Keith30309

Uhmmm … What is there to do in Zürich?

Damn! Just grabbed a pair of tix. Thank you !

<bump> I love his profile. Travel schedule includes a few different cities, mostly in Canada. Any experiential info?

You are not the only one. Mine is fouled up as well and I’ve not had any luck talking with anyone at Starwood.

Interesting SA exchange for the day... not a bad looking guy...in his profile he describes himself thusly: Sub boy - 19 - little boy here for your pleasure About Me looking for mommy’s or daddy’s to serve. i listen very well and am well behaved Seeking Friends with benefits No strings attached Rent Assistance looking for dominate daddy’s or mommy’s, or both!!! He initiated the following: HIM: hey i got a hotel room in <town> near airport if you wanna come by HIM: the thing is tonight’s my last night and i am short on cash ME: Let me know whenever you head back to <town> HIM: i’m staying in <town> HIM: jumping from crack shack to hotel to hotel but I ran out of money so I’m kind of fucked HIM: could you help me pay for the room until the weekdays and then you can come over like whenever you want on the weekdays? ME: I can’t realky help you HIM: well i’m shit outta luck cause i have no mon y left HIM: my number is xxx-xxx-xxxx Then this morning: HIM: can you come rn or sometime before 11? I cross reference his number using a couple of tools... one name that comes up is “Abdel Kadir Shaikh”. Abdul Kadir Shaikh was a Pakistani politician who was the 13th governor of Sindh from 6 July 1977 to 17 September 1978. He was born in 1926 and died on 27 March 2008 (Wikipedia) Do you: 1) Ask him for a 3-fingered selfie? 2) Run by the drugstore for condoms and lube and go meet him? 3) Run by your meth dealer for a gift and ask him to a nice dinner to get to know one another? 4) Call Homeland Security and ask for references? 5) Block his account, sell your house, move to Mexico and have plastic surgery to alter your appearance?

Xenophobia

I cannot answer your question however it presents an opportunity to observe that there are no pages littered with revenue-producing ads, auto page redirects to other (paying) sites, pop-ups, clickbait in the threads’ messages, spam sent to your email, etc. The owner has chosen to forego income and that’s pretty rare these days.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/36213/

Odd... I read thru this and couldn’t find the word “prostate” anywhere.

I asked a spa masseuse this once and she said she preferred that if someone is able that they excuse themselves to the restroom. If it just happens she said she tries to ignore it and move on.

Mooooooo!!! (He’ll understand.)

Wow... you know things are bad when FBI agents have to have bodyguards.

Wow... I must have slipped in just under the wire. And it’s weird that I can still see the 6/12 month screen.

I’m a little unclear... He doesn’t have rates... He would like to have a 2 hour dinner... The rate for that is $600... And I assume the standard disclaimer is that fee is for time spent only. And maybe the guy in the pics at this moment in time is him and maybe not. And someone who uses this name is a superb companion but with limits that need to be agreed upon in advance. He is traveling here and I’ve been tempted to reach out to him but all this is really confusing.

I’m a little unclear... He doesn’t have rates... He would like to have a 2 hour dinner... The rate for that is $600... And I assume the standard disclaimer is that fee is for time spent only. And maybe the guy in the pics at this moment in time is him and maybe not. And someone who uses this name is a superb companion but with limits that need to be agreed upon in advance. He is traveling here and I’ve been tempted to reach out to him but all this is really confusing.

When I clicked thru on the Premium Membership option it presented me with the choice of 1 month recurring ($9.95), 6 months ($49.95) or 12 months ($99.95).

There’s allot of info and video on his twitter -> For those of you into wrestling I’d guess he would be an excellent companion.

Happy birthday RV!!!

It’s very possible he’s played like this in the past but I’d be a little surprised if it were extensive. He’s never said anything directly about it but the way he has prostrated himself (for example, pulling his knees up to his ears (he’s a lanky twinkish type) and rolling with his ass up) tells me there’s something there. Also, casually mentioning his limits tells me he’s thought about them at a minimum. He’s a very smart guy with lots of emotional intelligence and empathy.

I’m going to think about the physical part but am considering wrist/ankle restraints, something anal’ish like a vibrating plug, clothes pins and maybe some kind of food. Nothing complicated. The intellectual and emotional parts are more tricky but, based on what we’ve shared over the last year, I think his primary motivation is to please (with a paternal element) and secondarily to relinquish control and unburden himself. I don’t want to over complicate things but would like to work this into things. I find it ironic that the dom role is so much more difficult and laborious. Who’s serving who...lol.

Excellent advice ! Thank You !

I’m a little at a loss on dealing with a request from a regular buddy. We met on SA (he’s 25) have been meeting every 2-3 weeks for over a year and our time has always been very vanilla and focused on BFE sorts of things... very sweet, cuddly stuff... and we’ve become pretty close emotionally with lots of talking. This morning I got a series of text messages (below, with my clarifying questions removed): I'm a little embarrassed to share my idea now, but i figure i should since i already brought it up. Part of me had the idea the other day of something i thought you might enjoy. If i were to maybe go (there) and actually get (a room) before you arrive. You could come in and maybe find me tied up waiting for you. I kinda think it'd be hot to be completely in your control for you to explore and kinda do anything ya want to me ;p If that's too much or not your thing, that's ok too. Just an idea. Wanna help ya enjoy yourself Id be all yours to explore, experiment, and use You can try anything I want you to know you can do anything you want. I'm into some edgy stuff too. ;p I just feel like you're nervous to try any of it with me. Honestly, if you wanted to, you could hurt me as well. I'm completely fine with pain. Just not damage if that makes sense. I promise you i could handle anything you wanted to do sir My limits are blood, scat, ws, damage. But other than that. Id be all yours if that is something you wanna try with me... I just trust you and want you to know you can do anything with me. I'm yours to use I could either get the room before you, or you could just tie me up and blindfold me when i get there. That way you have me exactly how ya want me. Sooooo.... I have a few days to figure out what to do. I sort of think he’s getting bored with our regular vanilla BFE routine and suspect he’s exploring something which has interested him. He’s definitely bottom-everything and doesn’t seem to remotely interested in topping in any way. I’d like to figure out something he would enjoy and the things that strike me about his comments are 1) surrendering control, 2) being used, and, 3) receiving pain on some level. We’ve talked allot about things that happened in his past and I sense there’s some mental stuff going on with not having had a stable, trusting environment. I think there’s a line somewhere between my boring (and disappointing) him and my going overboard, brutalizing/traumatizing and alienating him. My frame of reference is porn and I think most of that is a little advanced. I need a beginners guidebook or something.

When I first started meeting guys I ran into a handful of situations such as you describe. I didn't end the sessions because I was 1) somewhat intimidated, and, 2) horny. I regret not immediately ending the session because none of them ever went well and I left angry at myself and frustrated. The best way to deal with this is to avoid it in the first place: thorough vetting of someone you don't know and very clear communications in advance on what you expect with affirmation he understands (to be fair, no one is a mind reader and if I've not clearly expressed my interests I can't fault someone for not addressing them.) There are occasionally situations that arise when things simply aren't going well... he said he liked to kiss but didn't mention it was only on the cheek... his attention drifts away and he's clearly not focused on you (e.g., his cell phone)... something beyond basic lack of chemistry. This rarely happens to me now but when it does I call a timeout and explain that things aren't going well and, in a constructive way, ask if he has any suggestions. It's hard to not be angry or frustrated at this point but work under the assumption that ultimately he wants things to go well. If the situation can't be salvaged then I leave and write a fact-based review. (Assume that any review that you submit will have a rebuttal and stick to the facts.) Hang in there and focus on avoiding the problem in the first place.

From 10/3/2017 The chairman and CEO of Berkshire Hathaway Warren Buffett said Tuesday that passive investing works in any market environment and so he'd be willing to wager again against active investing for the next 10 years. A decade ago, the billionaire investor made a million dollar bet that the S&P 500 will beat a basket of fund of hedge funds over the next 10 years, ending this year. He will likely win that bet by a large margin. The S&P 500 "will absolutely kill every one of the fund of funds," Buffett said on CNBC's "Squawk Box." "Passive investment in aggregate is going to beat active investment because of fees." The investor explained if you don't pay 2 percent or 3 percent of fees to financial advisers, the your payoff for investing in the broad market will be "very good" over time. When asked if he just got lucky with the timing of the bet, the Buffett said "the date of the start has nothing to do with it." He said is willing to do another bet on active versus passive as long as anybody wants to put up "a significant percentage of their net worth" on the wager. LINK

Allot of discussion on Cade here -> https://m4m-forum.org/threads/411-on-cade-maddox.128886/