him but, as stated, has been advertising as an escort for a long time. 3) Roman - advertises as an escort. We've met about 10 times and I recommend him as an escort. 4) Charlie - never seen him except for long-standing masseur profile 5) Carlos - AKA Santos - I did meet him and wouldn't recommend him to anyone for anything 6) Josh Reyes - never seen him I tried contacting Michael to arrange something and got a lecture about not calling 24-hours in advance I've met Jake - nice guy... twink; good erotic massage session Tim - met him a several times and much has been said. Ronin - met him... very strange session. Used latex gloves. Wouldn't repeat. There are a couple of other guys on MF who also advertise as escorts, such as Carlo. Some others drift on and off.

I just spent a couple of hours with Albertman. Looks exactly like his pics - very hot body - and a really nice guy to boot. Review in progress.

Venmo me.

Don’t disagree. The SA guys are “unknown entities”... a complete wildcard. I think I could show up with a live chicken and wearing a Batman costume and still be surprised. But if someone expects to make a living doing something.....

I have never brought either condoms or lube to a meeting with an escort (I do when I meet my SA friends, however, because they don’t advertise as “professionals”). I consider them to be tools of the trade and, similarly, I do not bring a toothbrush to a dentist office visit. On two occasions the guys I met was unprepared. I asked the first to run to a drug store before we started our time together. The second had Uber’ed and unable to. I suspect that we were both disappointed in the final outcome of that meeting. I believe that part of being a professional in any field is showing up on time, prepared and ready to do your job. I show up clean, with a positive attitude and holding cash. I hate to sound like a hardass or non-pragmatic but everyone draws the line somewhere. I also think that showing up sober counts. The true pro’s I’ve met are always prepared.

Happy birthday Hunter!

What @peterhung85 said. From my perspective it's just as much about enjoying the client's company as being enjoyable - if you're miserable with him then there's no way you can be good company and that's something that's hard to predict. In average meetings you spend 90% of the time doing something that, when traveling, you spend only 5% of your time doing. Predicting success based on hourly sessions is difficult. I've taken only one companion on a trip with me and it was a disaster, ending with me buying him a plane ticket home 3 days early. I had predicted success based on lots of very pleasant 2-3 hour sessions and that was a huge mistake. I'm seriously considering asking a guy to join me on a trip in the spring and giving it allot more thought. To the OP question, make sure that clients know you are open to it and don't necessarily accept an offer if you're not certain it would be something for which you can both be enjoyable and enjoy.

You should add "Intimacy Concierge" to your resume. THANKS DADDY!

Sad yet so very beautiful.

I've gotten a flu vaccine every year since my mid-30's after a nasty bout. I had always known that, because of the way the expected strains are projected, the effectiveness was nowhere near 100%. But I never knew until seeing this just how variable that effectiveness was: Source

Yep.... it's like buying a house AND getting a job. I guess it works out but I'm surprised that guys go thru it.