Summerson

Whenever I'm asked, I'm always happy to share that Nate is one of my top companions of all time. He's intelligent, charming, sexy, and fun. He always makes me feel like he genuinely wants to be there and I find spending time with him to be the perfect blend of relaxation and excitement. We all have varying tastes and I'm grateful that Nate matches mine so well, because gentlemen with all of his strengths are hard to find, IMHO.

My father made wines from dandelions, elderflowers, elderberries, and pawpaws, all of which grew wild where I grew up. It was one of the many income streams he juggled and he was pretty well-known for it locally. Sadly, he died when I was three and those wines don't last long enough in the bottle for me to have tasted them when I got older. The adults around me always raved about how good they'd been, so I really wish I could have tried them. They always said his dandelion wine was so clear you could read a newspaper through the bottle. I've often thought about trying to make some, but haven't yet.

You've never shown us the battle scars you've gotten from fighting off the drop bears, but we know you must have some. You are truly the bravest of us all!

I love doing this and over the years I've either arranged and/or been invited to pretty much every scenario you can imagine and enjoyed them all. I've got a major voyeuristic streak, so this kind of situation really curls my toes. I live down near Long Beach these days, but get up to LA as often as I can for both work and play. I'm always intrigued by possibility.

I did that once with a brand new bottle of Worcestershire sauce. The brand I usually buy has a pouring spout in the neck of the bottle. This brand did not, but I didn't notice that. It happened so fast but also seemed to take forever, like watching a slow motion special effect as the stream just gushed out of the bottle and into the pot.

I know Nathan pretty well through the kink community, because we share many of the same main kinks. I haven't yet had the chance to hire him one-on-one, but I've been a participant in group scenes that he's arranged at events. Hiring him is the first thing on my agenda as soon as I can come up with a reason to visit Chicago. To the best of my knowledge he's an honest guy who respects limits and boundaries, delivers what he promises, and truly loves his work. My inbox is always open if someone has specific questions they don't want to ask in the thread.

I know the original question was specifically about "hole," but I can't resist the chance to say that "slutty" has become my favorite adjective to describe the guys with whom I've had the most fun. For me, slutty isn't so much about any one physical feature, but about personality and overall physicality. Does he dress a little slutty (whatever that means to him)? Does he move a little slutty, dance kind of slutty? Does he have a slutty gaze, a slutty smile? Does he think of himself as slutty, knowing there's fun to be had in so many different ways and figuring out how he can help you both find it? Does he relax and enjoy himself like the very best slutty men do? Those guys are always my absolute top-tier connections and I realize I so often choose guys who use that word to describe themselves. (So, back to the original question. Yes, I guess that preference of mine does translate to more relaxed and looser most of the time, but I'm also happy to take time and help with that as much as I can.)

Sure, that makes total sense. I see him regularly, so for me that's not an issue because I know what he looks like, but for anyone who doesn't, it's a difficult situation. You'll get no argument from me about that.

Yes, I've talked about this before on this site. YourHunk's photos are quite old. I won't make any attempt to deny that fact, because it's simply true. You know it. I know it. He knows it. I know he knows it. He knows I know it. I've talked with him about it. He's still such a handsome guy, in my humble opinion. He's absolutely the same guy as in the photos and he's aged really well. I find him as attractive as ever. But these photos are what he wants to use, for whatever reason, and I can't convince him to do otherwise. I'll admit it's a little frustrating because the topic usually comes up when I recommend him. I don't think it's the best decision he could make, but in the end, I guess it's up to him.

Like many others, I find it absolutely impossible to choose just one. Instead, I'll offer a list of three current names and one emeritus, along with the observation that my taste is rather eclectic. Having said that, Sherman Maus, NateSF, and YourHunk (aka Nate from Long Beach) are the three current providers who top my list, along with Alex Hawk (RM listing sadly frozen for a long time now, but if he ever decides to see clients again, I'm going to do everything I can to be first in that line). I've got a long list of names I'd gladly hire again, but none of them excite me as much as these. I've also got a list of names I hope to meet in the future, but it's hard when I know how perfect time with a tried-and-true favorite provider can be. As I was thinking about this question today, I found myself wondering if what I enjoy with these guys is some version of a "boyfriend experience," but I realized that what I'm actually appreciating is more of a "friends-with-benefits" experience. I personally don't need the element of romance, but the fact that these guys feel like friends (even though it may be as much of an illusion as any other role) is what keeps me coming back.

I can only speak for myself as a client, but I like when an escort checks out my client profile on RM and then contacts me if he thinks we might be a good fit, whether I've looked at his ad or not. I've had a surprising number of providers do that and I always appreciate it. I've got a long list of things I enjoy as a client, some of which are on the kinkier side. I include at least some of those in my client profile. It's been my experience that many providers are more discreet in their public lists of "Things They're Into" for reasons that absolutely make sense. Since I'm always wanting to respect their boundaries, I almost never ask unless they reach out to me first and open the conversation. Thankfully, many do and they've been some of my best hires. I know many clients feel absolutely the opposite about this. I know I'm probably not going to change and I doubt they will either. I guess it all comes down to which group is larger, is there a way to cater to both groups, and who tips better. 😂 As I was typing this, I realized I should probably review my RM client description and make sure it clearly states that I welcome first contact from those who like what they read.

I can't remember the last time I felt this happy about a piece of news. Some days I'm pretty sure it's all that's keeping me from crawling back into bed and hiding under the blankets. 😂 I'm so looking forward to scheduling time with him as soon as our schedules allow. Maus is absolutely one of my top five men of all time.

Ah, DJ. So glad someone is asking about him. DJ was someone I met up with regularly when I lived in San Francisco. He's one of only two guys with whom I try hard to schedule time when I go back to visit. He's also on my Personal All-Time Top Ten list. Obviously that means I have all great things to say about him and recommend him highly. I've always found him to be friendly, fun, eager to please, and excellent at what he does. He did a lot of film work with Kink.com back in the day, so chances to check that out are pretty easy to find online. For me, he's a great example of a man I think of as "the whole package." As always, your mileage may vary. (I just checked and realized I never actually wrote a review for him on RM. I guess I better get on that.) I'm not familiar with any of your other three choices. Sorry I can't help with those.

I know this isn't the precise scenario you were asking about, but maybe it's close enough to share. When I was first living in NYC in the early '90's, I was hired to teach a workshop in Big Sur every summer. The second year I made the trip, my transportation from LAX to Big Sur broke down and I was stuck overnight at an LAX airport hotel. Bored out of my mind, I called an LA agency whose number I'd brought with me. They strongly recommended one of their guys, but I just wasn't convinced their first choice would be a good fit, so they wound up sending someone else. The meeting was fine, but I honestly can't even remember anything about the second guy. Fast forward to about eight or nine years ago when I moved to Los Angeles and attended my first April Palm Springs weekend where I was introduced to someone who turned out to be the agency's first recommendation for me that night. Haven't stopped kicking myself since and he's now on my list of top five men ever. I try not to make too many wrong decisions in life, but not meeting him years ago is definitely on the list.

Oh God, I surely hope so!

Speaking only for myself, I do prefer a more natural look, but trimming/waxing/sugaring/etc. aren't dealbreakers. Perhaps Your Man In Arlington is correct and it's at least partly a generational thing. I also spent the first 18 years of my life on a farm in the middle of rural Pennsylvania, so not a lot of manscaping happening around those parts during my formative years.