jusmeinbr

Here are my recent interactions with Aaron: ==> We connected directly and agreed upon the rate, ==> He confirmed he'd be in New Orleans, asked for my address, and he said he'd send his hotel details upon arrival (I also offered to host if he preferred), ==> He had his "available now" indicator active the whole time he was in New Orleans, but he never followed up at all or sent me the address, ==> This morning his profile showed him in Houston with no cancellation or explanation to me.

Yes. He’s just taking a break for a few weeks, which have included a vacation. I think you’re going to see him back in early 2026 very much refreshed after an enjoyable holiday season that included a fun-filled vacation!!

It actually appears to be back fully working now. I guess they may have been right on top of it or else started getting a bunch of complaints!

Guys: Just a quick note that RM appears to be having a systemwide problem with direct links to provider (and client) profiles. I first noticed it and thought it bizarre that a provider I know still has an ad up with the same screen name showed up as “404..Page Not Found.” I have now tried about 15 other providers and my own client profile, and they all do the same thing. I hope they get it fixed soon, but I just wanted to post this before you may start to think your favorite provider may have left the arena as I first did until I discovered this is a systemwide problem.

I’m not one for leaving a review on R/M every time I meet with the same provider and have a great experience, but I think doing so here has more significance and perhaps even more impact. I’m in Houston again and made the 5-hour bus ride one way just to meet with Ian again today, and I had another fantastic time. I have to be honest in that I had totally lost all hope that I would ever find anyone who gives me the kind of happiness and joy that he does. It’s just been too many years now with, at best, mediocre encounters with New Orleans providers. This year has been the BEST YEAR EVER in my 21 years of hiring, and it’s all because of Ian. I will be boarding my return bus in just over two hours, and I can’t wait to see Ian again when he’s in Houston again, which he said should be in about three weeks. I’m very, very thankful for members like @NateATX and @ericwinters who gave such positive statements about him that I felt comfortable enough to travel to Austin (eight-hour bus ride each way), and meet him for that first time. He is literally a dream come true for me!!!!

I have often wondered how he and his husband can afford such a jet set lifestyle. All anyone has to do is click on his instagram link and see them flying in incredible opulence. Perhaps we’ve uncovered how. I’m just glad I opted for the crawfish boil as referenced above where I got to “hang around” with quite a few guys whom I perceive as hotter than him rather than agree to his $250/hour “hang out” rate which he offered me after I flatly rejected his $450 core rate.

Though modestly intense, we (me and the provider) keep everything within reason, and we intermix the other two activities I love (worshipping feet and having my face sat upon) to where there’s never an extended period of just spank, spank, spank. Also, unlike the guy you reference, I have no interest in anal or oral sex as either giver or receiver and in fact have never even engaged in it my entire life because it holds no allure for me whatsoever. I know that makes me a unique client (and unique in general), but it’s been who I am from a very young child all the way through today.

I sure do! Many I’ve had for 30+ years. I also pack a couple of straps that don’t make quite as much noise.

Well, there are times during sessions I have at hotels where the provider and I mutually agree to turn on the TV for a few minutes, but that’s to help drown out the noise of paddles being applied to my bare ass with considerable vigor 😀!

I have heard the same thing about South Florida! When MZB was touring in the U.S. in early 2023 (he’s now retired), he came to New Orleans, and I met with him six times in seven days, and he told me that he got no clients whatsoever during his stay in Miami. New Orleans has a history of not being a great destination to find clients either (the listings barely expand even during Southern Decadence), but the appearance of @PhileasFogg on the scene kind of changed that 😀! I personally think you’re going to do quite well in many U. S. cities because I think your profile is stellar, but there’s no doubt some cities seem to be places where the juice just isn’t worth the squeeze. Hopefully forum members can help you avoid them so you don’t waste time or resources.

My sole activities that I enjoy are worshipping feet, being spanked, and having my face sat upon. I always just jerk off myself to “take care of things” as I refer to it in my own RM profile. When I first started hiring 21 years ago (and for about 10-12 years thereafter), I would be so aroused and excited that I would “take care of things” after only about 20 minutes, after which I was perfectly content to just call it a highly satisfying session and be on my way. I never met a provider who wasn’t very content for that to be the case, and one provider even said, “I love how all this turns you on so much and so fast, and it makes it so much easier for me.” Now, however (at age 62), “things” are much harder to “take care of,” so I always wait until after the provider leaves before even attempting. Being honest, I don’t want the embarrassment of not being able to go “over the top” in 3-4 minutes, nor do I want the provider to somehow feel he “missed the mark.” That’s why now the duration of a session is far more significant to me than it was 20 years ago. When “Mr. Timer” left that second time, I could not even come close to “taking care of things,” so I just stared at a photo of a retired provider from when he and I met 15-20 years ago, and I fantasized that it had been him I’d just met with rather than “Mr. Timer.”

And that was my only time in 21 years!

I don’t take it as an attack at all, and he wasn’t supposed to know. It also hasn’t upset me (at least not long term) because, on a scale of 1-10 on the quality of our sessions, he was, at best a “4.” That goes directly to my commentary about how “weak” the New Orleans market is (at least for what I’m looking for) and has been for at least the last 15 years. If things don’t go well with any given provider (and that has been the case on maybe 5% of the guys I’ve hired over the years), I tend to just avoid conflict or any potential thereof and just move on. When he made it so obvious that meeting with me was practically a burden or, at a minimum, a huge inconvenience, I could not get a good mindset for continuing. In addition to being “weak,” the New Orleans market is also very small and, for reasons that I prefer not to publicize here (or even discuss via PM), that also played a significant role in my decision to sever ties with him. As I sated in this post on Ian_Twink, I’ve found a perfect “10” on that 1-10 scale so, even though it means an eight-hour bus ride each way (and getting a hotel for a couple of nights), it’s something that I’m only too happy to do because he is my dream perfect provider for the unique desires I have for a fulfilling and enjoyable encounter.

I completely agree and, if he had stayed in the market, I would link him, but I think he was wise to just exit it after a rather short tenure (about six weeks).

The issue is deeper than that for me. I’ve hired for 21 years, and I’ve always been very respectful of any provider’s time. I take a quick glance at my watch as I know the session’s end is approaching, and it is always me who says, “Well, I see we only have a few minutes left, and I’ve had a fantastic time and look forward to seeing you again.” Of course, if the session is so mediocre that I know I won’t be rehiring, I just express appreciation for him meeting with me. In 21 years and having never experienced this act of a timer being set until four months ago, even having a timer set, for me personally, felt like an insult that I couldn’t be trusted to not infringe upon or be respectful of his time. That’s just my take on the whole incident.