WestGuy

He is still advertising but had a name change: https://rent.men/Jay_Bonnan I have chatted with him. Seems like a nice guy. Checks all the boxes for me. May try and meet him in a couple of weeks.

I belonged to the NYSC on Wall Street for several years and can totally relate to @dutchal’s post! The downstairs locker room and steam/sauna areas always had activity. The Broad Street location that replaced it is not only much smaller but has no steam room or sauna (consistent with what seemed to be a growing trend at NYSC of eliminating one or both). The City Hall location continued to have both a sauna and steam room and there were opportunities for play there too (pre-pandemic), especially during “off” hours.

I never went to NYAC but a friend used to teach judo there (long after the nudity rules were changed). I knew that going naked was required for the swimming pool but had no idea it applied to the gym too! How about the wrestling and fencing classes? That could have been interesting to watch!!

Seems like he is based in P’town and no longer in NYC.

Reviews on RM are mixed and he hasn’t been reviewed for over a year. His ad offers erotic massage and his private pics seem to support that, so providing a strictly therapeutic session with no sensuality seems somewhat dishonest.

Yup. Know exactly who you mean. Saw him a couple of times. This was a few years ago. He disappeared rather suddenly as I remember.

No personal experience but this masseur is very well-reviewed and one review posted today was for a couples massage: https://rentmasseur.com/LuisNYC

Do you have a link you can post? Otherwise those not on the Scruff app won’t know who you are talking about.

Or a glossary of terms!

Or guys who claim 10+ years of experience and list their age as 26.

Check out StrongStrokes. Lots of great feedback here in the forum. https://rentmasseur.com/StrongStrokes Another great choice is Jose. Again, lots of good feedback in the forum. https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/28987/ I have seen both numerous times (more than I can count haha) and have always been satisfied. I am sure they can deliver what you are looking for.

I would almost give him a pass if he checks his phone while warming up the massage oil, but once he starts the massage the phone should be off limits. You didn’t identify that as an issue so maybe that’s not worth mentioning. Consistently shorting you on time is different and I would definitely raise that with him. But is it really the case that in a four year relationship he has never once gone the full hour? Or just that he does it frequently enough that it’s annoying? That should be a relatively easy issue to address and correct.

No experience but noticed his profile says he has been on RM since November 2019 and no reviews. Quite pricey for a massage!!

Yes. It was quite jarring to see how they were made to appear in the last season. But we digress....

Just a suggestion: you might get more responses if you started a separate thread on Victor, or posted in the thread on NYC spas.

Overall his ad is a turn off (read his “interview” responses).

I am pretty fortunate in that I have not gotten bored with my regular even though our sessions are for the most part the same every time. If I wanted to spice it up I would throw out some ideas or ask him to come up with something. But I think both of us are kind of satisfied with our “routine.”

As frustrating as it was, everything that occurred was a good indicator that the quality of the experience would have likely have been bad, had you gone ahead with the massage. Good move to avoid It!

Same. I see a guy in NYC that quickly progressed from massage to his bed. Now when I see him we skip the massage.

i did this once a couple of years ago. I had seen provider #1 a few times. He arranged for the second guy, who he knew and had worked with before. He actually lowered his rate for the session since he figured he would be sharing the “work,” if you can call it that, with the other guy, and enjoying himself In the process.

Looks hot but pricey!!

Yes! And much more efficient in terms of getting the information you are looking for!

So far I don’t think any forum members have stated that they have actually met him.

I think (hope?) @Nycaznguy was saying that he met the qualifications and would perform the massage himself!?

I have been on a number of them (Caribbean, Mediterranean, Mexico). Always went with my partner so can’t comment on how it would be with an escort! Some good experiences and some mixed but on balance enjoyed them. My understanding though is that there are not going to be any cruises before Summer 2021 and these will be in Europe.