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As your attorney I recommend that you mitigate your credit default risk by partitioning this $6k financial interest into marketable tranches of, perhaps, a dozen $500 lots to be marketed at a 50% discount.

I’ve loaned money to young acquaintances twice and it didn’t end well either time. In both cases I got a sense of resentment from them when trying to schedule the follow up meet. I started to feel like a bill collector: “Hey, are you available next Tuesday to meet?”.... “No, I have other plans.”

Wait.... isn’t “Dirty Young Trade” the name of a rock band ? “I’m going downtown to see Dirty Young Trade”.

Happy birthday!!! ???

I’d characterize the guys I’ve seen on MB as being more of an amateur standing. They come and go and seem to be less established. I’d use the word “fresh” (in some cases). I‘m not sure how you uniformly measure “quality”. I’ve met established, highly rated & priced guys on RM who’ve done little for me (especially well known porn guys.) Conversely I’ve met newbie guys who blew my socks off. I can’t speak to how “cheap” MB guys are because none have returned my messages. (See “amateur“). I will say that based on the couple of hundred different guys I’ve hired I observe absolutely zero correlation between rate and the enjoyment of my experience. I recall someone I paid $600 for 2 hours who was dreadful in most respects. And I still see a guy who I give $150 for a couple of hours who makes me feel awesome. This is why I’m hesitant to pay someone I don’t know $500 for a 2-hr because “it’s the going rate”.

Doesn’t everyone encrypt and password protect their computers ?

Over the course of 3-4 months I’ve messaged 4 different guys on MB who are not on RM and none have responded. I perceive that the content is usually out of date and skimpy at best. It also seems to have more guys looking for female clients.

Has anyone any awareness of https://rentmen.eu/Dick_Master/ He has a couple of detailed, negative RM reviews (read via proxy) and a greater number of unannotated positive ones.

Me too. It’s a guess but I think that the more one hears about something the more “normal“ it feels and gender fluidity is fully established in popular culture. Coke, Chevy and Campbells Soup got comfortable with same-sex, mainstream advertising a few years ago and it doesn’t raise an eyebrow in younger folks. And younger folks who are maturing with open discussion of gender fluidity, perhaps including friends who are now out, won’t see providers who are little different as non-hireable. Also, think that curious younger people are less prone to conform to peer imposed norms.

Oh yeah... regarding the overnight visits. Money isn’t really a factor in my SA overnight experience. There are lots of young guys who seek out the company of older men. I’ve seen desire for mentorship, a need to be with someone stable, a desire for a sense of emotional security, a sexual interest in a daddy type, a desire for a luxury mini-vacation, and simple friendship. I’ve declined more offers to have someone spend the night than I accepted. Money wasn’t a factor in any of them. On this Forum we all all pretty attuned to “hourly rates”, discounted multi-hours, and all the transactional elements of hiring an escort that it takes a little shift of mindset to understand the SA experience.

This is a tricky topic. I had an 8 month arrangement with a guy and I’d slip $400/wk into his desk drawer at his apartment, regardless of how many times we met or what we did. Many visits were simply going out to a leisurely lunch. We became pretty close, to the point of meeting his sibling a few times for lunch, and neither of us were comfortable with the idea that I was “hiring” him. Perhaps it was a case of mutual delusion and dual rationalization but we came to regard this money as something I could easily do to help a friend. I’m happy with that. He was happy with that. That’s all that counts.

I’ve given 3 different friends I met on SA $200 allowance when we’ve spent the night together. (Plus meals, Uber, and whatever else) I don’t view it as bragging. Bragging implies bargaining or somehow getting a “deal”. If I were to view it in transactional terms, it’s not a deal given how much time i spent filtering out flakes and losers.

https://rentmen.eu/EduardoFerrazz Has anyone med Eduardo Ferrazz ?

I’m paying $300 for what is about a 60-90 day supply (I forget how many mL’s), but I buy it thru the compounding pharmacy used by my doc. I’m sure it’s available for less elsewhere but it’s really convenient. I make a call to my Dr, he writes the refill and forwards it on, they package and ship it and I have it in a couple of days. It is *much* more effective than viagra for me.

Meet him in the bar... people casually talk to strangers there and it would not arouse suspicion in onlookers. Ask him to follow you when you leave. If the elevator is empty then give him a big sloppy kiss for the benefit of security cameras in the elevator ceiling. If someone you know gets in the elevator with both of you just ride up together silently. I was at a multi-day conference with several coworkers and checked in at the same time as one of them. The front desk put us in adjacent rooms and i was expecting a couple of guests and hoping to make lots of noise. As soon as we both opened our doors I “smelled cigarette smoke” and went back down to the front desk to change rooms.

No help here - I considered meeting him a couple of times and never got around to him.

I would have been fooled on this one. I’m sorry for your experience but thank you for the feedback @SilverDollar .

An Uber driver I had hired a few weeks prior dropped me off at the hotel where we met a few months ago. I recognized him immediately but didn’t say anything, just making small talk. As we started to pull into the hotel driveway I asked if it was possible we had met before. He looked at me for more than a glance and he sort of shrugged “Oh, hey”. During the ride I’d been seriously thinking about asking him in for a repeat but he didn’t seem anxious to engage in any conversation. How I would react if I ran into someone in public depends on how close we are and my immediate read of how he feels. There are guys I would hug and guys i would ignore. And if he was with anyone I would default to ignore.

Yes.... I understand that he’s been touring the US for a couple of months and will be in Atlanta several more days before returning to Costa Rica.

Spend a couple of hours today with “GFL”. Recommended. He’s a neat guy... high emotional intelligence and eager to please. Really interesting to talk to.

Who are you interested in?

Lol....pm sent and bet you a blowjob I met the second

That was an $800 lesson. When I joined the forum I learned that he had done that to several clients.

In my very first true hire of a guy from a web site about 6 years ago I picked a “porn star” figuring he would know what to do. He knew exactly what to do. I sat on a sofa in his living room and he in an overstuffed chair about 10 feet away. It was to be a 2-hour meeting and he talked for over an hour and half. He talked non-stop about everything under the sun: his days as a flight attendant, real estate, politics, etc. With about 15 minutes left he stood up “well, out time is about up. Why don’t we get back together for some fun.” I foolishly booked another 2-hours and the exact same thing happened. I didn’t know how “this stuff” was supposed to work and didn’t know what to do. (He is still on RentMen in Atlanta and still advertising as a porn star.) I do like to chat and get acquainted with someone I’ve never met, including in my Seekingarrangement days, but learned to begin some physical contact immediately - a big hug and kiss. Then chatting with a light touch to the forearm... resting a hand on the shoulder.. “do you mind if I kiss you”, etc. I have found myself still yapping away after 30 minutes but that’s my fault. And then move to “shall we get more comfortable” pretty quickly. If I’m getting a vibe that’s anything but enthusiastic I suggest that we schedule for a time when he’s more comfortable.

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