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Haven’t met him for massage but saw him at Equinox. Looks like his photos

32 minutes ago, steve said:

Looking for advice on getting back a deposit from a provider who has since ghosted me, after saying he would reimburse me.

Here is the situation I am in.

I contacted an escort online through RM and also through his X page.  He reaches out to me and we begin to converse and after a lengthy chat, he wanted to lock in an appointment and asked for a deposit.  He also told me he would refund me, minus $50 if I decided to cancel.  He continued to chat me up and then asked me for $500.  

I responded immediately that I was not going to do that as I have had experience with providers in the past that all of a sudden had a need for money.  He explained that he was sorry that others in the business make everyone look bad, but he was just trying to help out a family member...needless to say I said no.

He then asked me if I still wanted to meet him and I said no, he told me he would refund me within a couple of days.

It's now 3 weeks and the only resply from him was he needed more time to get me the the money he was going to pay back.  All other messaages have been ignored.

Do I have any recourse through Paypal, which is how I paid him in the first place?  Or, will they just say there is nothing they can do?

And yes, I know don't give a deposit to an escort that I've not met before...lesson learned.

Nowhere in your earlier paragraphs do you say you actually sent a deposit?  
 

And no, you generally have no recourse.

I saw them in LA last week and did the 4 hands. I had contacted Latinrobert and he upsold me to 4 hands after discounting the 4 hands to 400. I really didn’t want to bother with 4 hands but figured it wouldn’t happen otherwise.

There really wasn’t any massage, they went very quickly to shoving sausage in my face and fingers elsewhere. I can’t say it was terrible, but it didn’t feel natural or fun or pleasurable for a lot of what they did. If you like to suck and have fingers jabbed at your anus but never in by large muscle men, then they’re probably your jam. I would pass otherwise, especially if you actually want a massage.

52 minutes ago, starman05 said:

I can be okay with therapeutic only. 

Are we sure he's outcall only? 

I see 'at Nick's studio' on his rate sheet. 

 

He’s prepping for the future after he has a change in space and can set up a proper massage area. He’s outcall only right now.

I saw him a while ago. I don’t remember much because I crossed him off of my repeat list. Nude and HE but neither massage nor extras memorable or I’d likely remember more.  Sorry, can’t be more helpful. His incalls were in Marina del Rey I think so keep that in mind possibly. 

I kind of had a similar experience to Masseurconneisseur.  He’s definitely very chatty but I tend to chat too with anyone I find interesting.  I don’t think that he was as attractive as his photos.  He wasn’t so conceited when we chatted but he was really really focused on talking about his crush with me.  It was odd and funny.  Happy ending didn’t happen because he’s not very good with an uncut penis…. He’s also was a clock watcher so when nothing was happening he was kind of like, you need to hurry up and finish because time is almost up and that pretty much ended things. 

I would not recommend unless you’re looking for a somewhat comedic average massage.  And if you want the comedy you need to ask him about his crush (whom I’ve met and he has a totally different version of how they first met)

13 hours ago, NJmusclelover said:

Messaged me back wanted 350 said 250 on the site was a mistake changed it on the site after but did say he would honor it and said he was not 6 foot 6 but rather 6 foot 1 

It was actually the guy pictured?

The answers to questions on rentmasseur are misspelled and sloppy. Most native speakers wouldn’t have such mistakes.

I think he’s a ymmv type, he wasn’t playful or friendly with me and rather perfunctory happy ending.  I would never recommend him based on my experience 

As expected, 0 massage skills

I wasn’t into the sensual part, he has some restrictions and I couldn’t communicate well with him. He didn’t argue much when I told him I’d pay him less since he flipped me over at 15 and he was done at 30 and I was annoyed and called it early.  
 

He’s possibly better as an escort but he’s easily the worst experience I’ve had in a LONG time.  

I saw him like 7 years ago and he mostly does therapeutic but in person offered me more for next time.  I didn’t particularly think his sensual nude version was worth the money after doing it. He gives a good massage but is pricey for therapeutic and exorbitant for sensual (for what is provided)

He reached out later and wanted me to book again but I had other stuff going on so never saw him again.  The photo for the ad is the same one he had back then fwiw. 

He has different price points for shirtless, undies, naked.  He didn’t volunteer them and I just asked for naked and it’s 250 for 60min.

He’s on my list but the way he kind of priced each thing is a turnoff for me.  Hope that when I do see him, it will be a pleasant surprise

Saw him in LA. Looks like pics, nude, MT and HE.  I wouldn’t repeat for price but I also don’t regret it.

I just saw him.  Good news is his photos are very accurate and what’s not pictured doesn’t disappoint.   He had a little spiel right before the massage that confused me where he told me it’s just a massage and if I want more then he won’t do it.  Apparently someone pissed him off the night before and was too forward.  I found it confusing because I wasn’t sure what he considered massage and what would step over the line but I didn’t want to ask more while I was naked and on the bed.

Turned out his definition of massage is pretty loose and it was a fun “massage.”  I’m not likely to see him for sore muscles but the sensual stuff was fun.  If you like hairy muscle guys with nice equipment then give him a try.

300 for non sensual and 400 for erotic massage for 1 hr.  I’m going to pass.

He sent a bunch of face pics when I inquired about a massage a while back. I never booked though so. Maybe just ask?

I’ve seen him at the gym a couple times now and he looks exactly like his photos.  I guessed he was an escort from his interaction from someone at the gym and their approach to him. Max was very professional and kind of quickly disengaged though.

Pretty sure this is AI generated

7 hours ago, TennisPro35 said:

The pics look a bit AI.  Currently not on my list but thank you ChadLA for relaying your experience with this initial contact you’ve had.  

I think this is AI

Looked like his pics but I wasn’t happy.  Saw him once and he went straight to the happy ending after 10 min. Left right after. 

I saw him last night as an incall. Looks like pics, MT and HE.  He only massaged my back but did so for like 50 min. I wouldn’t repeat.

I didn’t think he was a good masseur. He likes to use his elbows but he’s not skillful enough to do it well enough to not cause significant discomfort sometimes.  HE was mechanical and there was little to no sensuality before that.  YMMV, he blamed ADHD meds for not getting hard but it may have been a lack of attraction. 

I had a pretty meh experience with him. Was disinterested with subpar massage skills. Was nude and allowed mutual touch but never got hard.  YMMV

Text him for rates and he’ll give you a pretty detailed breakdown. If you’re looking for the erotic option then you’ll have to provide a full body photo and dick pics lol. I like the candor on his part but I think that I’ll pass given his requirements.

He’s been discussed before and apparently purely therapeutic. Indicated as much when I texted him to ask some questions.