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Well...agree to disagree on this one?
I have been one of the "recovering" group for decades. My many drug/alcohol addiction have ravaged my life in many ways, ie: multiple overdoses, diverting controlled substances, lying to health providers, (I was good at this), lying to family and friends, going to prison for 2 1/2 years, and a marriage ending of over 40 years. And yet, I came away with a former wife and 5 children who still love me, a job that I love, and I believe my patients love me. I found great friends and someone to love the forum.
Sooo, where I'm I going with this little personal epilogue?
I believe that it's our power, and our power alone,
to make the decision to become and abstain from our addictions. In the throes of using, that power starts to reduce. We may have to be aided for a few days, but once the fog
starts to lift, tbat power returns to me. Regarding support mtgs. I am an atheist. Always new it from when I could question it. I also at intervals, one for about 2 1/2 yrs, I attended a support group. It was really easy on my non-belief side. I didn't use the word God
and didn't say the Lord's prayer. So why did I go? There were a group of 6 or so that are great people that I simply liked. Good, kind, bright, and not bible thumpers! I will use a quote from one of the members. He was a staunch AA supporter and had been clean for over 40 years. His comment one day... "I don't care how anyone gets clean. If they want to get off the booze, and we can help them, we should." That's what I think support groups should be about!!!
How anyone decides to take on their addictions, will be a matter of choices. AND, constantly weighing your own definition of wants and needs.
My personal saga could fill volumes. I won't, but to say this. A therapist that I believe to be one of the best said, " I truly believe if you hadn't found drugs, you would have killed yourself." I hadn't seen the toddler I care for about a week. When I was getting him dressed after his bath, we were laughing a lot over goofy things. He stopped for a few seconds, leaned over and just rested his head on my chest for several seconds, and then gave me a mess of kisses on my cheek. I'm still a bit overwhelmed. As Julie Andrews said, (only using guy), "How lucky can a guy get?"
All may good thoughts to those that want to leave there addictions in the past, bravo to those who found their answers!
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http://68.media.tumblr.com/7bbc1219b7887ea34019c8ceada6813b/tumblr_obgscvjt6r1vy8sy1o1_1280.jpg
Perfection!
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These guys could be at a NYC hangout!
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- marylander1940, hotboi and whipped guy
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I'm celebrating three years being with the same escort. He was my first escort as well as being my first male/male experience of any kind. Add to that, I started hiring late in life.
It's funny when you mention being "clean." I was so anxious I didn't have to worry about that. I spent a lot of time sitting on the porcelain throne day's before.
I started out hiring for extended weekends. I have never regretted it. You mentioned you like and respect the gentleman. Have you spent time with him? Someone gave me advice which I took.
1) Take a chance and put yourself in his hands and follow his lead.
2) I wouldn't think it would be 12 hrs of unending raucous sex?. I would think you would have time for the other things you would like.
3) Do think about talking with him and going over your concerns. I did and it helped.
4) As far as sleeping arrangements. I book a room with two beds. I tend to snore at intervals. So he ends up being more tolerant than me. He also likes to sleep much later than me. So, I usually go and get coffee and people watch.
5) In any encounter, it breaks down to being tolerant and somewhat intuitive for the other person.
6) And, don't forget to keep you sense of humor!!!
You certainly can PM if you'd like. Can share a few things and some laughs! WG2
- LivingnLA, TruHart1, + Eric Hassan and 5 others
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#40...a coy smile, great legs, and a pair of shorts I can unleash who knows what? Yummy!!!
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Great pics...I navigate to #14. Thanks!
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You haven't lost it all! There was this other fellow wondering around the periphery of the activity of these individuals...did not get his name? Anyhooo...I think you have soo many encounters and activities planned, now that you are going through a second puberty, or perhaps never left the first, they tend to blend together!!! SUMMER 2017! WG2Well all the heat down here has been frying my brain, but I now do vaguely recall a hot guy who definitely likes to have his nipples played with being flogged by an even hotter guy now that you mention it. Did it occur on the upper level of certain club in NYC... and was in not during the... I hate to mention word again ... the heat of the summmer... help me out here!- TruHart1 and whipped guy
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Can't wait to hear all about this one, not to mention the two hot guys as well. Plus, for all you Wisconsin guys the summer probably can't come fast enough!!
Well! I do believe you may have some knowledge of the circumstances, or does your memory fail you? Don't even look at weather forecasts anymore!
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Some like their nippers being sucked while being flogged. Word of caution: The sucker of nips needs to be careful not to get hit in the face by the ends of the whip coming around the stud being flogged. Only one experience being the sucker. And, it was outstanding. The two individuals I was with were knowledgeable and soo hot. Can'the wait for the summer.If that's what the sub wants then that's what the sub should get as long as it is done within the sub's individual limits. Some subs like to wear nipple clamps when being flogged. Others like to be blindfolded. Some prefer to be restrained. Others feel that it is their duty to take what is dished out without restraints. The only other limits should be safety and sanity. -
To get the week going...
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I could so be the Giver!
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WELCOME BACK, WG2
Thanks so much. On my bucket list for 2017 is to get to the west coast and see a former client and his family. Along with this is to meet with you and our friend. I tend to be more organized than our friend, so the brunt of the responsibilities falls upon me! I just want to pass onto our members. There are so many situations that befall as is in our lifetime. If we can simply grab on to the few people that can help us thru a moment of crisis. we are fortunate. However, in our moment of need or desperation what a wonderful media that we can reach out for people that concern their concern and love for each other.
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For @wisconsinguy regarding fear...
Experiencing the good type of fear means that you are in essence looking forward to doing something, are actually thinking about it in a positive way, are not overly concerned with any potential downsides, and as such have control over your initial fears.
It ultimately means that you are just as excited as you are afraid and most likely more excited about taking part in the activity than trying to avoid it. That will be your motivation to move forward. Good fear is totally normal and healthy. Believe me when I say that you will be so proud of yourself when you do it and will be looking forward to repeat performances.
Of course it involves trust as well... but as you imply you will be among familiar folk... so in that regard there will be absolutely nothing to cause worry or concern.
You could take me into anywhere, and talk me into anything, as long as there is a bowl of Cheetos at the end of the fishing line...as well as a friend.WG2
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Well I'm planning some fun time for 2017 as well... while I have retired from electrical stimulation (you can rest easy in that regard WG2) when it cums to "nippers" my mission in life is to spread the joys of nip play... and to toughen up those who have doubts regarding their stamina for such activities. It's gonna be a fun year... so buckle up, fasten your seat belt, and get ready for the ride!
OK, now you've got me scared...in a good way! I do know that I'm ready for basic introduction, AGAIN. Such fun ahead, it's a good thing I have such trust in you!!! WG2
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i want to chow down on that too.
I've been away for a few months. Just catching up on a number of posts. I think I have noticed an increase in posts regarding the use of electrical stim? I still remain extremely nipper sensitive, and when I take a look at some of these I almost recoil with an "ouch." I guess I have to consider myself a giver vs a receiver. Fun times ahead for 2017!!!
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Absolutely! I always find myself adjusting to the kissing technique of the man I'm with. I'm certain that's why some kissers really turn me on immediately while others get me warmed up more slowly. I feel like adjusting my technique to theirs ends up making our sensuous connection so much more intimate! I must admit though, when a man walks through my door, grabs me, and just goes to town with fully committed kisses immediately, my dick gets rock hard!!! :)
The best escorts (you know who you are! ) always do that!
TruHart1 [/quote I do believe I know an individual who can do both. Also, I find giving pleasure to be the most sensuous acts. I do like the thought of a man walking through, grabbing , teasing me. It's a fantasy that I don't have to live without.
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I guess I did have a threesome of sorts. I think that was to be considered for possible things to cum. It involved something about Cheetos??? You would have to know the source I guess. WG2That could only happen on a Thursday. Remember, these are Thursday Threesomes. As far as the woods on a warm summer day (or night) with a warm summer shower - WOOF!!! -
Another Thursday Threesome...
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I have a few fantasies, a threesome, and an encounter outside in the woods with a warm summers shower going on. Maybe it could happen at the same time! WG2Another Thursday Threesome...http://66.media.tumblr.com/0940c34ba571fb4ec6d3b75fff453fa0/tumblr_o9vyn0YFi61t7a5ygo1_540.png
I have a few fantasies. Some of which are a threesome, and an encounter in the woods during a warm summer. Maybe together! Yum. WG2Another Thursday Thre1esome...http://66.media.tumblr.com/0940c34ba571fb4ec6d3b75fff453fa0/tumblr_o9vyn0YFi61t7a5ygo1_540.png
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It's a general block of any escort.
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Any idea when I search rentmen, that pictures are blocked? I double checked cookies, and I of course they are not blocked.
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One more, and the description of the scene is priceless!
"We whipped Slave Andrew on his chest as he stood tied up until the lashes wrapped around his sexy young body. The 21 year old slaveboy was getting hot red welts on his chest, even as the whip started licking the edges of his nipples cruelly. That really made him scream, and we watched as he stood there, the sweat forming on his face, as he hissed in the air and waited for the insane torture to stop."
http://www.slaveboys.info/cl3_7161456.jpg
There was a link to a YouTube video, but guess what!!! The you tube account was terminated... Go figure!
But, what if there is a threesome? With a friend in the "rear" ha, ha? The flogger would have to "tweak" his method, ha, ha again. WG2
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Come on now WG. We all know the guy suspended is you! WG2When I first found the pic that was my exact same reaction.Now the question of the day is which of the three guys would you want to be?
I would not mind being the dom or the guy on the bottom. However, at this stage while being suspended might be fun to fantasize about I doubt that my bones would survive the ride! Though if push came to shove... Who knows???!!!
Hey if @Phil_musc is willing to give it a shot, and so am I... what say you @bigvalboy ?!?!?
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