Tattooing has a curious grip on some people. Some years ago I had conversation with a dream of a bartender with an extensive tattoo. He told me that he is ex-military and the tattoo is to remind him of his buddies he lost on the battlefield. I don't understand how anyone could ever forget such an experience or why anyone would want a constant reminder of it.
If the thieves have resale in mind, I wonder where/how they intend to inconspicuously negotiate. I suppose, if they are "professional," that is already established.
I can understand the OP's side of it. If I were in the biz and received a text that was all about sexual favors, my first thought would be the possibility of a vice sting.
I keep a supply of Vicks VapoRub. It's one of the "old reliables" that has survived the test of time. It really comes through for me in times of nasal or chest congestion.
The grace and courage that you are displaying leave me without adequate words of admiration and inspiration. Here is hoping that you will be updating us with some more positive news very soon.
My best wishes.