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Agree it goes both ways. I reached out to a masseur last month, one I hadn’t met yet, asking for an appointment three days later (his ad says he books up so to schedule as far an advance as possible). I just proposed the day and asked what times he had available. He sent back a somewhat abrupt text saying he was was not available that day. Fine. I texted back asking about the following day, or the day after that, and saying I was flexible on time on both days. He responded that he might have availability and would have to check. I asked him to do so and let me know what times worked for him... and never heard back from him again. Obviously this is someone who I would never try and hire again. But is does illustrate the point @TracerMain raises.

Have seen him more times than I can count at his place in NYC. Can only reiterate what @Harryinny and @Jockbottom have said: that is not my experience with him at all.

A few guys who advertise on the sites are in LIC or Astoria, among other Queens locations. The map feature can be helpful if they have shared their location information.

To @FrankR’s point: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/kaijohnson-nyc-rentmen.163668/

https://rent.men/Gymnastjockboy In the deep recesses of my memory bank I remembered a thread on this guy under a different name and working with another guy. Pretty sure it is the same guy. Here is the thread: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/411-jockbrothers.154926/post-1843156

https://rent.men/KaiJohnson Is new to this but has gotten decent feedback so far. I have chatted with him and he seems very sweet. Looking forward to meeting him. On this guy, https://rent.men/Gymnastjockboy there have been some prior threads with some mixed feedback.

And just want to second what @Bluefin said. When you interact with someone else in an intimate setting it is easy to get drawn into the feelings that will invariably come with that type of a connection. It has happened to all of us I am sure at some point.

And do you know if the masseur has a boyfriend or husband? A lot of guys are in relationships and that could be why he is declining your invitations to go out “off the clock.” That being said, it seems like this is totally a one-way street. You have been very generous with him but he is keeping it all business. You have to decide if your emotional health will suffer if you continue seeing him given your strong feelings. If so you need to move on. Trust me, there are masseurs out there who would appreciate having such a committed and generous client as you have been with this masseur.

Nice pun given that the current pandemic started in 2020.

I agree that some of the pictures appear to cover different time periods (or at least different hair styles ?). I reached out to one of the Rentmen reviewers who said he is intelligent, polite and has a great body.

Agree. I can’t imagine not paying and would not wait for the masseur to ask. Seems kind of classless to me and doesn’t foster a good relationship IMO. Similarly I think it is classless for a masseur to upsell or try to negotiate for additional payment once the session has started. I have had one instance where a masseur (one of my regulars) refused payment. He had hurt his arm earlier that day working out and felt he could not deliver a quality massage. That didn’t prevent him from doing the “extras” however so that’s what we did. ? He wouldn’t accept payment for that.

Agree. I can’t imagine not paying and would not wait for the masseur to ask. Seems kind of classless to me and doesn’t foster a good relationship IMO. Similarly I think it is classless for a masseur to upsell or try to negotiate for additional payment once the session has started. I have had one instance where a masseur (one of my regulars) refused payment. He had hurt his arm earlier that day working out and felt he could not deliver a quality massage. That didn’t prevent him from doing the “extras” however so that’s what we did. ? He wouldn’t accept payment for that.

I didn’t ask for a lot of info. Just if he can host, his general location, and his rate. I had a longer chat with him on RM messenger and he seems like a very sweet guy. Definitely going to connect with him soon.

I reached out to him just to get some basic info (location, can he host, etc). Responded promptly with the information but mentioned he is booked for the next couple of weeks.

Rainier is still advertising as a masseur and happens to be in NYC at the moment. https://rentmasseur.com/LAs_Finest i have seen him a few times in NYC but not in the last year. l opted to up it a notch last time I saw him and it was totally worth it.

I find it so odd when a masseur’s public photos include ones of him shirtless in his underwear and his “private” photo is of his massage table.?

I have seen this guy and it is a strong massage and overall nice experience. Not sure he would qualify as “really muscular” for you but he is pretty built. https://rentmasseur.com/Jorge_M

Thanks! Don’t know why I couldn’t find it!

Doesn’t seem like his Masseurfinder ad is active at the moment.

Jogging my memory bank, I came close to meeting him about two years ago when he was invited (i.e., hired) by a friend to join a three-way. He canceled at the last minute so never met him.

There is at least one thread on him but it is a couple of years old. https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/joeyck-in-nyc.116003/ The guys who did see him reported a good experience but again that was a while ago it seems.

I would like to know too!! Texted him twice to find out more info but he doesn’t respond.?

Maybe I will do just that!?

Hey gentlemen. Just checking to see if anyone has any recent experience with this guy: https://rentmasseur.com/ArturoNYC Found a thread from a couple of years ago but not much information. Feel free to PM me.

Agree! It makes it very uncomfortable. One time it happened to me and I told the masseur that I felt his boyfriend’s irritation when I passed him on the stairs. The masseur wasn't concerned it seems, saying thst his boyfriend knew he had to work. But after that he made sure our paths didn’t cross again.