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He also started the Gay Mens Health Crisis - GMHC in NYC. They had a brutal falling out (he wanted to go militant) and he ended up leaving the organization to start ACT UP.

This.

 

For better or worse, the element of risk is a big part of the appeal for me.

I was waiting for that kind of response. Good for you!

He sent me some privates pics of it. It seems huge. Someone told me he’s very good with it and will help you along. He will also help you comfortably push your boundaries.

Haircut and manicure.

Thank goodness I’m not a provider so I don’t have to worry about a naked photo shoot. No one wants to see me naked. Trust me! And those of you that have, remember your non disclosure agreements!

Kissing is a must for me. I can’t imagine being close to someone romantically and not just automatically kiss him. I don’t have that much self control. In fact, for me kissing is the primary act! And there is no way I’m wearing a mask. It’s hard enough to breathe through these, let alone when you’re hot and heavy!

Sent via check through Wescom credit Union. It won’t be the last. As someone else said, I have no idea what took me so long.

No, but only one pic concerns me since he’s been on Rm for a month.

Since I was reading this thread I pulled up his rm profile to see who we were talking about. He responded to me and unlocked his Private pics. He is absolutely gorgeous! I’m a sucker for blonds. The link he gave me shows him in West Palm Beach.

I have some non-provider experience but I do have a very close (almost best friend) experience. I lent him a goodly amount of money, which was to be repaid in two months. It has been well over two years and it’s still not fully paid. Granted, at the two year mark, he did pay a fair amount. But, it is not fully paid. I don’t have any “service” to offer to get it paid off.

I won’t offer to loan anyone money regardless of the situation or person.

Your boy is also on RM. Perhaps it the give you additional info.

https://rent.men/wantmorefun

A general "in a few weeks" reads to most providers, even those whose are perfectly fine making plans in advance, as "Ill let you know, ill get back to you, etc".

99% of the time it never happens.

Try being a little bit more specific, even if still unsure.

Mention around the (beginning/middle/end) of the month rather than "in a few weeks"

Add by asking if they will be around in the venue city you are looking in during that time, and that you will touch base closer to set a specific day and time once your schedule becomes clearer.

It may seem like subtle differences and nuances, but it really makes a difference in an escort taking a client seriously and responding to in flux future plans and inquires.

Actually, my delay is medical. I’m waiting for a release. I have shared that a few times.

I greatly appreciate your response and explanation. It helps to hear from a true provider.

I love your website! Ever find yourself in Palm Springs??? ?

Im ready to start hiring soon, and am currently scoping out escorts.

I’ll be ready to go in a couple of weeks. I, too, am doing my research now. Unfortunately, many providers get turned off and stop conversation the moment you mention “a few weeks”.

While most on-duty police are required to wear both a uniform and a uniquely numbered badge identifying themselves as police and police must generally identify themselves before executing a search warrant or arresting someone, the myth that undercover police must admit to being police if asked has been around since at least the mid-1970s (I remember watching TV cop shows like Hill Street Blues where this was how it was portrayed).

The truth is that undercover police are given a great deal of latitude when investigating suspected criminals. They may lie, break controlled substance laws, ask to buy substances by name, offer drugs for sale (etc. etc.) and are not required to identify themselves during the course of their undercover investigations. This means they absolutely do not have to answer truthfully if asked.

 

There are many providers (and clients) who believe this myth. I find it easiest to just answer the question "no" if I am asked. Besides, if you try to explain this, they just wind up thinking you are a cop anyways.

 

I never discuss that I am not law enforcement if not asked first..

Wow! I’ve been living that myth my entire life! Thanks for the education.

Does anyone ever mention to a provider that you are not in law enforcement, either verbally or in text? Is it even necessary when it hasn’t been asked?

I think I just turned off a provider by texting it. I only did it because the replies immediately stopped with a previous message.

I’ve chatted with him in Palm Springs for several minutes last week. He was very nice, actually rather delightful.

I finally got to do his two years ago, but not both at the same time! They were supposedly identical. And they seemed to be except for one thing. One had a bigger dick! So much fun with each of them and a very different experience. Both nice and hot and fun.

Fifty points for you! Now, if you want 100 points, then get them together. (You could confirm your dick size suspicions.) That’s what I dream about. Literally!

Does anyone ever mention to a provider that you are not in law enforcement, either verbally or in text? Is it even necessary when it hasn’t been asked?

Does anyone have information on Kyle_Pyledriver? He is living in Palm Springs. (I did pick his name!) He’s new to RM or at least, this name/location is new. We’ve briefly chatted and he is as sweet as can be and says all the right things. But, doesn’t every salesman?!

https://rent.men/Kyle_Pyledriver

At this point, ANY song will make me horny!!!

... Now (of course it’s always changing) it’s believed that the virus doesn’t spread as readily outdoors.

Maybe we should just have sex outside? ?

I had this performed at my mother’s funeral.

It’s Today! - Mame, J. Herman (I’m a show queen. Big Time!)

Another change, although the deli has been open the whole time to slice meat and cheese, the side dishes like potato salad and cole slaw had been pre-packaged the last two months. It was not today and the deli was fully service. The butcher counter is still closed with more packaged meats in the coolers. Perhaps a sign of things beginning the slow return to normalcy.

My upscale market’s meat counter has always been open. But then, they have no prewrapped meats so they pretty much have to be open. Same with their deli and salads. The only change I’ve noticed is they closed their salad bar.

When I was decorating my condo, the decorator hired the handyman to install the window treatments and lights. I did not complain when he asked me to spot him while he was installing the light fixture in the living room. As he reached overhead, his waistline dipped enough to confirm he was commando - - and I did nothing.

Same with the guy who delivered a new mattress 2 years ago. Tall handsome muscled Argentinian but I was too shy to make any move.

My problem entirely. I’m too shy to make any move. Most of the time I’m even too dense to catch their hints... if there were any.

This topic did, however, renew a recurring fantasy. The porn star, Dylan James is an actual electrician in Bakersfield, CA. He used to escort in LA. We’ve chatted about getting together but I’m never in Bakersfield. And I don’t know him well enough to bring him here. Okay, who am I kidding, I’M SHY!

 

For the guys that always pay full list price for anything they "buy", congrats.. here is a cookie as you appear to really want the acknowledgement.

 

Thanks for the cookie, but I really don’t believe I asked for it. I have been in retail my entire life and, unless you are at a swap meet or a garage sale, a listed price is the price. Period. It’s just how I was raised. Now that’s class!