I went on a gay rafting week down the Colorado River 20+ years ago. One night we had an evening of Truth or Dare around the campfire. When my turn came around I chose Truth. My question was “What is the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done.” I was at a loss since I’m the most vanilla person in bed you’ve ever met. My close friend whose idea it was to go on the trip, whispered “You buy”. I didn’t see it as a fetish, but announced, “I pay for sex.” The entire group bought it as a fetish and were quite impressed. So, maybe we all have a fetish already?!