Just speaking from my own experience with this forum, I have found that guys are always willing to share information about their experiences. Some provide more details than others but I always get enough info to decide whether to see a particular masseur. I try to be helpful too when I can, especially in situations where I have had a less than positive experience with a masseur and want to make sure that others are aware of the potential for them to have a similar experience before booking. But as some of the forum members have pointed out, there is (and there should be) a level of discretion in talking about what other activities a masseur might be willing to engage in with a client in a “public” way. It really is not fair to the masseur because what he may do with one client may vary widely with what he will do with a different client. For escorts it is different since they are advertising to provide a different experience. And to also reiterate what others here have said, there are other factors that impact the experience, such as the chemistry between the masseur and the client, the longevity of the relationship, how each person is feeling on a given day, etc. I think if you research masseur and reach out to forum members through a PM it will help you narrow your search and get you what you need to decide.