curiousnomore

Gilbert you are totally alone and amazingly isolated in this preference. No one on this site likes younger muscular men. We loathe such men. We unclog our noses at them. In fact, the entire escort industry is predicated on men of a certain means, hiring men who are not young, muscular, handsome, talented, with engaging personality and a quick wit. How else can one explain Steven Kesslar?

I'm in my early 60's. For a variety of reasons I've never had the courage to come out of the closet. I've been seeing escorts one or two times a year, since I discovered them in the mid 1990's, and to tell you the truth I've never been interested in developing a relationship with a guy, partly because there are no guys I'm attracted to in my area, and because of the issues involved in having a relationship as a closeted gay man.
 
I'm only attracted to well built, younger men with the boy next door look, and so I don't sound completely shallow he needs to have a friendly, engaging personality. That's the type of escort I look for. I keep thinking that if I were ever to decide to try to find someone to be in a relationship with I'd be out of luck, because there's probably a very little chance that an older gentleman like me could come across the type of guy I'm attracted to, and even if I would find such a man the chances that he'd like an older guy like me are pretty slim. Seems like I should be attracted to men closer to my age, but I'm not. I like the muscular, younger men, so I stick with escorts. This may be a stupid question, but at my age can the type of person you're sexually attracted to change? All of this really isn't much of a problem for me. I deal with it okay. I was just wondering if anyone else can relate to my sexual preference issues?

I think Matthew gets overlooked because of Joey, but he's hot, too.

http://malecelebnews.com/wp-content/images/2014/06/Matthew-Lawrence-in-Melissa-and-Joey-Episode-3.03-140611-02.jpg
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http://images6.fanpop.com/image/photos/32100000/Matthew-matthew-lawrence-32140871-551-415.jpg
 
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http://img.spokeo.com/public/900-600/matthew_lawrence_2006_02_19.jpg
 
http://ethnicelebs.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/08/Matthew-Lawrence.jpg
 
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Other than what I've have seen in some of his video interviews (i.e. he's bit of a nerd/tech geek and the Incredible Hulk is his fav comic character), I have never seen anything about escorting. And if he's still under contract with Corbin, he wouldn't be allowed to... publicly at least.
 
Also, he claims to be straight. That may be another reason he does not or will not escort.
 
I will say if he did escort, I'd hire him with the quickness. I mean he's this cute big dicked muscled guy who always seems to be into sex with guys, who's a bit of a goofball/geek, and doesn't seem to take himself to seriously. All that is just catnip to me. :-)

And put me down as YES!
 
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I'd find him hot either way, but I like him better with the tattoos. They give him a "bad boy" look that's a perfect contrast to his handsome babyface.
 
Just my 2¢
 
Rob

Off topic, when looking for a collective noun for a group of escorts, 'an anthology of pros' was the winning suggestion.

:)Damn I'm glad it's not just me. I've been married almost half my life, so a relaxed, close feel is natural for me. Finding a companion that prefers a "Date Night With My Guy" vibe, without mentioning it, was beyond my wildest expectations.

:)Damn I'm glad it's not just me. I've been married almost half my life, so a relaxed, close feel is natural for me. Finding a companion that prefers a "Date Night With My Guy" vibe, without mentioning it, was beyond my wildest expectations.

:)Damn I'm glad it's not just me. I've been married almost half my life, so a relaxed, close feel is natural for me. Finding a companion that prefers a "Date Night With My Guy" vibe, without mentioning it, was beyond my wildest expectations.

I've never had that "falling in love in that moment" experience with any random hookups, but have had it several times with garotos in Brazil when on vacation, and a few times with American pros like Andrew Justice and Jason Markus. I even had it with a gay4pay stripper here in NYC, which was weird and unexpected, but still quite nice.
 
I almost had such an experience with Ryan Thick in Los Angeles earlier this year, but I had a mental block that prevented me from completely falling into the experience. I hope to see him again, and go over that cliff next time! That's probably my favorite part about this wonderful hobby of ours.
 
Strangely, I had one intense connection with an escort here in the NYC area. It wasn't the "falling in love in that moment" experience, and we didn't even do everything I'd hoped to do. But it was so intense that I actually never hired him again, although I've cordially greeted him when running into him at other events. I really felt like I could actually fall for him, as in he's my kind of man personality-wise. It kind of scared me that I would not be able to handle my potential feelings, and that's why I never hired him again, and I got the sense in our subsequent encounters that he was wondering why we never hooked up again. Has anyone else ever had such an experience, and has it affected your hiring like that?

I am really impressed by all the positive comments on this thread and maybe a little surprised that so many of you do seem to understand the concept of falling in short-term love for the moment but being able to realize that after the session concludes, you can move on and get back to your own lives without being hung up on someone. An interactive mutually beneficial relationship with no strings.
 
Personally, I have found there are also a handful of escorts out there I've hired who continue our friendships off the clock, where they and I keep in touch but neither expects anything other than being good friends, with whatever that might entail for each individual!
 
TruHart1

What would be so wrong with carrying the love past the appointment? Does that say something bad about you? No… it doesn't. The mature part about it is that there is an understanding. I have love for clients… but I am an adult and I know they're married or I'm fully aware of the parameters of how we know each other… I live my life…I'm a grown up; but it doesn't mean the love isn't real.

I agree with your thinking Brad, and with Jack G.'s summation too. Still, when I (personally) have a true BFE, it always seems to me that the escort is so invested and interactive that I actually fall in love for the time we spend together. Don't get me wrong, I don't carry the love past the end of our time together, but during our time together I feel a meshing of ourselves physically and mentally. Good acting? Maybe but so good I don't feel the line between authenticity and artifice, during our time together! Yes, it absolutely is a truly special escort skill but I do think all the greats I've connected with on the BFE level have that skill, some stronger than others!
 
JMHO
 
TruHart1

Yeah, Killian's twitter.

Total cutie. I love his scene with Duncan Black.

He just looks so happy! I love him! Thanks!

So dreamy!

http://33.media.tumblr.com/fec7a89379c185301b2c40c684ba6b3c/tumblr_nfn2twg5QY1qjzwvbo1_250.gif
 

Yes, very hot scene yet I'd rather Duncan would cut his hair again... Everything looks good on him, but shorter hair looks better on my opinion and it's very long in that scene.
 
http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-WqhTh56CRQk/VQXo2-HCYXI/AAAAAAAAASE/wwCyqcswYuI/s400/01.jpg
 
http://1-ps.googleusercontent.com/hk/1yRmySoR0tnFHNhxLl2I5AR_Vm/www.igpdb.com/files/styles/thumbnail/public/galleries/men.com/will-braun-duncan-black/250x360xWill,P20Braun,P20,P26amp,P3B,P20Duncan,P20Black-men.com-03-12-2015_2.jpg,qitok=ThsQETNI.pagespeed.ic.GF0bNOrCXdXlyNQgb6Vx.jpg
 
http://31.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_nl2k88MIFV1tx9srl_og.jpg
 
Btw here's a link about a thread honoring Duncan Black I started last year.
 
Enjoy!
 
http://www.companyofmen.org/threads/duncan-black-my-new-crush.98740/#post-909236

Total cutie. I love his scene with Duncan Black.