jusmeinbr

@jusmeinbr...interestingly, I had my own encounter with him.   I'm not surprised since we clearly like similar profiles and I was certain he'd be on your radar too.
Provided cell # by PM, his first text to me was "hey" like I was a sniffies hookup - that left me a bit concerned that he didn't have the communicative insight to know how to differentiate from spam.
We did try to set up a time but the logistics just weren't going to work getting to my coastal wasteland.   That's not his fault, he tried, but as I backed off, the price seemed to jump all over the place.   I felt as though he'd not really priced an overnight before, but my sense was that he expected his hourly rate times x hours but that tended to soften within a few minutes.
In the end, I feared planning something would not go off smoothly and I cut bait.    Based on your experience, I'm glad I did.   
I kinda felt like I'd have been disappointed just based on communication style and logistics.
I can't really say anything bad except that it just felt "off" and that maybe I contributed to that as well.   Maybe all would have been perfect in a different place and time.
 
 

Are you saying that the RM profile is Billy Quinn or that he stole pics for the profile?
 
You’ve heard that some of us like twinks, right?

Hi everyone, can confirm @jusmeinbr; Ian’s been on an extended holiday and has stepped out of availability for the duration season at least.  He’s as handsome and bright as ever and is enjoying some quality personal time.  

Yes.  He’s just taking a break for a few weeks, which have included a vacation.  I think you’re going to see him back in early 2026 very much refreshed after an enjoyable holiday season that included a fun-filled vacation!!

🥰🥰🥰🥰

Gentleman, after several weeks of correspondence awaiting his return to the states, I have finally met @Braziliancutee.  We have just completed the first of three nights in New Orleans.  He promised me that Brazilian passion was intense and he proved that.  He’s well educated, smart, very sweet and kind.  He also has a worldly sophistication that I expect from my regulars.  
 
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RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in New Orleans, LA - Cuteebrazilian: Sweet guy from Brazil
 

Guys:
Just a quick note that RM appears to be having a systemwide problem with direct links to provider (and client) profiles.
I first noticed it and thought it bizarre that a provider I know still has an ad up with the same screen name showed up as “404..Page Not Found.”
I have now tried about 15 other providers and my own client profile, and they all do the same thing.
I hope they get it fixed soon, but I just wanted to post this before you may start to think your favorite provider may have left the arena as I first did until I discovered this is a systemwide problem.

Guys:
Just a quick note that RM appears to be having a systemwide problem with direct links to provider (and client) profiles.
I first noticed it and thought it bizarre that a provider I know still has an ad up with the same screen name showed up as “404..Page Not Found.”
I have now tried about 15 other providers and my own client profile, and they all do the same thing.
I hope they get it fixed soon, but I just wanted to post this before you may start to think your favorite provider may have left the arena as I first did until I discovered this is a systemwide problem.

it appears to only be affecting the rent.men side of the website......rentmen.eu is working, strangely.....

Guys:
Just a quick note that RM appears to be having a systemwide problem with direct links to provider (and client) profiles.
I first noticed it and thought it bizarre that a provider I know still has an ad up with the same screen name showed up as “404..Page Not Found.”
I have now tried about 15 other providers and my own client profile, and they all do the same thing.
I hope they get it fixed soon, but I just wanted to post this before you may start to think your favorite provider may have left the arena as I first did until I discovered this is a systemwide problem.

Guys:
Just a quick note that RM appears to be having a systemwide problem with direct links to provider (and client) profiles.
I first noticed it and thought it bizarre that a provider I know still has an ad up with the same screen name showed up as “404..Page Not Found.”
I have now tried about 15 other providers and my own client profile, and they all do the same thing.
I hope they get it fixed soon, but I just wanted to post this before you may start to think your favorite provider may have left the arena as I first did until I discovered this is a systemwide problem.

Guys:
Just a quick note that RM appears to be having a systemwide problem with direct links to provider (and client) profiles.
I first noticed it and thought it bizarre that a provider I know still has an ad up with the same screen name showed up as “404..Page Not Found.”
I have now tried about 15 other providers and my own client profile, and they all do the same thing.
I hope they get it fixed soon, but I just wanted to post this before you may start to think your favorite provider may have left the arena as I first did until I discovered this is a systemwide problem.

Guys:
Just a quick note that RM appears to be having a systemwide problem with direct links to provider (and client) profiles.
I first noticed it and thought it bizarre that a provider I know still has an ad up with the same screen name showed up as “404..Page Not Found.”
I have now tried about 15 other providers and my own client profile, and they all do the same thing.
I hope they get it fixed soon, but I just wanted to post this before you may start to think your favorite provider may have left the arena as I first did until I discovered this is a systemwide problem.

Just be honest with him and lay it out like you did in the last paragraph - time for a break, if you're in town - let you know, but other than that - you're needing something more.
As I'm generally a weekend scheduler, I know that each planned encounter costs a small fortune with planes, hotels, etc.   There are other guys you can fly in.
 
 

It's YOUR job to make it sexy, not for the clients to make it sexy for you.  Getting into the mind frame to make it sexy is what separates the men from the boys. 
 
This is your choice. One of the joys for me about sex work is that I get to set my schedule. This has to be balanced with saying No to clients who want to see me at 2am.  You can set out 'open hours' like any other service does - we cannot be available 24hrs a day 7 days a week. We all need to make the choice at times - would we prefer see the client, or would we prefer 'getting things done'?  
But if you want to make money, and you want to be busy, you must be flexible and have an understanding that YOUR schedule needs flexibility to ensure you can get as many bookings as possible.  
Welcome back to the forum - yes you are. But the way you have been writing in this new profile is a sign that you are doing better with these challenges.
It's true that there are a lot of guys out there that use Rentmen profiles to jerk off to and use us as 'interactive porn'. Some of the clients here on this site for eg, rate, reach out, comment about us, look up and critique our profiles when they have not hired for YEARS and have no intention in doing so. Lots of people will contact you with no intention to meet up and get off on just the thought of it. 
But there are also a lot of people who reach out with intention but also trepidation, and if your sales and marketing skills or bedside manner is not accommodating enough- you wont land the sale.  It's a tough balance to weigh up being open enough for these people and closed enough for the tire kickers who are jerking us around to not drain you. 

I must say that ATX and HOU punch above their weight with twinks.

I’m not one for leaving a review on R/M every time I meet with the same provider and have a great experience, but I think doing so here has more significance and perhaps even more impact.
I’m in Houston again and made the 5-hour bus ride one way just to meet with Ian again today, and I had another fantastic time.
I have to be honest in that I had totally lost all hope that I would ever find anyone who gives me the kind of happiness and joy that he does.  It’s just been too many years now with, at best, mediocre encounters with New Orleans providers.
This year has been the BEST YEAR EVER in my 21 years of hiring, and it’s all because of Ian.
I will be boarding my return bus in just over two hours, and I can’t wait to see Ian again when he’s in Houston again, which he said should be in about three weeks.
I’m very, very thankful for members like @NateATX and @ericwinters who gave such positive statements about him that I felt comfortable enough to travel to Austin (eight-hour bus ride each way), and meet him for that first time.  He is literally a dream come true for me!!!!

I’m not one for leaving a review on R/M every time I meet with the same provider and have a great experience, but I think doing so here has more significance and perhaps even more impact.
I’m in Houston again and made the 5-hour bus ride one way just to meet with Ian again today, and I had another fantastic time.
I have to be honest in that I had totally lost all hope that I would ever find anyone who gives me the kind of happiness and joy that he does.  It’s just been too many years now with, at best, mediocre encounters with New Orleans providers.
This year has been the BEST YEAR EVER in my 21 years of hiring, and it’s all because of Ian.
I will be boarding my return bus in just over two hours, and I can’t wait to see Ian again when he’s in Houston again, which he said should be in about three weeks.
I’m very, very thankful for members like @NateATX and @ericwinters who gave such positive statements about him that I felt comfortable enough to travel to Austin (eight-hour bus ride each way), and meet him for that first time.  He is literally a dream come true for me!!!!

I’m not one for leaving a review on R/M every time I meet with the same provider and have a great experience, but I think doing so here has more significance and perhaps even more impact.
I’m in Houston again and made the 5-hour bus ride one way just to meet with Ian again today, and I had another fantastic time.
I have to be honest in that I had totally lost all hope that I would ever find anyone who gives me the kind of happiness and joy that he does.  It’s just been too many years now with, at best, mediocre encounters with New Orleans providers.
This year has been the BEST YEAR EVER in my 21 years of hiring, and it’s all because of Ian.
I will be boarding my return bus in just over two hours, and I can’t wait to see Ian again when he’s in Houston again, which he said should be in about three weeks.
I’m very, very thankful for members like @NateATX and @ericwinters who gave such positive statements about him that I felt comfortable enough to travel to Austin (eight-hour bus ride each way), and meet him for that first time.  He is literally a dream come true for me!!!!

I’m not one for leaving a review on R/M every time I meet with the same provider and have a great experience, but I think doing so here has more significance and perhaps even more impact.
I’m in Houston again and made the 5-hour bus ride one way just to meet with Ian again today, and I had another fantastic time.
I have to be honest in that I had totally lost all hope that I would ever find anyone who gives me the kind of happiness and joy that he does.  It’s just been too many years now with, at best, mediocre encounters with New Orleans providers.
This year has been the BEST YEAR EVER in my 21 years of hiring, and it’s all because of Ian.
I will be boarding my return bus in just over two hours, and I can’t wait to see Ian again when he’s in Houston again, which he said should be in about three weeks.
I’m very, very thankful for members like @NateATX and @ericwinters who gave such positive statements about him that I felt comfortable enough to travel to Austin (eight-hour bus ride each way), and meet him for that first time.  He is literally a dream come true for me!!!!

I’m not one for leaving a review on R/M every time I meet with the same provider and have a great experience, but I think doing so here has more significance and perhaps even more impact.
I’m in Houston again and made the 5-hour bus ride one way just to meet with Ian again today, and I had another fantastic time.
I have to be honest in that I had totally lost all hope that I would ever find anyone who gives me the kind of happiness and joy that he does.  It’s just been too many years now with, at best, mediocre encounters with New Orleans providers.
This year has been the BEST YEAR EVER in my 21 years of hiring, and it’s all because of Ian.
I will be boarding my return bus in just over two hours, and I can’t wait to see Ian again when he’s in Houston again, which he said should be in about three weeks.
I’m very, very thankful for members like @NateATX and @ericwinters who gave such positive statements about him that I felt comfortable enough to travel to Austin (eight-hour bus ride each way), and meet him for that first time.  He is literally a dream come true for me!!!!

I have heard the same thing about South Florida!  When MZB was touring in the U.S. in early 2023 (he’s now retired), he came to New Orleans, and I met with him six times in seven days, and he told me that he got no clients whatsoever during his stay in Miami.  
 
New Orleans has a history of not being a great destination to find clients either (the listings barely expand even during Southern Decadence), but the appearance of @PhileasFogg on the scene kind of changed that 😀!
I personally think you’re going to do quite well in many U. S. cities because I think your profile is stellar, but there’s no doubt some cities seem to be places where the juice just isn’t worth the squeeze.  Hopefully forum members can help you avoid them so you don’t waste time or resources.

Thank you @MikeBiDude. All good — different opinions make the forum lively, and I’m perfectly fine with the discussion (and observing the rhetorical techniques that some use to deflect from weak arguments)
Just to re-center things: I’ve now spent two full weekends with this young man — one in Palm Springs and one in New Orleans — and my time with him has exceeded expectations each visit. We already had a third weekend planned for Palm Springs (in three months), even before this weekend’s awesome reunion   
He’s been on RM since MAY and (excluding my two) already has NINE 5-star reviews. For anyone assessing what actually matters, these firsthand experiences and consistent ratings speak for themselves.

Shared with his permission.   This morning in New Orleans!   

I have heard the same thing about South Florida!  When MZB was touring in the U.S. in early 2023 (he’s now retired), he came to New Orleans, and I met with him six times in seven days, and he told me that he got no clients whatsoever during his stay in Miami.  
 
New Orleans has a history of not being a great destination to find clients either (the listings barely expand even during Southern Decadence), but the appearance of @PhileasFogg on the scene kind of changed that 😀!
I personally think you’re going to do quite well in many U. S. cities because I think your profile is stellar, but there’s no doubt some cities seem to be places where the juice just isn’t worth the squeeze.  Hopefully forum members can help you avoid them so you don’t waste time or resources.