I encourage you to not compete with yourself. As time goes by, so do libido and endurance limitations for most people. Indulge yourself when you feel like it. It may be less frequent, but the joy will be the same. Now, as for the haters, just understand them for the ignorant asses they are. As you visit these fora, you will see that even the most beautiful men you can imagine suffer slings and arrows insulting their age and/or physical appearance.
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