Roddy

Hot is hot.... Lately in life as technology changed the world, I've started to appreciate older guys more likely to have their shit together when it comes to making plans, showing up on time, no ADHD, engaging, no drama, appreciative, etc 

If your RM profile states that you are on prep and doxy, some guys may just assume you default to raw. You may want to review your profile again and clarify.  

My short list:
Poor hygiene.   Everything must be clean including breath.  Filthy house or hotel room.   Don't have leftover take-out smelling up the place.  Using his cell phone during the session. Trying to rush the session when you've paid for 1+ hour.  Not providing the agreed upon services.  Punctuality.  Being more than 10-15 minutes late. 

Everyone can have a bad day. I know…I’ve had my share. How do you distinguish between a “fatal flaw”, a “bad day” and “immature and needs a little coaching”?

He couldn’t get his little brother up.  He tried.  I could tell he tried for dear life.  And you can bet your ass I tried with all my might.  It nearly drove me to the brink of an existential crisis.  He felt so bad afterwards and explained that he was exhausted from an all-day hiking trip earlier.  Whatever the reason, he unequivocally plummeted to the rock bottom of my preference list and skyrocketed to the very top of my do-not-repeat list.

Isn't it your responsibility to eat garlic to ensure the second item doesn't occur? 😀

That you wouldn't re-hire?
I had a long term massage therapist that I saw abuse his cat.
After I saw that, I will no longer return.

Yeah, that surprises me, too. Well, maybe it’s time for a road trip to Wisconsin! 

Was it in the Senate? My recollection was that it was in the House and it involved Representatives on both sides of the aisle, and included both underaged women and men. This was in the late 70’s/early 80’s. Gerry Studds, a Representative from Massachusetts, came out as gay on the House floor; I remember seeing it on the news … back when “the news” was on once a day, lol. Was there a similar scandal in the Senate? (Forgive my ignorance.) And as for if it’s still going on … well, over 20 years ago a very nice, very attractive man of my acquaintance, whom I was “sponsoring”, accepted a position as a Congressional page (he was in college at the time) and he reported to me that certain Congressmen were still very much engaging in that sort of activity with their male AND female pages. 

I don't really have the money to hire anymore. I have occasionally thought about doing it if I ever saved enough money. But as I live in Texas, I think I'll not even really think about doing it for real-fantasizing about hiring is of course a different kettle of fish.
Thank gosh my sex drive is so low these days, but if I had the sex drive I had even in my 40's along with the money to hire, I could see my weekends being filled up with out of state travel. 

The normal pay4play industry got caught up in the recent push to crack-down on sex trafficking. It can get all wrapped up into the same thing as far as law enforcement is concerned.

"Obviously a woman cannot do whatever she wants with her body. What an odd claim to make in 2026!"
Not in the Islamic world, but in the Western World, yes! 

As George Carlin said (paraphrasing): Why is it illegal to sell something that's legal to give away?

Hire for "erotic massage" first. 
Don't discuss sex online.
After the massage and you've paid for the massage and tipped (well)...THEN ask about escorting. A police officer isn't gonna massage you, and jerk you off.