Mitch37

I started using that after someone here recommended applying it to the head of your cock to increase sensitivity. Kinda embarrassing to find out that my dog absolutely LOVES it; when she hears the jar open her ears perk up and she runs over to me. I try to restrain her to just licking it off my hands. Some lines shouldn't be crossed.

I started bringing my own warm coconut oil to massages. Coconut oil is a natural antiviral, antibacterial, antimicrobial. But you have to get the solid coconut oil and warm it and not the newer liquid version (the liquid version is devoid of most antimicrobial properties)
http://www.shanti.com.au/body/coconut_oil.htm

There is no need to disclose or hint as to who the masseur may be. It's purely hearsay, as it is hard to pinpoint exactly where an infection may come from unless you've only had one partner, as some STDs can stay symptomless for a long time and may never show outward symptoms. It can destroy their business and/or reputation for no reason. STDs are unfortunately a fact of life and you can be a carrier with no symptoms. Unless you are paying them to be celibate aside from your session, there is no room to judge. And there is no shame in having one. We wouldn't go on the internet and warn people about someone who has a cold, and that can be much more debilitating than a symptomless STD. We're all adults here.
 
That being said, I would just say I tested positive for something and leave it at that. I had a masseur years ago text me to say he had an STD. I thought he was awesome for doing that and I was able to get tested myself. I also didn't avoid going to him in the future. You get tested and/or treated and go on.

I think that it's difficult to confront someone about getting an STD from him because unless you haven't had intimate contact with anyone else, you could have gotten it from another encounter. And even if you only had intimate contact with one person, if you are confronting someone you don't really know (a masseur versus a boyfriend or lover or husband) they don't really have any reason to believe that you got something from them versus maybe you transmitting something to them.
 
Therefore I think the best way to handle it is simply to contact the guy, say you tested positive for whatever STD it is, and recommend he see his doctor for screening/treatment if he hasn't already done so. That leaves the blame game out of it.