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Rudynate

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  1. That's a separate issue. I don't doubt that many or most of the providers advertising that they are straight aren't who they say they are for one reason or other. But there are notable exceptions e.g. pro bodybuilders who make their limitations crystal-clear from the very start. There is also one very well-known guy, I believe in Philadelphia, beautifully-built, a total stunner, who is married to a woman and who makes it very clear to his clients that he is straight. He has a very loyal following, and if I lived closer to Philadelphia, I would happily join it - He basically will do damn near anything with a client - almost no limitations. I don't offhand, remember his name. Of course, he may not be straight, but I take people at face value. In my book, a guy who says he is straight is straight. To me, he is one of those men I talked about who is able to manage his mindset very skillfully.
  2. True that. In high school, I got top grades with minimal effort, except for math. It was my blind spot. I failed geometry and had to repeat it in summer school. I failed trig and had to repeat it in summer school. In college, I knew I was going to have to take a lot of math and do well in it, so I took a no-credit one-semester remedial math class. Smartest thing I ever did. I realized that there were some basic things from way back that I had never understood and that had held me back. Once those basic misunderstandings were corrected - math became much easier for me. Nonetheless - I always needed extra help - In college math courses, whenever I felt myself getting into the weeds, I would do some work with a tutor until I was straightened out.
  3. I don't see why a straight guy, with sufficient motivation, couldn't perform. This is all theory mind you, because I have never hired a guy who identified as straight. I do hire bi, and I have, many times, had unpaid sex with married guys on the DL. In general, escorts can do what they do well, I think, because they are skilled at managing their mindset. They often say, "Your being turned on to me turns me on." This is a conducive mindset. I don't see why a straight guy wouldn't be capable of adopting a similar mindset. He would have to have overcome the reflexive revulsion over male-on-male sex that straight guys are programmed with. But having done that, why coudn't he get himself into a mental space that allowed him to perform well with a partner of the same sex? Guys in penal institutions do it all the time.
  4. There are coyotes in the Presidio and most of the city parks in San Francisco. Lots of raccoons too.
  5. I seem to remember that Blow Buddies was at another location before they were at 6th & Harrision and I think they had a suspended walkway. I liked either bunk.
  6. That's how old people look generally - not just on Facetime.
  7. I used to answer my office phone most of the time. I just hired a service to manage my calls for me. I'm already distractable enough without the added burden of junk phone calls.
  8. My husband and I want to host a sex party of 5 or 6 guys at a nice hotel. is there any reason why that wouldn't work?
  9. Things might have changed during Trump's term, but importing brides from Asia was pretty common among straight guys. I don't know the mechanics, but they would jet off to the Phillipines or another place in SE Asia and come back married. One of my older brothers did it. His first wife was white. Their marriage ended when his wife caught him in an affair with an Asian woman in another city. I don't remember how long he was single after that, but then he made a couple trips to the Phillipines and came back with a wife. They've been happily married for probably about ten years.
  10. I never know what to think about that stuff about "preferences." When people start citing "preference," it almost always has to do with ethnicity/skin tone. My preferences are pretty diverse and don't categorically exclude any ethnicity/skin tone. I do exclude based on intellect, personality, bodyweight, fitness level and age. And my exclusion criteria are so fluid and full of arbitrary exceptions that I would be hard-pressed to explain them rationally. I think my exclusion criteria could be summed up as "If he's hot, he's hot."
  11. The question seems motivated, at least a little bit, by spite.
  12. Isn't this a rather spiteful question?
  13. Youre in a better position to perceive racisim in action than I am, so I'm not going to disagree.
  14. I think I could make a lot of money managing my own investments if I studied the topic a little bit. I don't feel like doing that so I have a professional managing my investments for me. He does a good job. We definitely will not be eating cat food when I retire. Maybe when I retire, I will take over management of my portfolio. Smartest thing I ever did was going to all cash about two weeks before the market crash in 2008. I had been trading actively earlier in the year and was doing well. As the market became more volatile, it became harder to make any money - the market just moved too fast. I read an article somewhere that said even professional fund managers taking a break because even they couldn't handle that kind of volatility. I asked myself, "if professional fund managers cant handle this market, what am I doing in it?" I sold everything. The market crashed a couple weeks later.
  15. Great guy Gemini Bear - completely forgot about him.
  16. I'm not saying it isn't racism, but it appears that the guy thinks it's OK to waste escorts' time in general. I'm very sympathetic with escorts about time wasters because I encounter them all the time in my profession too.
  17. i don't remember if we received instruction in how to write. We got lots of instruction in legal analysis, and that certainly shaped the way we wrote. In practice, more experienced attorneys always emphasized the importance of clarity - that a piece of writing had to be clearly understandable not only to other lawyers but to a judge and jury as well.
  18. The lightning speed at which some of these words and expressions proliferate shows that, before they became trivialized by the media, they were perfectly serviceable fixtures of the language. They wouldn't have captured the public imagination if they didn't have some initial appeal. If you notice a catchy turn of phrase in a post on your favorite social media site, it is probably only a matter of weeks before it has proliferated like a virus. The one I have come to hate, which I actually liked when I first heard it, is the "current moment" or the "present moment."
  19. I think there are a number of physicians on here. Most of them aren't as visible as Unicorn.
  20. I don't have an air fryer, but I have an adapter that turns an instant pot into an air fryer. Not very impressed. It does a decent job with frozen french fries, but nothing else I have tried has turned out well. I guess if I want the results that everyone raves about, I need to pony up for a real air fryer.
  21. Gordon Grant, Dirk Jager, Caedon Chase, Ashley Rider - all oldies. I don't pay that much attention to porn that much, but I imagine there are some more current stars as worthy as these guys.
  22. It's become a permanent feature of the vernacular - there's no getting rid of it.
  23. My husband's an atheist. He won't compromise - will not go in a church. But he will watch midnight mass at St. Peter's in Rome on TV, with a non-stop commentary on how silly it all is and how beat the Pope looks, etc.
  24. There's a line beyond which a 'roided physique is grotesque, as you say. But until they reach that line . . . oh my. To me, Dino was getting close to the line but hadn't crossed it yet.
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