Lance_Navarro

When it comes to big cocks, the short guys always tend to get the most attention. Being 6'3" and 235 lbs, my cock doesn't look as big in pics, but usually is the biggest that most guys have taken. I could lie and say that it's 10" (like many of the guys out there), but I prefer to be honest (a true 9x6.5). I have been with CutlerX before, that's thing is in fact HUGE, his fist was easier to take that his cock.

I think you should do it again - maybe from the other end! :D;)

There are plenty of front views on my site, for your viewing pleasure. I don't have too many butt shots though.

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I just shot this one yesterday. In full disclosure, I don't think my ass is one of my better features, but others seem to enjoy it.

So, I wasn't happy with the background on this image, so I did a reshoot and got this one. http://s28.postimg.org/mqvu06h2l/image.jpg

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I just shot this one yesterday. In full disclosure, I don't think my ass is one of my better features, but others seem to enjoy it.

damn u beat me jock, oldest client I've had was 77/78, he was really hot too. But yes sadly all I really care is if a guy is real as u know so many flakes and then once i see he's real just be nice and we'll be all good

I know it's not a competition, BUT if it were I'd have you'll beat. My oldest client was 93.

There are "degrees" of bigness"... would you be honest with a client that showed up that you KNEW you were not attracted to, and knew you might not be able to become aroused and perform with. OR does that just not happen to escorts ? There's a saying that also goes "everybody has a breaking point".....

I've had clients as big as 400lbs, clients with only one leg, and colostomy bags. True compassion and acceptance doesn't have a "breaking point". I do expect a level of hygiene, but bad hygiene isn't exclusive to guys of size.

an iPhone with a timer on standing next to them.

Nope, was taken by the same photographer as the others.

who took the snuggle picture?

It was the same photographer that took all the other pics. He's asked to remain anonymous since it's not the type of images he normally shoots.

I hope that these pics are ok to post on here. These are a few of the pics from a recent shoot I did with my partner. Check out my website to see the ones I definitely can't post on here. http://www.lancesf.com/#!my-sessions/c12tp

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Hey Lance! I'm totally new to this site. Is this a pic of your sounding Lance? Very impressive. I LOVE sounding! I've shared the experience with about 5 other guys who have also taken a liking to the experience too. I'd be interested to read/see what else you (and others) have done with sounding. I've recently started with a beaded rod - that feels wonderful. Any comments or suggestions would be appreciated. Thanks buddies! David

Yes David, that is me. Reading through this thread you'll find a lot of suggestions, especially in regards to sterilization. Again, I don't own an autoclave, so I tend to stick with boiling and/or alcohol swabs. I also prefer standard lubes (either quality silicone or hybrid, I don't like most water-based) over medical lubricant. Also, you want to wash your hands very well and try to only touch the end of the rod, rather than parts that will be going inside you.

There are quite a few scenes of me sounding, if you just search "Lance Navarro porn sounding" I'm sure you'll find them. As with all porn however, it isn't always the best learning tool. The best way to learn is simply to "do".

Happy & Safe Sounding!

Thinking of anyone in particular Lance? lol.

 

Yes, I was one of those clients Lance was speaking about who was fascinated by it and asked to try it with him. He was a complete pro at it. Lance and I have known each other for quite a few years so there is a level of great trust so that is required. But honestly, for me, it was neither positive or negative. My reaction was actually "meh". Interesting. I've done it. I wouldn't mind doing it again but I wouldn't go out of my way to do so. There was no pain (which I expected). It just sort of was. It was an experience. Cross that off the bucket list.

 

But it actually came in handy a couple of weeks later. The best friend personal trainer (who is straight) is a former sex toy distributor. And she (the friend) occasionally likes to shock Chris, my trainer. So one day, she sent him a text asking him if he knew what sounding was. Of course he had no idea. Then she sent a video. Freaked him out to no end. I just happened to be the next client in so Chris asked me if I knew what sounding was. When I told him I'd tried and thought it was boring I think he almost lost it completely.

Thanks so much for sharing that hun! Was waiting for you to come across this post!

Had a friend who was unable to remove a metal cockring and ended up at the ER with FIREMEN (!) having to cut it off with a saw. Sounds hot but he was in great pain and was, needless to say, overwhelmed with embarrassment.

I'm guessing he used an injectable ED medication like trimix or keverject in combination with the cockring?

It looks frightening in an almost primal way, but perhaps therein lies its appeal.

 

What is the reaction of those who try it? 50% love it and 50% hate it? 90/10?

I would say at least 80% of my clients that attend it tell me that they enjoy it, though I don't think many of them make it a regular part of their sexual play, but neither do I. It's something that I only do once every few months and usually upon the request of a client. Sounding with metal rods is alot easier and more "comfortable" than having a catheter inserted. Metal is alot more smooth and the weight of them allows them to just "drop-in", gravity does the work, versus catheters that have to be "fed-in". For those opposed, I'm sure that doesn't make you squirm any less.

On the plus side, if I ever have a kidney stone, I'll be able to pass it no problem!

 

And then there was that sweet piece of poetry from Lance Navarro (post #

 

 

I don't think for minute that either Mike or Lance would be incapable of managing a situation with a client who had unrealistic expectations. On the contrary, I think their willingness to be emotionally generous is testimony to their advanced skills and professional confidence. Maybe it also reflects an expectation, realized over time, that the majority of the people they agree to meet are going to be reasonably well-balanced, with a working sense of reality.

Thank you so much for saying and acknowledging that! I do believe that I attract people that are balanced with high emotional intelligence. Of course, every once in a while I am sent someone that might challenge me a bit, but that's always good for growth.

For the record, I do try and ensure that my sounding experiences are as sterile as possible, without having an autoclave available. I use alcohol swabs to sterilize the rods, I place them on paper towels or fresh/unused hand towels and I try to only touch the proximal ends of the rods, so that areas that I'm touching are not entering the urethra. For the record though, I don't much care for medical lube, it's not slippery enough and there's too much friction which creates the potential for damage. I figure that silicone lube being squeezed from a bottle is likely sterile enough. None of my clients have experienced any medical issues after sounding with me.

yeah not for me. ive seen vids of people using stuff attached to drills and going to town..looks painfull.

Drills!?! Oh, hell no!!! That's just asking for a torn urethra. I prefer slow and gentle.

I'm all for exploration and learning. To me, it is not so much the act but how it is introduced to me and the environment and circumstances. For example, don't come to me with sounding ideas on my first meeting (unless I requested it). That will just send me running! If I've gotten to know a particular courtesan ( I don't use term lightly, bc to me, courtesan means an expert in all aspects of sensuality and companionship), I would be open to learning about it if the environment is conducive and the circumstances are right.

 

Btw, that's a mighty big rod, Mr. Navarro.

Oh yeah, I would never pull out a set of sounds unless it was requested and also wouldnt propose to unless plenty of trust and comfort has been established and there's a request to explore some limits. I also love the term courtesan, and the ever-fun "sexpert" . In response to something you said earlier in another thread. I loath the term "Johns", but hope that I never offend with the term "regulars", I simply mean it to identify those that I see on a regular basis.

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Because of my experience in sounding, I get a fair number of requests from guys who want to try it, but I've also experienced alot of guys who are completely freaked out by the idea of it (which often evolves into an interest). I've found it to be one of you most polarizing of all fetishes/kinks. So, what is your reaction to it?

If you're in SF, I highly recommend Allen Silver, he is a beautiful man through and through. He's joined me in a couple of sessions and is wonderful. He's also a gifted massage therapist.

I have quite a few clients with whom we say "I love you". Our work should be drawing from the energy of love, compassion and acceptance, so making someone feel loved, for me, is the hope. Therefore it's only natural that one would want to reciprocate and acknowledge that love. I understand the desire to maintain an emotional distance and to keep the relationship of client/provider defined, but we need to be less afraid of love. Its unfortunate that we can be so quick to anger and rage toward someone we barely know, or really don't know at all, yet so cautious at expressing love for someone we do.

So maybe I'm understanding tonsil raping wrong? Granted, I also have very limited experience... So far I've only kissed with three escorts (and I've kissed maybe 5 or 6 people in total in my life). The first escort I didn't like the way he kissed. He did stick his tongue in my mouth but it didn't feel great.

The second one, we just seem to devour each other. Our tongues are completely down each other's mouths and I absolutely love every second of it (I'm getting hard just thinking about it). The third one I love to kiss like that too, although he has an interesting way of kissing, he almost laps at your mouth with his tongue.

 

I don't slobber, though. Hahaha, that's just messy. But I feel a bit... weird that I like kissing deep with tongue so much now.

For me kissing is one of the best and most intimate and sensual parts of sex and connection. It's rough for me when I have a client that doesn't like to kiss, and it is usually because they identify as straight and it's just too intimate from their perspective. In these cases though I love to get as close to their lips as possible and match breathes without actually touching lips. In regards to the "tonsil raping", I have to say, it's a turn off. I enjoy a decent amount of tounge when kissing, but when kissing becomes almost all tounge and no lips, I no longer enjoy it. Usually if it's my first appointment with a client I will give them a little of it, but will move to kissing their neck, ears, chest, or elsewhere because I just don't enjoy the excessive amount of tounge. The next time I see them I will ask them for a little more lip.

I understand that we all like different things, but it's important that we try and "read" our partner to understand what they enjoy and try and meet them half way. Most guys I've asked about this agree that kissing that's all tounge is not enjoyable for them.

While most of my sessions are more along the BFE lines, I certainly have the experience, knowledge and ability for some great BDSM play. I have access to an amazing playspace in SF. It's an extra $80/hr, and has everything imaginable as far as equipment, toys and gear.