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Naughty can be exciting.  

When I visited India in 2019, I went to a deluxe hotel in New Delhi. My first night there, I used Scruff and met a guy around my age (50s.) He asked if I would be willing to have a 3-way including his friend.  I agreed.  I knew nothing about this new guy, but I was willing to take a chance.  About 15 minutes before we were supposed to meet, I received a message from my contact saying that traffic was too slow and the he was heading back home.  So now I was set to meet a total stranger.  It actually worked out well.  He was friendly and attractive looking, and though it was awkward at first, we had a good time. Who would have guessed? Sometimes being flexible and taking a small risk pays off.

On 4/6/2024 at 2:35 AM, uclablueyes said:

I recently went on a cruise through the Mediterranean with my parents. It was not something I was dying to do but i thought it would be one of the last chances to travel with both my parents so I went. One early morning I decided to go the gym and, by the time I finished working out, I went to the lockers and there was my old trainer getting ready to work out himself. I gave him a hug and started talking. He is no longer a trainer as he had moved up north to become a farmer and pursue his porn career. Of course when he said that my cock immediately perked up. I had the hots for this guy since the days we were training back in LA. He explained that he’s a full on porn star and he makes quite a good living doing it with his now twink husband. He started telling me stories and my dick got real hard. He noticed that immediately but he didn’t make a comment. I got nervous so I said I had to go take a shower and meet some friends. He left the locker room and I started to take my clothes off to go into the shower. As I was going into the shower there comes my trainer butt naked with his towel and we both jump in the same shower. Closed the door snd started making out. There were other patrons there but I don’t believe they noticed two guys going on the same stall. Man, it was as I imagined it working out back when. I went down and started eating his sweet ass. God, I had been wanting to do that for years and now he was in front of me. He raised me and we continued making out. He turned me around and put soap all over me slipping his hand up and down my crack. That turned me so much. He started kissing my neck as I feel his cock caressing my hole. He goes in and starts to fuck me. The sound of the other patrons showering next to us in other stalls adds a level of thrill. I cannot hold it anymore and come like crazy. I turn around and continue to kiss him as he jerks off and comes all over me. He then winks, take his towel and says “I work out every morning at 7am if you care to join for a free workout session.” And boy oh boy, for as long as the cruise lasted, I couldn’t wait to wake up and go to the gym. I was there every morning at 7 for my workout with the trainer in the gym and my “workout” in the showers afterwards. I hope one day I could go up north to see him in his farm. It was a truly memorable experience and made my cruise adventure one I won’t forget. 

exciting

On 4/3/2024 at 4:45 PM, JEC said:

My husband and I were on a vacation in Paris about.....15 years ago?  We rented an apartment in the Marais 🏳️‍🌈 and liked to hang out across the street at a cafe at Open cafe (gay bar by night, street cafe by day).  One afternoon at the Open Cafe we met a hot young American (early 20s, dirty blond, tall, beefy, overtly confident) sitting at the next table, having coffee and drinks.  As the conversation wore on he told us that he was traveling through Europe, staying in hostels and living out of a backpack.  He went on to tell us that he was in Madrid the weekend before, and went to a "foam party".  These are (were) dance parties at nightclubs where they literally fill the dancefloor up with foam (bubbles).  The foam allowed for varying degrees of nudity, and groping to happen under the foam on the dancefloor...he told us his penis was still chafed from the foam party (poor boy!).  My ears (and my penis) perked up!  As the drinks and conversation flowed, we realized this hot young American was SLEEPING his way through Europe, and good for him!  Eventually he left , and we had dinner plans.....across town.

We went to a lovely Dinner which of course included cocktails 🍹 and wine 🍷 ......after dinner, we started walking (stumbling) around the neighborhood looking for the nearest taxi 🚕 stand.   We were walking down a dark, random, narrow side street when suddenly a door 🚪 opened....and we heard a noisy club inside that broke through the silence and out of the door spilled (stumbled) ...... foam boy!   The 3 of us could not believe the random re-encounter.  After marveling (slurring) at the coincidence for a few minutes, we invited him back to our apartment.  We made our way to a taxi stand...and back to the Marais. 

As only 3 drunk men can do, we had sloppy sex....he was hot, but the sex was not particularly (too bad).  There was no penetration ⭕ ...could not focus enough for that.  He had a nice chubby 6" member 🍆.   Had we not all been drinking for hours, it probably would have been much hotter 🔥.  But, the story....the lead up, and the randomness of the re-encounter makes for a hot story.  I wished that I were as adventurous and confident as this man in my 20's....the idea of backpacking (sleeping) your way through Europe was intriguing!

 

I enjoyed this story.  glad you guys got to play.  I think I know the coffee shop/bar.

As a fair-skinned male in his 60s. I found I was popular in India and in Vietnam.  I'm told I'd also be popular in the Phillipines.  Any other places where I'd be particularly desired?

On 3/12/2024 at 4:44 PM, top_guy_atl said:

I'm reading these stories and I suddenly remember I have my own story. A few years ago, I went with straight friends to spend a few days at an upscale Marriott resort in Orlando.  We did this a number of times.  My best friend (straight female) and I would always share a room to save on expenses.  Her sister and husband would have an adjoining room.  On this particular trip, I started chatting with a guy on Grindr and after a day or two, I was beginning to think I would never get an opportunity to meet.  I couldn't get away without it being obvious.  On the last day of our trip, they all decide to go downstairs and over-eat at the buffet.  I wasn't hungry, so I stayed in our room.  He was suddenly available to meet, so I gave him my room number and invited him over for a quickie while my friends ate dinner downstairs.  I was scared to death they would return while he was in the middle of sucking me off.  It would have been incredibly embarrassing if I was caught and I'm sure they would have been pissed.  Don't get me wrong, they all know I'm gay and are OK with the concept.  But they've never been faced with seeing me be actively gay.  I managed to get him out of the room with a few minutes to spare.  I still smile when I think about that close call.  He was a hottie and inappropriately young for me (not illegal though).

This sounds like a great memory.  I'd love to hear more details about what you both look like and the tension and excitement you felt arranging and experiencing the hook up. Did he remove his clothes? Did you guys kiss? Who was the aggressor? I'm making up details in my head but I'd rather hear about the actual event.

4 hours ago, CuriousByNature said:

Depends how kinky he is.

hahaha that is not my kink.

2 hours ago, Welshman said:

If you are thinking of coming to the United Kingdom in September, my personal opinion would be avoid it. Our general election has to be held before January 28th 2025 and yet everything seems to indicate an election date of mid October, which means thanks to the rules the campaign will have started at the end of July, and given how there will be a change of government there is no party of this country where you will not get accosted by a politican, therefore this year give the UK a miss in September, but you would be more than welcome next September

Thanks.  I would not have thought about election chaos.

On 3/26/2024 at 2:35 AM, JourneysEnd said:

If you want proximity to Paris then Istanbul and Bucharest are probably a bit far away.

Europe isn't really that big compared to other continents but can still take a chunk of time if you're traveling by train. More interesting views than planes though. I use RomeToRio to work out travel plans to start with.

I'm not sure about rain, to be honest. I'm English and I lived in Ireland for over a decade so rain is just something I accept as a fact of life and generally ignore. The climate section of Wikipedia pages is generally a good guide. The only European city I can remember being kept indoors by rain recently is Bucharest and that was only one day so I went to a spa.

I was in Ireland a couple times and loved it.  I felt like I was adopted Irish and accepted as an insider.  I taught storytelling at a University as a week long workshop and had a great experience.  I didn't teach storytelling to the Irish.  Basically, I taught them when to stop.

10 hours ago, JourneysEnd said:

I tend to waver between discovering somewhere new and going back to somewhere I know I'll love.

Me too.  I no longer try and do everything when I travel but I try to enjoy what I'm doing and tell myself I can return.  It relieves some internal stress. Both new places and return visits are generally great. But FOMO is real.

23 hours ago, JourneysEnd said:

If you want proximity to Paris then Istanbul and Bucharest are probably a bit far away.

Europe isn't really that big compared to other continents but can still take a chunk of time if you're traveling by train. More interesting views than planes though. I use RomeToRio to work out travel plans to start with.

I'm not sure about rain, to be honest. I'm English and I lived in Ireland for over a decade so rain is just something I accept as a fact of life and generally ignore. The climate section of Wikipedia pages is generally a good guide. The only European city I can remember being kept indoors by rain recently is Bucharest and that was only one day so I went to a spa.

Yeah. As long as I'm prepared, weather is not a problem. I'm vacillating between adventure and proximity to Paris.  I love having options. I would like to go somewhere I haven't been. That is a big factor in the decision making process.

On 3/22/2024 at 11:39 AM, Thomas_Belgium said:

 

Maybe you could try to search for a flight to Edinburgh and take trains from there to London & Paris.

This sounds logical.  And I love trains.

18 hours ago, JourneysEnd said:

I'm in England but love to travel around Europe, particularly Eastern Europe.

Bucharest is a fantastic city- interesting architecture in a number of styles, the biggest spa in Europe (Therme), great day trips (Carpathian Mountains, Bran Castle, Peles Castle), friendly people, much cheaper than the bigger/Western European cities. I've not been since the war in Ukraine so I don't know how much that has affected things. Timisoara, another city in Romania, is just beautiful.

Glasgow is a fun city, a bit rough around the edges, and for my money more interesting than Edinburgh. Not that Edinburgh is a bad city, just a bit more sedate. If you're looking at Scotland though, you need to see the scenery- the Isles, Glencoe etc. I love Loch Leven and there's a lovely little hotel by the waterside and an incredible seafood cafe very close.

Vienna is a fantastic choice. Loads to see and do. It's very close to Bratislava, a city I adore. Easy journey by train and even nicer is the catamaran trip along the Danube.

There's lots of interesting cities in Eastern Europe to consider,: Ljubljana, Riga, Vilnius, Kaunas, before you get to the heavy hitters of Prague and Budapest.

Reykjavik is incredible but quite pricey. Blue Lagoon is closed just now but the Sky Lagoon is just as good.

Athens if you've not been before.

Istanbul is amazing.

My favourite is Malta. It has it all- architecture, food, scenery, beaches, friendly people and English is one of their official languages if that's a concern. There's a friendly gay scene in Valetta although it's small as you'd expect.

Enjoy your trip.

Malta sounds great.  It's a place I'd love to see.

9 hours ago, Charlie said:

You hit a lot of the places I love in southeastern Europe, but you left out Dubrovnik, always a tourist favorite, and Salzburg and Graz, which are worthwhile if one spends much time in Austria.

I've never been to any of these places. I only changed planes in Dubrovnik on a memorably bad flight. I recently visited Vienna for the first time and enjoyed it.  It's the only birthplace of a grandparent that I have visited.

9 hours ago, JourneysEnd said:

Dubrovnik was like a Game of Thrones theme park the only time I visited. Kotor is a much more interesting walled city. And if you can sail into it or out of it, that's incredible.

Salzburg is ok. I tend to think of it as a work city cos I've only ever been for conferences.

Graz is nice, as is Bern, Belgrade, Tallinn, Helsinki, Krakow, Munich etc but I don't think they're as interesting for a flying visit as the others I listed.

Thanks for the feedback

18 hours ago, JourneysEnd said:

I'm in England but love to travel around Europe, particularly Eastern Europe.

Bucharest is a fantastic city- interesting architecture in a number of styles, the biggest spa in Europe (Therme), great day trips (Carpathian Mountains, Bran Castle, Peles Castle), friendly people, much cheaper than the bigger/Western European cities. I've not been since the war in Ukraine so I don't know how much that has affected things. Timisoara, another city in Romania, is just beautiful.

Glasgow is a fun city, a bit rough around the edges, and for my money more interesting than Edinburgh. Not that Edinburgh is a bad city, just a bit more sedate. If you're looking at Scotland though, you need to see the scenery- the Isles, Glencoe etc. I love Loch Leven and there's a lovely little hotel by the waterside and an incredible seafood cafe very close.

Vienna is a fantastic choice. Loads to see and do. It's very close to Bratislava, a city I adore. Easy journey by train and even nicer is the catamaran trip along the Danube.

There's lots of interesting cities in Eastern Europe to consider,: Ljubljana, Riga, Vilnius, Kaunas, before you get to the heavy hitters of Prague and Budapest.

Reykjavik is incredible but quite pricey. Blue Lagoon is closed just now but the Sky Lagoon is just as good.

Athens if you've not been before.

Istanbul is amazing.

My favourite is Malta. It has it all- architecture, food, scenery, beaches, friendly people and English is one of their official languages if that's a concern. There's a friendly gay scene in Valetta although it's small as you'd expect.

Enjoy your trip.

This is great information.  Thanks. Lots for me to consider. I'm ending in Paris so I want to do something that makes sense geographically.  Are all these places good in September?  The continent is large and I would like to go somewhere that is not going to be too rainy.

4 hours ago, Thomas_Belgium said:

Some months ago I saw a TikTok from a Dutch guy saying you need an identity card (or passport) from the country where the Ryanair flight is leaving or landing, I could find no info on the Ryanair site. Anyone know if this is true & if so, where can I find this info please?

Wow.  So many catches to a cheap flight.

On 3/21/2024 at 3:51 PM, Wolfer said:

Correct. The base rate is relatively cheap but only when you fly with a tiny bag with no extras and non-changeable flight. Adding baggage will quickly raise the rate (be sure to always add the baggage during the booking of your flight because at the airport it's double or triple that rate). And if you want a ticket that's refundable or can be changed it can easily double the rate. And they try to have you pay for a seat and be sure to check in online!! Checking in at the airport is crazy expensive (with Ryanair at least it is, they charge about 80 euro to print your boarding pass). 

This is great information.  Thanks.

12 hours ago, Pensant said:

I’ll be doing a swing through Northern and Central Europe in a month. Amsterdam-Hamburg-Berlin-Leipzig-Dresden-Prague. First time in the middle 4. I hear Leipzig is becoming quite the arts center, and the former DDR is pretty affordable. I’ll report my findings.

Thank you

Right now, my top choices are Glasgow and London, Bucharest, or Greece. I'm finding lots of really cheap flights within Europe, but I'm told to look at baggage checking fees.  That's where they make the money.

17 hours ago, Vegas_Millennial said:

If your dates are flexible for October, check out the Spartacus cruise.  1000 passenger all gay charter by a German group, 7 days departs from Athens October 9, 2024.  Website is in both German and English.  Visits a few Greece islands, and most likely Alexandria.  Super economical rates, especially for solo travelers.

This trip is not flexible. But thanks.  Sounds fun.

20 hours ago, WstVlgChris said:

Keep us posted what you decide. You never know when a fellow member here is going to be traveling at the same time. (Me, I'm considering Greece in September.  Athens + some island(s) but trying to decide which ones.)

I loved Mykonos but that was decades ago.  I'm sure I would still love it.

Bucharest is a strong possibility for me.  Thanks.

On 3/10/2024 at 4:13 PM, Boygeorge said:

Bucarest is gorgeous with cheap hot guys

Thanks.  I never thought of it.  Now it's in strong contention.

These suggestions are helpful. I appreciate you all.